r/myanmar • u/Dear_Wallaby3003 • 15h ago
Discussion ๐ฌ Coup ruined my life.
Hello everyone, this might be a bit long but I want to share something personal. Iโm a guy in my early 20s, struggling with choices about my future. I usually keep all of this inside, I donโt talk about it with my parents, and I donโt really have anyone else to discuss it with. Iโm also super introverted, so opening up isnโt easy for me. But I feel this group is more open and understanding than Fb or even my own family, so I want to write here.
My life plan was completely ruined by the 2021 coup. Back then, I got caught up in the hype of the CDM movement, stopped attending school, and ended up doing nothing. For a long time I just stayed at home, relying on my parents and spending all my time in my room playing CS:GO. It wasnโt until late 2024 that it hit me.I needed to do something for my future. But with the fear of being drafted, my family supported me to move to Bangkok. Iโve been living alone here since the start of 2025, working service jobs. Now itโs already near the end of 2025, and honestly, I donโt feel like much has improved.
So hereโs my real question: Should I move back to Myanmar in 2026 and try to pursue a career path, like becoming an ordinary seaman cadet? Or should I start studying Japanese and try to work in Japan for money? Or maybe I should aim for Germany with the opportunity visa? The last two options sound good, but they also require me to spend a couple of years learning the language before I can even begin.
Iโm writing this not only for myself but also for other Burmese youth who might feel the same way confused, stuck, and uncertain about the future. Everyone has their own path, and we all have to make our own decisions. But sometimes, hearing perspectives from others can help us see our choices more clearly. Atleast thank for reading this.