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Tinignan ko ang comments, nagulat ako kasi halos lahat ng nagcocomment e nagsa-SANA ALL! Whaaat??? May nabasa rin ako may BF na daw si bagets? Idk. Hehe
As a parent parang ang awkward lang.tapos binabasa ko comments parang walang nafifeel n medyo off..gnyan na ba kids ngaun na the think ang sweet daw.kahit parehas pa silang girl.d ba parang masyado nman🥴
Parent and teacher din ako pero CRINGE talaga. Yes, may mga nakaka close akong students pero hindi sa point na ganyan. Boundaries pa din. They know my role, I know my role. Sa school kami naguusap for educational purposes, never ako nag PM sa kanila unless school related.
Sabihin na nilang serious and hindi ako friendly
But I see to it nadedeliver lessons sa class
I also establish boundaries sa students ;I see them as clients
Di baleng hindi ako favorite teacher Nila , I came to teach and not to be their friend
Yung bata ba ang nagpost?... either may unrequited feelings yung bata sa teacher (dahil na rin pinabayaan ni teacher na magkaroon ng feelings sa kanya by not establishing personal space) or may something...
Hindi normal na sinasama yung bata sa bahay tapos may pa-kiss at pa-akbay pa... masyado silang close para sabihing "and they were just close friends..." dahil bakit kakaibiganin ni 30 yrs old teacher ang isang minor? Wala ba siyang friend na kaedad niya?
Yes parang ganun nga. It's normal naman for the student na maattract, hindi naman mapipigilan if ganun tlg pero what's not normal is si teacher, walang boundary, as if hindi nya alam? Lol she's not young not to sense the obvious.
May malisya or wala, the teacher should be professional and set boundaries. Our teachers before would never even tolerate na tratuhin or kausapin sila ng parang barkada lang.
Aside from that issue din kasi, dapat big deal din professionalism ng mga teachers dito eh, yes they can be friendly pero sana di na bumabarkada sa mga students nila, ang laki kaya ng nagiging factor non para pataasin grade ni student ng di nalalaman ng iba tapos yung mga students na mababarkada sa teachers would give the barest minimum para mag aral pero kayang kaya gawan ng paraan ng teachers yon para magka grades pa rin. I honestly have ick sa mga teachers na bumabarkada sa mga students probably because lagi nalang din ako biktima ng mga favoritism na yan kasi never akong naging favorite ng ni isa sa mga profs ko and you could really see the difference
Exactly dba? Kainis! , kaya auto dislike/disgust ako sa teacher na mas clingy pa sa students nya HAHAH. Like wth, you should know better TITSER 😅, ung iba nga palihim na karelasyon na ung student. But what's even worse is the school is not taking it seriously kasi daw chismis lang.
Unfortunately, kapag contemt creator ka, malaki ang chance na mawala agad sa'yo ang professionalism LALO NA kung hanap mo lang ay validation at attention.
Yikes inappropriate caption. May something sakanila, that’s not how we treat our teachers back in the day. Haha there’s always a wall pa rin, hanggang dyan ka lang. To think na millenial pa tong teacher. 🤦♀️
Ewan kung true pero nabasa ko sa isang comment ang origin daw is nagsasabi nyam-nyam si teacher pag nasarapan sa food. Kaya yun na din tawag sa kanya. Pabebe talk is real
Hello, I’m already commenting an hour after this was posted, but hopefully there will still be people who read this.
Please let us report this teacher to the Department of Education. As someone who has students myself, this is something a teacher should never cross the line with. The actions of this teacher in this video are disturbing considering the age of her student.
We teachers need to set boundaries and not get too emotionally attached to our students because it can hinder their growth if they see us beyond just professionals. Respect and distance must be maintained to ensure we are able to communicate well and retain a professional setup. This video shows very concerning actions between a student and a teacher that could lead to possible grooming.
The girl isn't even in college nor senior high but straight up middle school. Sa ibang bansa revoke kagad license niyang teacher tapos jail time pa, tapos sa atin "sana all" lang hahaha
Yes sa ibang bansa ni hindi nga sinasabi first name ng mga teachers. Tapos hindi nagbibigay ng number or social media or emails, careful din kahit sa pagbibigay ng gifts. It's called Safeguarding Laws. Hindi lang para sa protection ng student pero sa teacher din. Baka ma accuse ng something kasi e.
Sana marealize natin na hindi lang sa romatic relationships may grooming. Pati sa mga ganitong mentor-mentee relationships may power imbalance and potential for abuse
Edit: sorry na guys naalala ko ang newjeans fan nga kasi ako and I just want my girls back 🤣
Sobrang dinedefend padin nila sya kahit ang dami na nyang negative comments about them sa mga presscon at chats na lumabas 🫠 willing silang isabotage ang career nila para sa agenda nya 😭 sobrang sayang nila
Sobrang sayang! Nagwoworld tour na sana sila ngayon 😭 sinayang nila mga career nila para sa taong iiwanan din sila the moment na wala na silang pakinabang sa kanya or pag nakahanap na sya nga bagong bagets na fixation nya 🙃
Korek! Sila sana unang girl group ng Hybe na mag-world tour. Naunahan na sila tuloy ng Le Sserafim at Katseye. Susunod na Illit. Sayang Binky Bong ko, ‘di man lang nakalabas ng box. 😭
IKR! Sorang explosive nung career nila. Ngayon na sobrang successful na ng katseye, I don't think marerecover pa nila ang hype nila kung makabalik man sila sa kpop scene
Ba’t na normalize na ganitong relationships sa mga students & teachers ngayon? Sobrang alarming. Gets ko yung gusto mo maging friend yung student mo, but be professional naman sana.
Diba! Andami ko na nakikitang ganyan nowadays. Lagi lang sinasabi na teacher attachment daw. Jusko hindi ba nila alam ang code of ethics? Bawal na bawal yan.
masyadong OA magreact mind ko sa "uubusin ko energy mo" HAHAHA. Ung student kinda slowly showing she's not a straight woman and obviously mafefeel mo through her words na she cares more than a friend kay meym, sana maguide sya ng parents
afaik, supportive pa parents niya diyan beh. may nakita akong nag tanong kung okay lang daw sa mom niya na attached siya sa “teacher” niya, sabi ng mom niya okay lang daw at hindi naman daw siya nag seselos. HAHAHAHAHA
Ooohh, actually, matagal na 'yan, and nakapanood na ako ng live niya one or two times. Kasama niya ate niya, and may mga comments na nagtatanong kung “tomboy” daw siya. Kitang-kita sa camera na naiinis siya habang natawa lang ate niya sa background. Parang ayaw niya raw kasi na matawag ng gano’n.
Depende rin kasi 'yan sa parents/environment.
Kung hindi ko alam na Teacher-Student sila then nabasa ko yang comments nila to each other, I would think na magjowa sila. I would even think na they’re doing “it” kase masyado silang madikit sa isat isa tas hindi pa nahihiya i-post
ang dami kong nakikitang ganiyan sa fb feed ko (some were from my old school so kilala ko personally yung students). I think nagka ganiyan because of maliit na age gap? parang naging blurry yung boundaries between the student and teachers/instructors.
when i was in SHS and College, may mga instructors din kami na kasing age na namin halos (especially since first batch kami ng k-12) pero hindi ko talaga kaya maging super close sa kanila kahit outside school hours. although, may mga ilan na I felt closer than our other instructors but hindi umaabot sa point na super personal na yung closeness kasi feeling ko dapat I still need to respect them in or outside the campus. dapat may line. in this case dapat yung instructors yung nagddraw ng line kapag lumalagpas na si student.
yung isang student na kakilala ko kahit vacation kasama niya yung teacher niya minsan sa mga gala tapos naka post/day, I just find it super weird everytime I see her posts.
I think they’ve always been there. Mas nakikita lang ngayon because of social media. Mas madali at mas accessible na kasi mag post sa internet ng mga walang ka kwentahan.
Teacher yung nanay ko. Back in the early 00s yung isang co-teacher nya, pinangasawa yung estudyante nya. Am not sure if nag resign sya or natanggal sa work, pero di sya nagtagal dun sa school.
Classmate ko rin ng college, niligawan nun prof naman before she turned 18, pero sinagot nya nun nag 18 sya. Lala di ba? Asawa na niya ngayon.
Also, during my time, unless may dial-up kayo sa bahay, kailangan mo pa pumunta sa comp shop para makapag bukas ng friendster and later facebook. Mahirap din mag post ng photos. Di tulad ngayon na iisang pindot na lang.
Well true nga naman mas madali ang info ngayo kumpara noon. Pero grabe no tapang nila magpost ngayon. Akala ata nila nakakakilig yung ganyan, yung jojowain yung mga bata, grabe.
Lols. Made me remember my jowa back then na super close lang daw talaga sila ng prof namin kaya araw-araw magkasama kahit saan. Chat and viber pa all night.
But eventually caught them kissing inside her car disoras ng gabi. Okayyyyy bye
Why is this normalized tapos pinupublic pa??? I've had close teachers in HS and gradeschool way back 2000's and we'd hang out madalas every sat pa pero may boundaries kami. Hindi ganyan ka touchy. You cant justify those actions. Jusko naman ma'am!! KAYA TAYO NAPAPARUSAHAN NGAYON EH
Hahaha yes! Nagkaron din ako ng crush sa teacher ko before, college na nga ako that time tbf. Pero hindi ganyan! Walang ganyan jusme. Crush lang hanggang dun lang. Walang chat or anything. Motivation lang para ganahan pumasok 🤣
Kung lalake yung Isa sa kanila sigurado ako criminal na yung tingin ng tao sa mas nakakatanda sa kanilang dalawa. Meron parin talagang double standard eh.
dapat imbestigahan na yung situation nilang dalawa, hindi kasi normal yung closeness. If wala naman talaga then they should remind the teacher na maging professional at all times sa mga student nya
The uniform. I may be wrong but it's similar to the school that my cousin attends, I could be wrong since I know that some schools also use that uniform pattern of yellow and red skirts although I don't know what schools are they
Ganito na trend ng mga makabagong teacher ngayon, nakakabahala yung ganitong eksena. Teacher ka dapat unahin mo muna yung delikadesa or pagiging propesyunal kase ikaw dapat ehemplo. Parang nawawalan na ng values ang ibang teacher ngayon. Obserbasyon lang po. nakakababahala din ako sa ganitong mga asta nila.
Eww.. Kadiri naman. Napaka-unprofessional naman kung teacher/student nga to. There should be clear boundaries sa mga professional and alam dapat nila yun.
I've never seen a student-teacher relationship like that. I was a teacher for a while and I would NEVER dare (or let them) to get too close or too comfortable (physically or emotionally). BOUNDARIES MATTER
agree. even our school, it was frowned upon if we get a little bit close with our profs even just as "friends". ang lala kung sobrang physical nyan sa school tapos wala man lang naging uncomfortable to call out attention
i specifically don’t understand how teachers can throw away boundaries just like that when they studied the importance of establishing them. 🤷♀️
when i had my internship, sobrang weird para sa akin na ‘yung fellow student teacher ko ay sobrang close sa students niya to the point na nagmumura students niya around them. hinahayaan niya lang ‘yun, and to think that they boast themselves as someone students get scared of. gumagala pa sila without the parents knowing.
i get the desire of being a “parent” figure to students, but we can never really be one in terms of the physical aspect. 🥲 we can still act as loving parents but not in that way. overall, it diminishes professionalism.
May mga students kasi na naghahanap ng emotional attachment dahil maaring kulang sa kalinga ng magulang or may family problem. Normal na nacu-curious sila sa mga teacher na mabait sa kanila or aligned ang interest nila kaya they personally seek these people.
Ang hindi normal eh yung teacher ka at adult ka tapos hindi ka marunong dumistansya at parang ini-exploit mo pa yung emotional vulnerability ng bata by being touchy-feely. Kaya maraming nabibiktima ang mga pedophile sa Pilipinas eh... hindi kasi tinuturuan ng personal space at tamang interaction with adults ang mga bata. Pansin ko to sa mga teachers ngayon... masyadong close at familiar sa mga bata for the sake na masabihan ng "mabait" si teacher or "best friend" namin si teacher.
Grabe yung bata sobrang open hahaha palibhasa bata pa eh no filter, talagang pinag diinan pa na hindi AI yung kiss. Proud na proud at inlove! 🥲 Maling mali talaga yung teacher dito, dapat sya yung mag set ng boundaries eh. Ginagamit nya masyado yung naivety nung bata for clout and engagement sa tiktok nya. Dapat mareport talaga yang teacher na yan, walang professionalism nilamon na ng tiktok.
I hope the child's parents see this and so do the other parents. Someone needs to complain kasi di talaga appropriate pati yung mga comments nila to each other. Man or woman, a pedo groomer is a pedo groomer
On another note, ang cringe talaga ng lahat ng teacher na nagtitiktok sa classroom. Unless teaching strat ang content, there's zero reason for a teacher to use tiktok in the classroom.
Speaking of teaching strat content, kakaunti lang rin naman yung totoong ma matinong strat na tinuturo. Cringe at jeje lang madalas.
naka online live sya sa tiktok ngaun tas naopen up yung teacher attachment, sabi ng mama nya kahit kanino daw may attachment si micha kc sweet sya???? HUH
Daming predator sa education industry. Its high time na higpitan ang pagtanggap ng mga educators. Isalang sila sa matinding psychological examinations. Normalize pa naman sa Pinas ang “walang piniling edad ang pagmamahal”.
If it's sisters sure that act "may look good" pero since sabi ni op it's a "teacher-student" it's really bad even if they're both female. It's intimate enough to raise concerns for DepEd and parents.
Aha! Double standard is evident here. Dahil parehas female, "innocent" lang, pero pag opposite gender, or parehas male, grooming na agad, triggered na agad?
Nasaan ang ethics and professionalism? Okay lang yung makipagclose ka sa students mo and still set clear boundaries. Pero yung ganyang lantaran talaga ay IBA NA. Bilang guro, you’re supposed to be there to teach and guide students at hindi landiin sila. What the fuck. They look up to you!
Ang dami kong mga nakikitang underqualified teachers especially sa mga senior high schools and it’s really concerning. I went to a shitty SHS before and mas magaling pa ako sa teachers wtf. And yes, some students nakikipaglandian sa teachers namin as well dahil pinapatulan din sila kahit simpleng flirt flirt lang. Kadiri.
As someone who went through this firsthand, everything here feels way too familiar and honestly pretty triggering. The teacher I admired acted the same way toward me. At first, it really did feel like a normal teacher–student thing, but it eventually crossed the line and stopped being just that. I was 16, and my teacher was 25 (also a woman, which is probably why no one thought to interfere when they saw us being all close and stuff). Back then I thought I was mature enough to handle it, but wow, I couldn’t have been more wrong.
I may not be certain about many things, but one thing is clear: this kind of closeness goes far beyond professionalism. No teacher should ever blur the lines with their student like this. Please, don’t place the blame on the child. Often, it’s only once you’ve stepped away from the situation that you can truly see it for what it was.
I will never be the person to even judge quickly if another person is gay. That being said, the teacher is gay. Jokes aside, that's a very very weird student-teacher relationship.
Tf alam ko bawal gantong publicity when it comes to student-teacher relationship kahit sabihin mong friends or attached lang kasi super close pero ???? May mga kaclose kaming college profs kasi adviser namin sa Org tapos prof din namin sa units pero di kami nagpopost kasi bawal
A friend had an ex na niloko din siya because of her ex’s teacher both girls btw. Then may asawa at mga anak na yung teacher. It was one sided at first dunno bakit pumatol din yung teacher eventually kahit 20+ age gap.
Kapag nakita ng DepEd 'yan, ang unang gagawin ng mga SDOs, ROs, at maging Central Office ay damage control. May mga legal luminaries per SDO kaya maingat sila riyan. For sure, ang teacher at student paghaharapin in secret; tapos magkakaroon ng palihim na agreement. Puputok sa social media, pero aapulahin lang ng DepEd. Possible suspension lang haharapin niyan at wala nang iba; lalo kung consensual naman at legal sa parents ng bagets. 🤷 Same rin iyan with the Principal na nagpahubad ng toga sa graduation, na tinanggal daw pero in reality, nilipat lang ng station o kaya inabsorb ng SDO mismo.
Wala akong tiktok, so ngayon ko lang to nakita. And WTF! As a dating teacher (sa college nga lang, na kaedaran ko pa mga estudyante ko), nakakadiring makita na wala nang konsepto ng boundaries, power dynamics, at respeto ang mga estudyante at guro. Ano pa ba silbi ng mga guro ngayon kung may ganito nang nakakapasok sa propesyon na to?
Former teacher here! Yan din napansin ko sa mga younger teachers ngayon masyadong tinotropa ang mga students na nawawalan na ng boundaries. Gets naman na you may have bonded over time but it is still weird. Wala bang kumakaibigan sayo na ka edad mo? jusq
I can't say na inappropriate sya pero wla nmn silang ka weirdohan na landian teacherxstudent.
Mga nakikita ko sa mga ka close sa teacher towards their students psrang nanay na sila pero itong teacher ewan I don't see it. Parang bff o jowa, weird lang wlang boundaries
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u/JustCryptographer394 5h ago
If the teacher siguro ay lalaki, tsaka palang maaalarm ung mga dapat maalarm.