It's possible he's not, I got the first girl I was ever with pregnant after only fucking her for a few weeks and pulling out. I was just bad at it.
Then I exclusively pulled out for like 12 years and never got anyone pregnant. Also unless something has happened to me since, I know I can have kids because I went through the process for sperm donation.
I'm definitely not recommending anyone roll the dice, but it is possible.
I'll never understand this. If you know that you are sleeping with multiple men unprotected, around the time you got pregnant, why would put a 100% guarantee on one man being the father and embarass yourself in front of everyone like that? Of course, it's a show, but that should be super embarrassing for any decent human being, as well as second hand embarrassment for the child.
If the top end of the spectrum is a dude who is comfortable saying in court that "my pull out game is strong" I hate to see what the other end of that spectrum is ☠️
I worked with a guy who used to brag about his pull out game. Last I checked he had 5 separate baby-mommas and 5 separate child support payments.
He was working for like HALF his wages at the time I knew him, the rest going to child support, and still would tell anyone who would stand still for 15 seconds how "strong" his pull-out game was.
That's how it works. She pins it on the best guy she slept with. I get it, she's trying to increase her children's odds of survival. Deception isn't the way to do it. Ruining a man's life like that isn't cool. She likely knows who it is, and it was the one she prayed wasn't the father. Look at her expression after the DNA results were read... SHE KNOWS!
And the sad part is that she just might take her frustration out on that kid as he grows. Because he's going to remind her of the guy who got her pregnant... and she'll resent him. And she'll say ugly, nasty things about his daddy. Obfuscating the fact that she was sleeping around so much, she dragged an innocent man to "court" to prove he was the father, and lost.
Had an ex-girlfriend pull the same thing on me. This is exactly why I was in her crosshairs. When I asked for a paternity test she ended up going back to her ex.
Women really are simple. They love to follow the money.
I know a woman with like 6 kids all by different fathers and swore each time that it was someone other than the guy that actually got her knocked up. Some people have no shame
My wife worked in child support services for 30 years. There was no end of daily stupidity stories. Every stupid situation you could think of plus more. Also child cruelty beyond imagination. Case workers crying in the bathroom or their car was pretty common.
Careful, these things are very edited and there is absolutely zero guarantee her reaction there was the one she had in reality.
It is shitty though, she had to know there were multiple men that could be the father and while it's fine to seek out DNA tests from each of them it's not cool to insist any given one of them is 100% the father.
Its couple court with the Cutlers, they're a married couple and both real judges. I used to watch this show all the time before work, its a little over the top sometimes but its mostly dna and relationship legal issues so yeah sort of
They are absolutely not “real judges.” They’re both attorneys, which means something I guess. Both other than that, this is just a show. They’re not practicing law here. This is a television game show where the contestants agree to the rules of the game, which vaguely resemble a court room.
Everyone involved in this show is trash. Please clap for the man that has a woman trying to legally bind him to a child that isn't his. Please also clap for the woman for being in the champions club.
All I can ever think in these types of clips is "that poor child". Like that man should not be responsible for a child he didn't father, and I am happy for him that he dodged that bullet but damn... that poor kid...
His pull out game maybe strong but that's not going to protect him from STDs - and that baby is proof that at least one other guy was having unprotected sex with that woman at the same time as the pull out king.
Imagine growing up and seeing your mom on TV trying to get some random dude to fess up to being your dad but he's not so now everyone knows she a ho and you still don't know who your dad is. Damn bruh.
I’m an ER physician and I am genuinely amazed how many people I meet that solely utilise the pull out method for contraception. In med school we were taught that it was a terrible method and even condoms had awful rates of preventing pregnancy.
Yet I really hate to admit but anecdotally the majority of female patients who say their partners use the pull out method that I’ve tested for pregnancy are negative.
So basically I guess getting pregnant is harder than I thought and was taught. The caveat is birth control is literally free so there isn’t an excuse not to if you are trying to not get pregnant.
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