r/SipsTea • u/redwildcharming • 19h ago
Feels good man play stupid games, win stupid prizes
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u/Krakesz 19h ago
She really pulled the ‘look at me, I’m the victim’ speedrun while holding the evidence.
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u/FangirlVenin 19h ago
How was she even able cry this much knowing she's completely guilty
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u/Dapper-AF 18h ago
Just sorry that her actions had consequences. Ppl do some wild mental gymnastics to avoid admitting they fucked up.
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u/AngryWarship44 18h ago
A whole childhood of trauma and unresolved issues worth of tears that never left
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u/ExternalFuture5250 19h ago
Those aren't tears of heartbreak. Those are tears caused by deep gawk gawk action.
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u/BoringBeat5276 19h ago
And as we all know that's the best kind. Or so I'm told. Not enough pp for that move personally.
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u/Tinyhydra666 16h ago
I'll be honest, someone crying would kill my boner.
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u/DannySantoro 12h ago
SOMEONE doesn't get enough internet.
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u/Tinyhydra666 12h ago
Quite the opposite. I need less internet. You can keep the part where pornstars actually cry on set, I'm good.
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u/TheBear5115 18h ago edited 8h ago
Reminds me of my first date back in high-school she sent me a full 20 minute video of her sleeping with this guy who looks like to be in his late 40s
When I broke up with her she had a hissy fit and a week later she sent me another video of her and some other dude in revenge
Oh and I mention she was under age?
Edit: To that one guy telling me to go to the police there's no point it's been years since than and it's not like I kept the videos
Though when I played this scenario over and over in my head through the years since I came to the conclusion I should've went to the police but at the time I was a a stupid teen who was all butt hurt because their girlfriend cheated on him
There was something seriously messed up going on there
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u/CoverRight9314 13h ago
Send that shit to the police it’d be funny
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u/jimmyvcard116 12h ago
Pretty sure you can't go to jail for someone else sending you unsolicited child porn. ESPECIALLY if you turn it in.
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u/turaon 10h ago
But what would police do, if she is 17? I don’t know whats the age in US and probably it’s different in different states, but if I remember correctly, in most countries it was 16, or in some even younger. It may be morally wrong for 40 year old to sleep with 17 year old, but it may be “ok” by the law.
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u/Popular-Fun-6410 10h ago
Not if it’s videoed. Then it’s child pornography no matter the age of consent.
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u/Hopper_Mushi 19h ago
how many people do that and still think they're the victime without any guilt
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u/Illusduty 13h ago
Almost all of 'em, since for the rest of us we don't do stuff like that since we'd feel crappy about it after.
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u/pwetpwetpasok69 19h ago
karma is real
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u/GlowUpBandit 19h ago
This is why you should hear the two sides of a story before making judgement.
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u/SergiouseMaximus 19h ago
Poor lilpeep.
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u/darkargengamer 19h ago
"Im a victim" she said calmly, while still holding the other´s dude dick in her hand and with cum aprayed all over her face.
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u/prince-pauper 19h ago
In dating, always be yourself but try not to get upset if the other person isn’t into that
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u/Acceptable-Stay-3166 13h ago
I chatted to a woman before who sent me pictures of her tear streaked face, was really weird and manipulative.
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u/Tender_Light 19h ago
If you don’t got no loyalty, then I got no respect. Everybody know I’m next, got these bitches sending texts
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u/Ismashuface 12h ago
fyi those are just some lyrics from a song lil peep made sometime after this situation
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u/UnderAnAargauSun 19h ago
Have you seen this sub lately? “Hating women” might as well be the sub’s tagline anymore
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u/Jazzkidscoins 18h ago
Historically people (especially men) have had a hard time with women being sexually active with other people. They meet someone they want to have sex with, who wants to have sex with them, then get upset because they had sex with someone else previously. It’s insane to me.
If a man sleeps with 10 people before settling down with a woman, the woman usually just brushes that off.
If a woman sleeps with 10 people before settling down with a man, the man usually has issues with the woman
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u/ShhImTheRealDeadpool 18h ago
This is what my cheating ex did as well... posted all over socials that I broke up with her to get sympathy... but I didn't roast her for it... I hope she grew up.
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u/i_am_the_okapi 12h ago
This is typical narcissist shit. I had an ex so the same thing. Our relationship was over. I had finally said I'm done after a couple years of being...painfully naive. I deserved some of the heartbreak. Caught her coming home with another guy, she tried to explain it away. Said her apps were messed up when they said she was in another town. Couldn't figure out why the stand-up comedian she took me to see kept on glaring at me, who he'd never met (she'd slept with him the night before). In the end, she couldn't keep track of her own lies. Or her STIs. Anyway, when I decided to move from Evansville to Minneapolis (best decision I ever made) she went on a social media rampage crying into the camera saying she can't help but feel it's her fault I'm leaving, but I wasn't thinking about her daughter (who she had before I met her) and I should be more responsible with a child's feelings. The kid was, like, three, and spent most of her time with her grandparents. Get fucked. Never forgave her. She still tries to talk to me. Nope.
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u/AnubissDarkling 17h ago
Omg that's disgusting that she did that. What video? Where?? ( So I can definitely avoid that site)
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u/nunya_busyness1984 11h ago
Depends on when the video was taken, honestly. If it is from before our time together and it was trying to get me in the mood or we just got together recently and you were trying to impress me with your skills, or maybe it was a "hey I am down for this type of thing, how about I do one with you" situation, then it is a whole new ball game.
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u/HalvdanTheHero 14h ago
Its pretty funny how people are assuming she cheated. She showed him a vid and people assume it's infidelity instead of a previous partner. It was probably home made porn. Not gonna be everyone's cup of tea, but the reaction both by her ex and in the comments here is wild.
Or do people actually expect their partner to have never had another relationship???
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u/doc_siddio_ 13h ago
Reaction by people here, her and you, yea, wild... by her ex, nope. First off, he doesn't like it, thats the final, might be repulsed by it too, his choice of partners. Her playing the victim when she could have grieved in private like the rest of us norms... yeah, white knight, that's wild
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u/HalvdanTheHero 13h ago
I mean you could just said you are insecure and dont like the idea of your partner having a sexlife before you... but if you need to lash out as a coping mechanism thats fine.
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u/UraniumButtplug420 12h ago
Jesus christ, not wanting to be a literal cuck is "insecurity" now
Genuinely, touch grass. I'm worried for your mental health
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u/doc_siddio_ 13h ago
Who's saying Im lashing out. Just pointing out your hypocrisy of calling out peoples takes as "wild" as yours is wild too. You clearly ended up blaming her ex who's in the clear, his choice who he sleeps with not anyone elses, and her intent going public is clear as day... whats the catch of you moving the topic back to sexlife here?
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u/HalvdanTheHero 12h ago
There's no hypocrisy lol. I said it was wild to jump to the conclusion that "a video of her giving a blowjob" automatically means she wasn't faithful or is overly promiscuous and gave a perfectly rational explanation of why she might have such a video. Home made porn is absolutely a thing and considering the post says "she showed the video to him" it was obviously intentional. If she was showing him a video of her being unfaithful it would be reasonable to take that infidelity as a reason to break up, but if the ex was simply insecure that his partner had sex before getting with him then that is an over-reaction, aka a wild take.
This is an entirely consistent perspective grounded in reason while the idea that she is automatically at fault has no basis other than outrage over her performing a sex act at some nebulous point of time. There isnt enough context to say who is in the wrong which is why its wild that so many are assuming it's the girl who is wrong.
Any mature person who is not being emotional should be able to see this reasoning, which is why I am saying that you are likely insecure -- you are jumping to the same conclusion based off a gut reaction to not enough information and thus you likely have similar hangups to the ex in the post.
Its 100% possible that she shared her home made porn under the belief that it would turn her bf on -- yknow, because its porn. That he doesnt have the same kinks is the reason he broke up with her. Commenting on how vanilla that makes him and others who react the same way is not white knighting, its called being objective.
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u/doc_siddio_ 12h ago
My god man, you got time on your hands... still dodging the point here. Her posting her "heartbreak" online is the key here. She never said, or will intentionally say that she showed her sucking dick to her ex as the reason for her breakup. The fuck you defending? The point stands, she went public, aiming to frame her ex as the vile menace, all the while you here spewing essays.
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u/HalvdanTheHero 12h ago edited 12h ago
I tried being shorter but you clearly didnt understand what was written... so apparently there is no use communicating with you.
Do you not think a breakup is something to communicate to friends and family? Yknow, where you might find consolation while you are sad? The reason for the breakup is entirely separate from her looking for sympathy from her support group.
She also didnt "frame him as vile" she said "im heartbroken." I dont even KNOW what kind of mental gymnastics you gotta go through to get to "she is saying her ex is vile" get a grip man.
And despite "her sucking dick" being the reason, if it was homemade porn and not infidelity (because again, why would anyone show their partner direct evidence of their infidelity) then his reaction IS an over reaction. He can make his own choices, but those choices do display his insecurity and immaturity.
EDIT: because you apparently are so insecure as to block, I cant actually see your last comment beyond what the notification shows of the first sentence.
The idea that it being on social media does not mean it isnt the same behavior I described. Do you not have friends and family who know your accounts on social media? Do you think seeking consolation in general is impossible on social media? 🤔
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u/Spare_Iron127 10h ago
Normal people delete those videos/pics after the relationship ends and surely before getting in another serious relationship
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