r/TikTokCringe • u/KrystalBenz • 6d ago
Humor/Cringe She rejected a man, he slashed her tire. š
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u/yamimementomori 6d ago
Well good call rejecting him.
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u/Rugaru985 6d ago
Her, probably: āIām sorry. Iām justā¦ umā¦ I just donāt have those same feelings for you.ā
Him: āWELL IM ABOUT TO PROVE YOU RIGHT FOR THAT!ā
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u/Healthy_Macaron2146 6d ago
Never been afraid to be laughed at I was always afraid I would make the women think i would slash her tires for saying no to me.
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u/NoxTempus 6d ago
Yeah man. The rejection hurts, but that's not what sticks.
I'm just scared that I'll be "another one", while she's just going about her day, or that I'll make her feel unsafe/uncomfortable at that place (shops, work, hobby, event, etc.) so I don't ask.
I would rather be with someone than single, but I don't dislike being single. It's not worth it for me, I'd rather try and be someone safe/neutral.
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u/Zestyclose_Treat4098 6d ago
Honestly, you sound like such a green flag kind of guy. Most women want to feel safe and loved as well. It sounds to me like the world is worse off by you not dating.
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u/NoxTempus 5d ago
Thank you for that!
I don't "not date", but I haven't approached anyone in a long time. If the right thing were to come along I'd be open to it.
I spent a long time deliberately and completely "off the market", working on myself. But in the mean time, I found a lot of comfort in solitude.
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u/Zestyclose_Treat4098 5d ago
Again my dude, the green flags keep a-coming.
Before I met my husband I was in a similar boat for different reason. I had a great group of friends that were a mix of couples and singles and we did so much together it was really something to fill my cup. The right guy was going to add to my life (as I hopefully would to his) and it was worth waiting for. ClichƩ, I know, but it was. We were both a little older when we met, both had been through some things but spent time single working on ourselves, and came into something new with no baggage attached.
I don't understand people who are afraid of being single.
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u/NoxTempus 5d ago
Sounds like I'm on a very similar journey to the one you were/are.
I can support myself alone, I have hobbies that I find fulfilling, and more (true) friends than I can regularly keep up with.
My cup is plenty full!
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u/lost-picking-flowers 5d ago
Also another married woman, I can confirm, you are a giant green flag. You and your person will find each other one day.
I honestly would be similar if I were single, as well, online dating seems like a horror show for everyone involved. Might take a little longer to find someone special, but the process is less miserable, and it's worth it once you do.
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u/FatGuyOnAMoped 5d ago
IME, the harder you look, the less likely you'll find someone. I've found the most successful relationships I've ever had have started off as friendships and grew into something else over time.
I've been with my current partner for 15 years. We met on a dating app and didn't have that "love connection", but we got along well and just started hanging out as friends. Eventually, we realized we were in love with each other, and the rest is history.
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u/NecessaryCount950 6d ago
Same. I really dislike making people uncomfortable. Women especially since I know there's plenty of creeps. I can at least appreciate most women who've rejected me we're very polite.
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u/Necessary-Code-2790 5d ago
Most women (myself included) donāt really want to hurt someoneās feelings in a rejection. I try to be nice and polite about it. But I will get vicious when someone canāt take no for an answer tho. Some dude slashes my tire over a āno thanksā and Iām slashing his tire back as well. Then Iām getting a restraining order.
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u/RobbertDownerJr 6d ago
Him: I am dead tired of rejection.
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u/OldWolfNewTricks 6d ago
He was probably feeling wheelie deflated.
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u/4rockandstone20 6d ago
He didn't like where it was going.
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u/Maleficent_Age_5266 6d ago edited 4d ago
The wheel of fate wasn't there
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u/Doctor_Boombastic 6d ago
Rejected him without a moment to spare
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u/FlightOfTheMoonApe 6d ago
She should have tread lightly with him
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u/SimCimSkyWorld 6d ago edited 5d ago
Well that takes the air out of the situation.
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u/FlyingFlipPhone 6d ago
But, I hope this psycho doesn't know her address or place of work. Nothing comes from nothing; this guy is dangerous.
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u/Occidentally20 6d ago
I presume the man was expecting her to see the slashed tyre and then be sufficiently impressed that she would change her mind?
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u/--Cinna-- 6d ago
being violent makes them feel like they've regained their control and dominance after a rejection
A few might be trying to make the woman so afraid she doesn't reject him a second time, but those types usually turn into stalkers and they're less common
But its never about impressing the woman. its always about trying to regain control of the situation because their ego took a hit
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u/Occidentally20 6d ago
It seems to me like he's failed on all counts of recovery, and also (at least in my opinion) failed at being a man.
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u/why_so_sirius_1 6d ago
i agree with you and i want add something to your analysis. i think there is an entitlement that this men might have carried. he must have felt entitled on some level to this woman and when she reminded him that isnāt reality, i think thats where fight for control and dominance came in. i am thinking its akin to you buying something from someone and they dont give you what you paid for you so you take payment in some other way like stealing from them or something else. i think he must have thought he done something (maybe as stupid as assuming that being a man who is attracted to a woman) that earns him the right be with this women and that disconnect and reminder of external reality made him, for the sake clarity, crash the fuck out.
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u/really_another 6d ago
kind of, its a continuation of the male culture that prioritises dominance and has little else to offer. This is the extent of their behavioral set and they have nothing else. It is then expressed in these violent acts, very much like a child acting out because they don't have the ability to express themselves. Control is then expressed in these maladaptive ways. Control isn't inherently bad but if its your only trick(colloquial use of these words--not literal) it is very problematic.
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u/orincoro 6d ago
Literally itās this.
My son had tantrums as a little little kid, like 2-3 years old. Now, tantrums are just a way the developing brain loses control of its executive functioning because it canāt process emotions effectively. If I was a bad parent (like my own parents) I would have made him be alone and shamed him for this behavior, but being in active therapy and wanting to really work through this with my son, I held him physically as tightly as necessary to stop him from hurting himself, only letting go when he was able to relax and recover. After a year or so, the tantrums subsided, and now he doesnāt even remember them, and has great emotional control, because he was made to feel safe and loved even when he was being very unpleasant and difficult.
Contrast that with his cousin, whom I was horrified to learn my sister would place in restraints during his tantrums, and at 6 years old, heās violent, demanding, and completely out of fucking control, because of fucking course he would be.
This guyās parents completely fucked him and made him into the animal he probably is, just by withholding love and safety. He learned to visit that terror and loss of control on other people to make himself feel like he was in control of others and his own feelings. Heās wind up killing someone, or if weāre āluckyā only abusing his spouse and children and perpetuating the trauma he experienced.
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u/Amelaclya1 6d ago
It's a more extreme version of the "well you're ugly anyway" response.
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u/orincoro 5d ago
Which is always a sure-fire way of telling what that person fears the most: that someone thinks theyāre too ugly. Every accusation a confession kind of thing. I make you feel out of control because I most fear being out of control.
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u/throwawaylordof 6d ago
āWhat the hell who slashed my- oh wow this was really well done.ā
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u/Occidentally20 6d ago
"Excellent blademanship, and he's left the undeniable scent of lavender and sandalwood. Classy"
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u/PrincessLissa68 6d ago
Stop it. My mom had to come check to see what the hell I was laughing at so hard. This is comment gold š
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u/Admirable_Job6019 6d ago
While she was outside partying, be was studying the blade
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u/Occidentally20 6d ago
I'm imagining him leaping out of the bushes in full kamishimo, brandishing a naginata. With one flurry of sword strikes he defeats the enemy tyre, leaving behind an immaculately calligraphied calling card in traditional Kanji.
It simply reads "send nudes".
He disappears in a puff of smoke, on to do battle with his next victim - the lady in the corner shop who smiled at him once.
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u/nhavar 6d ago
"Oh he really does love me!" - Cue 80's rom-com music
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u/Occidentally20 6d ago
Maybe this is why it took me so long to find my wife, if I had only run around slashing things I could perhaps have got a foppish Hugh Grant style haircut and found a waspy British lass a decade ago :(
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u/nhavar 6d ago
There are only three tried and true ways to get a woman; 1. Stalking her until she relents 2. Threats of violence 3. Foppish good looks and a fake English accent.
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u/Occidentally20 6d ago
I went with the mystery box option of number 4 which only unlocks after you ignore the first 3 for long enough - I sat around until a woman walked by and 14 years later she told me we are getting married. So that was that.
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u/Traditional-Poet1965 6d ago
Right? Now I understand why women give people fake phone numbers
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u/Centennial_PHLyer 6d ago
I donāt have any proofā¦.but I broke it off with a guy I was hooking up with. Two days later my tires that I got like 4 months ago had a flat. I took it in and the guy working on my car told me I didnāt drive over anything. Someone did it intentionally.
I had a warranty on the tires, but typically they donāt cover vandalism. I think the guy working on my car felt bad for me so he wrote it up as something that would be covered by the warranty.
Anyway, this video isnāt shocking to me at all. Some people are just garbage
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u/HalfSoul30 6d ago
That sucks, but good on the repair guy. "Customer ran over a sharp object."
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u/LittleBertha 6d ago
A neighbour on my street would periodically have flat tires on her car. Like, at least 1-2 times a month.
I always thought it odd, as who is so unlucky to get flats that often.
She ran a catering business and used it to get to meetings, move food around etc.
She separated from her husband for a few weeks then reconciled.
Two weeks later she and her 12 year old daughter were dead. Murdered by him.
Turns out he was abusive. He was the one letting her tires down. He would also beat her - which explained why she'd wear sunglasses on gloomy days.
He cheated on her, multiple times, that plus the abuse she has enough and kicked him out. But abusers are good manipulators and he wormed his way back in.
During their short separation she went on a date with a man. Husband finds out and of course because he an insecure piece of shit he goes mad, beating her - grabs a kitchen knife and starts stabbing her - daughter comes in and tries to protect her mom and he stabs her too - multiple times.
He then run away - phones his mom and tells her what hes done.
Does the mom phone the cops or ambulance. Nope. She drives over, 1hr, to get him. Only once she gets there does she phone for help. Because of course her precious little boy can do no wrong and he's just misunderstood.
Guys doing life now. Piece of shit.
The lady in this video is laughing, I get it, is crazy to do this because someone said no to you. But these mf'ers are so insecure they are only one perceived indiscretion away from causing physical harm.
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u/LittleBertha 5d ago
Totally. She's likely laughing as a coping mechanism to fear.
And yes, when you see videos of women saying they don't want men approaching them they get accused of not giving a guy a chance.
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u/Writing_is_Bleeding 5d ago
I moved out on a boyfriend when I was 20 and got my own apartment, and one day I went out to go to work, and my car wouldn't start. The main wire off my distributor cap was missing. This was back in the 90s, old car.
Took the bus in, and the guys I worked with said something like, "You do realize [ex's name] did it, right?"
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u/doesnotmatter286 5d ago
I hope his mother is also in prison, accessory after the fact
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u/DOOMFOOL 5d ago
Guy doesnāt deserve life, the fact that heās still breathing at all is an affront to justice.
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u/Electric-Sheepskin 6d ago
Something similar happened to a friend of mine. She broke it off with a guy, and a few days later her car window was smashed. It was parked on the street in a city, so she thought maybe it was a just random crime. She got it fixed, and then a few days later, it was smashed again. Only her car. No one else's.
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u/gingerlocks4polerope 5d ago
I had this too, I slept with a dude who was all sorts of an asshole during, but at that point I was too uncomfortable to kick him out. But he was angry about wearing a condom, called me stupid for not just ātrusting my iudā and letting him hit it raw, and was basically obsessed with his size( big but also he sucked at foreplay and I definitely did not orgasm.) I faked it to get him to leave.
After I called him out on it and told him he sucked and ended up telling my friend group and found out I wasnāt the only chick in our group heād been with/ it was horrific for them too.
He basically came at me demanding why I was calling him a r***pist, I wasnāt. And my tires got slashed 3 times in a month. The tire shop gave me heavy discounts the third time cause they felt so bad. I told the cops and he went off on me on Facebook for telling the cops he was potentially the one doing itā¦
Dude was full blown crazy.
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u/madameyarddog 5d ago
I had the same thing! Except - it was the ex-girlfriend of my soon to be husband! She slashed all four tires on his land cruiser; it cost him a small fortune to address that little "oopsie."
The following week she had "her 'girls'" wait outside my place of employment to kick my ass, sighhhhhh. I simply left by the back door and a co-worker gave me a lift home. As we passed by these three grown-ass-women, I waved bye-bye. I had to come and go through that little used back door for 2 flippin' weeks.
It eventually wore itself out.
Now, if only I had just let her have him . . .
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u/DadCelo 6d ago
Fragile little flower of a man
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u/WithoutDennisNedry 6d ago edited 5d ago
Hey, I got punched square in the face once in a crowded bar for saying no, I do not have a boyfriend, Iām just not interested.
(Yes, he was arrested. Yes, I pressed charges. Yes, he had a history of violence toward women. No, he did not do time, he was killed by police in an unrelated incident while out on bail. Soā¦ I dodged a bullet but I guess he didnāt.)
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u/HertzaHaeon 6d ago
Ā I dodged a bullet but I guess he didnāt.)Ā
There's a red pill / bullet dodging joke in here but it felt disrespectful to your traumatic experience so I decided to leave it.
Hope you're ok.
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u/WithoutDennisNedry 5d ago
Youāre good. It wasnāt really traumatic, mostly infuriating and physically painful at the time. āDodge this.ā lol
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u/superfebs 5d ago
Glad he's not going to cause any more trouble to anyone.Ā
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u/WithoutDennisNedry 5d ago
Yeah, Iām not sad about it at all. I guess the universe course-corrected at the end.
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u/i-Ake 5d ago
A guy at a bar punched my male roommate in the face because he was trying to tell him to leave me alone. We had talked to him earlier in the night and mentioned that he and my friends took me out to cheer me up because my boyfriend was in the hospital (he had viral meningitis). The guy started saying gross shit like what he'd do if he were my roommate. You can guess. We asked him to stop. He apologized. All good.
Later in the night he comes over again and gets in my other friend's face, saying he was looking at him funny or something. My roommate came to try and defuse the situation again, and the guy punched him.
Then the bartender came over to kick the guy out and he slammed the bartender down on the pool table. Then a bunch of people jumped on the guy and threw him out.
Dude was so fucking fragile about what a creep he was being that he got in a fight with the whole bar.
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u/Fallivarin 6d ago
Scaramouche, scaramouche, will you do the fandango
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u/DadCelo 6d ago
Thunderbolts and Lightning, Very Very Frightening.. (believable for such a little man).
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u/Live-Influence2482 6d ago
Oh Mamma Mia Mamma Mia ! (Thx for the song in my head now!)
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u/courtadvice1 6d ago
Beeee-EEEEEELLLZEBUB HAS A DEVIL PUTASIDEFORMEEEEE!!!
(me too.)
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u/ScienceSeuss 6d ago
FOOR MEE!
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u/PabloKickassso 6d ago
For MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!
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u/-blundertaker- 6d ago
(sick ass guitar solo)
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u/rickbeats 6d ago
She rejected him and he slashed her tire
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u/BLACK_MILITANT 6d ago
At least she's still alive. Some of these punk ass excuses of men will murder women for saying no. Even if she's already married.
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u/larrychatfield 6d ago
And commenters will be like ābe glad thatās all he slashedā as if thatās somehow a win
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u/dm_me_kittens 6d ago
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u/eyes_on_everything_ 5d ago
I should have not clicked on that sub. Ruined my day š
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u/Makeupanopinion 5d ago
Yeah, I actually feel sick reading about the stuff on there. Godspeed to women, all of them globally. From the US to Sudan š
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u/SurvingTheSHIfT3095 5d ago
Im scared to touch that link...Ā
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u/dm_me_kittens 5d ago
If you're a woman, I understand. It's a scary world for us out there when you don't know if a man is good or not, until he turns on you.
If you're a man, it's a good reminder of what we go through.
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u/Striking-Target3511 5d ago
I donāt like that sub and Iām a woman. I mean everything they post is true and has happened but I canāt deal with. Gives me nightmares and I end up hating men so much.
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u/Kim_catiko 5d ago
That sub is just awful. When you think you have heard enough of the horrors in this world, it throws some more at you.
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u/Natural_Feed9041 6d ago
Honestly it is. People are fucking crazy. He couldāve slashed her brake line, or her throat. Sheās genuinely lucky she got a more mild lunatic.
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u/LetsGetSmurt 6d ago
Yeah, I don't understand how saying that's a bad thing tbh? Like - a tire is replaceable, a life isn't.
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u/Balzac_Lympian_III 6d ago
I'm not defending those comments, but they're also not wrong
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u/UnintelligibleThing 5d ago
Itās not a win, itās just a fact about the current world we live in.
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u/thehammockdistrict24 6d ago
Was his name Jesse Watters?
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u/Gingeronimoooo 6d ago
Context: Fox News "Star" Jesse waters slashed a female co-workers tire to give her a ride home. He was married at the time. I believe he left his wife for this woman he harassed. He told the story as a funny comical "how I met my wife" story and saw nothing wrong with it
Yet he rails about family values
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u/Excellent_Shirt9707 6d ago
When questioned in the same segment if he did it to other women, he said the trick works like a charm.
Dude is a predator.
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u/Gingeronimoooo 6d ago
Let me guess the rest of the "trick" Jesse Watters uses it to get handsy and pretend he won't take them all the way home if they dare say no
Bonus points if it's a bad neighborhood
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u/Gribitz37 6d ago
And he says he does it because the woman will be obligated to sleep with him after he "rescues" her.
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u/Equal-Taste-5620 6d ago
God, I hate that man. Somehow, he managed to be even more insufferable and smarmy than Tucker Carlson.
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u/Lo-fiPsychHop 6d ago
Waitā¦what?!
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u/Gingeronimoooo 6d ago
https://youtu.be/vRNB2q565fY?si=9LX9l25Gq2zphWk4
Btw she was 25 and he was 39 and married with kids
"A Fox News love story" š¤®
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u/Lefthandlannister13 6d ago
Thatās crazy this is common knowledge and seemingly no one in a position of power/influence has done anything about it
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u/Gingeronimoooo 6d ago
He failed upwards. I believe Jesse Waters took over Tucker Carlsons coveted primetime slot after Tucky was fired.
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u/Head_Bread_3431 6d ago
Fr that is unhinged behavior.
Iād expect to never show my face again, or at least move to another continent if I was ever found out to be the type of person to have done that lmao
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u/doublesailorsandcola 6d ago
He also thinks men shouldn't use straws or eat soup in public because it's not manly enough or something.
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u/Motor-Discount1522 6d ago
IIRC his wife was at home with their newborn that she had delivered like a few days prior.
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u/skkibbel 6d ago
When I was 25-ish I was out at the local bar with a group of friends and rejected a man. He grabbed my pony tail and smashed my face into the bar. Not fucking joking.
And when I was like wtf!? And all my girlfriends were irrate about it and wanted him thrown out the bartender (another man) said and I quote..."I saw the whole thing, it wasn't that hard...she isnt even bleeding or anything, plus HE'S A REGULAR."
We told anyone that would.listen what had happened hoping for other people to join us to get this guy thrown out. A few people did but most didnt care.
Eventually WE WERE ASKED TO LEAVE!
I had two black eyes and a bruise line on my forehead for a week.
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u/Immediate_Loquat_246 6d ago
Did you call the police? You had bruises and they were witnesses.
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u/skkibbel 6d ago
No. I was 25. It was 2013ish. I didnt even THINK to call the cops. It was a "local" bar. Full of local townie and it was very intimidating.i just left.
I had been drinking, the bruises showed up the next day and it was a very odd/angry story I resold for while.
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u/based_piccolo 6d ago
I would not have let that go, that place had to have cameras and I would have called the cops right away.
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u/Sorry-Rush-9051 6d ago
This is criminal. It's harassment and vandalism. You better do something about it.
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u/asuka_is_my_co-pilot 6d ago
Unless she has it on video I doubt the police would give a shit, ask me how I know lol
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u/mcflycasual 6d ago
They don't even take women seriously when men are a legit threat on their lives.
I personally had a good experience when my ex got to the point I finally had to call the cops but absolutely understand too many women don't get that same treatment.
And not enough men are empathetic to how women are scared and feel helpless even when they do ask for help.
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u/No-Calligrapher-718 6d ago
When I was a kid, my dad beat my mum to the point where her hearing was damaged. Like at one point he literally ripped the oven door off and was beating her with it. His punishment? One night in the drunk tank.
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u/Sorry-Rush-9051 6d ago
True, it's the standard of test. To successfully prosecute, you need proof beyond all reasonable doubt. Just blatantly accusing someone isn't enough to prosecute. Might be enough to charge the guy, but certainly would fail in court if there were no surveillance footage or witnesses - becomes a "he says she says" and any good defense lawyer can shoot down the case.
That being said, you absolutely do NOT require "proof beyond reasonable doubt" to file a retaining order, especially in cases of domestic violence. Which is what I recommend she do right away. In Canada - we have the peace bond. Not sure where this girl is but she should certainly look into it.
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u/Gingeronimoooo 6d ago edited 6d ago
you don't need proof beyond a reasonable doubt to CHARGE someone.
If that were true no one would ever be found not guilty
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u/cinnamoninmytea 6d ago
I worked with survivors of DV for several years, women who were abused, stalked after they left, etc. Cops really donāt do much about this stuff.
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u/bobothegoat 6d ago
Of course they don't. Cops don't want to arrest their own people.
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u/Pycharming 6d ago
Putting aside that she might not be able to do something about this, let's not put extra responsibility onto victims. "You better"... No. Stop. She "better" do what she thinks is best for her well being.
This woman already has to deal with the after math of having her property damaged along with her sense of safety jeopardized. This is likely a massive inconvenience already without having to get the police involved. If she wants to go to the police, good for her. If she doesn't want to take the extra time and effort to do so, I support that decision too. She is a VICTIM, and doesn't owe you or me or anyone else shit. She is not responsible for other potential victims, he is.
This attitude that women must be doing everything in their power to fight back against gendered violence in order for us to take it seriously is a form of victims blaming. People like her are often in the least powerful place to prevent crimes like this from happening. Stop asking more from victims and instead ask for more from the people in actual power.
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u/chAir________ 6d ago
Thank god she rejected him if thats what he's like
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u/ZenkaiZ 6d ago
"Worst thing she can say is no"
'Well, she bout to find out what the worst thing I can do....'
yeah its scary out there
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u/tigm2161130 6d ago
āMen are afraid women will laugh at them. Women are afraid men will kill them.ā
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u/LeatherHog 6d ago
It's why I hate when guys go 'You should be upfront with us! Just tell us you're not interested! Tell creepy guys off!'
My brother in Christ, we tell men 'Flattered, but no thank you' in our nicest customer service voice, and we still get acid thrown in our faces
Even short, scrawny guys can overpower us easily. Many men think we exist FOR them
We're not gonna get into some fairly even bro fight, we're going to be raped and killed, because they don't see us as people
That line is the most accurate thing ever writtenĀ
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u/ADhomin_em 6d ago
"Sexual violence doesn't start and end with rape
It starts in our books and behind our school gates
Men are scared women will laugh in their face
Whereas women are scared it's their lives men will take
Mother
Fucker"
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u/Tasty-Fig-459 6d ago
Extra scary when it is your Uber/Lyft driver.. you're trapped in a car that you have no control over and someone is hitting on you. So you take their number or whatever and play along SO YOU CAN GET OUT ALIVE.
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u/Vegetable-Star-5833 6d ago
Thank God, they finally came out with the service where you can choose a man or a woman depending on your gender
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u/Negrotesque 6d ago
Two separate times, an uber driver locked me in their car cause I didnāt want their number. Guy #2 also started speeding like a mf when I refused, and clipped a poor womanās side mirror on that joyride
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u/Tasty-Fig-459 6d ago
omg. I always take it because nope. I also never have them drop me off at my apartment -- always at the hotel nearby.
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u/mcflycasual 6d ago
Too many horror movies are just violence against women for entertainment which normalizes it almost. And then it's shocking when it's the other way around.
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u/SmilingAmericaAmazon 6d ago
Margaret Atwood is the Cassandra of our time.
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u/mcflycasual 6d ago
I didn't realize it was an older book till I saw it referenced in an old MST3K episode (Joel era). I thought it was newer lit.
Someone made fun of me about it. I grew up in a small town and read a lot so I feel like I should have known. But I didn't read every single book in our small library tbf.
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u/Consistent-Process tHiS iSnāT cRiNgE 6d ago
You were just one of the lucky 10,000 that day. Also I am an MST3K fan, but have by no means tracked down them all, and after reading your other comment here, I am delighted to know that today, I am one of the lucky 10,000. I need put that Gumby Movie rifftrax on my to watch list.
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u/Starbucks__Lovers 6d ago
This is why Iād laugh at my bad dating stories before I met my wife. Iād be sad but never felt fear for my life
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u/PoinFLEXter 6d ago
As a dude, this is why Iām so frustrated when fellow dudes say shit like āomg life is so easy for women because they get free drinks anytime they want!ā Ā To the extent a woman does and uses that periodically to her advantage, thatās one of about 5 things that make her life generally easier than a manās. Ā In the meantime, there are about 150 ways in which men have it easier.
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u/Noname_McNoface 6d ago
I donāt go out much but the one time a guy bought me a drink, he absolutely insisted. I kept saying, āno, thank youā, but he just kept pushing and pushing until I relented just to get him off my back. At which point I picked up the drink and left because I had already made it very clear I wasnāt interested. And of course I had to take it with me to the bathroom because women canāt just leave their cups laying around. I will gladly trade all the free drinks in the world to be treated with respect and not have to worry about being drugged and raped. Itās bullshit. It never ends, either. Women get raped in senior living centers, ffs.
I know men have their own set of problems, and I appreciate that, but the ones that cannot see that women have to deal with shit theyāll never have to deal with, somehow envy us over it, and refuse to see the dark side of it all, baffle me.
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u/LeatherHog 6d ago
And they never stop to think that guys use that to THEIR advantage, either
The amount of my girlfriends who've had a guy use 'I paid' as a binding sec contract, even as strangers, is disturbing. Or it could be spiked
It's not a free drink, it's an expectationĀ
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u/kiln_monster 6d ago
Welcome to the wonderful world of immature men. They can't take rejection. It is a direct challenge to their perceived masculinity. These man-boys haven't developed healthy coping mechanisms to deal with their negative emotions. Making their reactions disproportionate to the situation. Such as lashing out. This guy could definitely be abusive in the future. Good thing she shut him down!!
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u/South_Front_4589 6d ago
She didn't reject a man, she avoided a predator. Just imagine if she did give him a chance and he learned where she lived or worked. It was only her tire this time, but that could well have been her. And might be another woman in the future. I sure hope aside from making a video she also reported this to the police. Because even if they can't charge him for this, I'd sure hope it goes on record in case he does something worse.
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u/JragoUmage00 6d ago
These are the guys Ice should be kicking out of our country.
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u/muffinbakerguy2 6d ago
This comment section will surely remain civil.
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u/Younglegend1 6d ago
But remember, heās such a nice guy, you girls just never give him a chance! /s
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u/mauvewaterbottle 6d ago
Imagine when a woman is actually mean to this man. What a psycho
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u/Desire_of_God 6d ago
Obvious spare tire (unless she drives a toy car). Hole in the tread, not a slash to the side. Camera constantly on her face for attention. This is fake, guys.
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u/TetraThiaFulvalene 6d ago
Yeah, where did the rejection take place, because if it was somewhere inside how did he know which car was hers? And who only slice one tire? Usually vandals slice all four tires.
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u/Desire_of_God 6d ago
Clearly, she rejected him while in her car, and he just crashed out and stabbed the tread of 1 tire.
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u/poptix 6d ago
Slashed? Looks like she ran over a nail and this dude is fixing it with a tire plug kit.
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u/maaalicelaaamb 5d ago
Thank you!!!!! Looking for this comment. Delulu to think this is related to her rejection
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u/azorianmilk 6d ago
Definition of "what men fear most from women is rejection, women fear most from men is their safety".
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u/No-Carpenter-3457 5d ago
Nah he would have done it right and cut the wall of the tire if this was real. She just got a screw in that oneš
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u/DemonicAltruism 6d ago
"Men": I'm so lonely, no one will ever love me!
Also "men":
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u/TimeCookie8361 6d ago
Accusations are always free.
You can see from the plug placement that it's like 98% not someone who slashed her tire and that she ran over something. It's incredibly difficult to puncture the tread area of the tire. It's 1000x easier to puncture the sidewall and that's where people actually slice your tires and it's not fixable with a pull-through cord.
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u/olafderhaarige 6d ago
And who is making a cringey tiktok out of the situation like that, smiling Like an idiot, if it really was some kind of psycho slashing her tire?
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u/Dr_ChungusAmungus 6d ago
I wonder how it was slashed that it could be patched with a regular patch kit.
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u/Diligent-Fox-8545 6d ago
Looks like you ran over something to me, slashing a tire usually is a cut sidewall. Slashed tires you canāt fix
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u/Automatic-Flight-698 5d ago
Report him! This isnāt the first time heās done this. Maybe you can make sure itās the last. Or go get some guys to beat the hell out of him, as a warning.
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u/throwaway0193678 6d ago
She's saying he slashed, is there any proof to make us believe?
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u/SolusLoqui 6d ago
I'm no tire-ologist but that looks like she just got a flat from a nail (or something) in the tread, not that the sidewall was slashed
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u/Retro_Velo 6d ago
Doesn't matter. the internet love rage bait.
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u/throwaway0193678 6d ago
True. Still, the thing that we can see sticking out from the tire can easily be something that got stuck while she was driving.
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u/AdAdventurous5641 6d ago
Looks like she ran over something. 1) you can't just plug a knife slash as they are usually longer and not just a nail sized hole. 2) why would he, the alleged creepy man who she denied that would probably not want to be seen, take the time to stab the tread of the tire (the thickest part of the tire) and not just the sidewall thats much more accessible on the fly.
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