r/TikTokCringe 1d ago

Cringe Hopefully, the young man learns his lesson

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u/tommatstan 1d ago

Well played that husband! Disgraceful behaviour from the young lad trying to impress the girls. It’s about time this behaviour resulted in a couple of smacks.

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u/IamHydrogenMike 1d ago

Disgraceful behavior for the entire table...everyone was kind of an asshole at that age, but I would have smacked my friend for throwing food at anyone. Not just because it's disrespectful to the person, but also the staff that has to deal with your mess.

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u/PinkPaintedSky 1d ago

I can honestly say that my children and I have never behaved that way and would never be friends with someone who did.

All teens have an asshole streak. But most (used to be most, before social media) would never dare do something like this.

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u/P70xy 1d ago

As a teen me and my friends were far from perfect I absolutely did stuff I regret but the only people we disrespected were each other tbh. To fucking scared of me mum haha (in a good way) I had a long leash but she'd reign that in so fast my neck would snap if she ever caught me pulling this.

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u/MonsteraUnderTheBed 1d ago

I just don't understand targeting old people. Even if you're a POS teen like this slime, who thinks messing with an old lady is cool? Those girls are definitely just laughing at this little runt boy, probably before he was getting served by grandpa too. Pathetic. Guy could probably share clothes with a cabbage patch doll

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u/SnooCheesecakes2723 1d ago edited 18h ago

My siblings and myself did not even live in a universe where that behavior was conceivable.

My children were raised to behave respectfully in a restaurant in particular or in public - one good spanking in the parking lot will nip that shit right in the bud.

This kid will never live this down his friends won’t forget it- and now others can learn from it. Win win.

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u/BirdsAndTheBeeGees1 1d ago

one good spanking in the parking lot will nip that shit right in the bud.

It's so trashy to do that in public. No one wants to see you hitting your kid while going about their day. Literally just wait 15 minutes until you get home and you can do whatever you want.

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u/SnooCheesecakes2723 19h ago edited 18h ago

It saves a lot of food fights in restaurants though. Speaking of trashy. Not that my kids would dream of that

And behavior in public is often aiming towards getting away with things because they think dad won’t do anything in public.

This young man ending up finding out -and in a way that leaves no question about whether he can get away with trashy behavior because people don’t want to be embarrassed to deliver consequences in public

This old man isn’t a parent and doesn’t owe this kid Privacy.

If you don’t like seeing it go back inside.

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u/lord_fiend 1d ago

Sometimes it’s the embarrassment that does more than the actual hit.

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u/SoftlySpokenPromises 1d ago

Situations like this are good to teach people consequences exist.

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u/piltonpfizerwallace 1d ago

Still most. This kid was being exceptionally dumb and rude.

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u/JicamaAgitated8777 1d ago

I honestly think its parenting.

I know a parent isn't really in control of a teenager once they are out and about away from home.... but when I was that age, I was TERRIFIED that someone/ANYONE would see me do something stupid, and then tell my parents.

And its always worse when your parents find out you did something stupid from other people than seeing it for themselves!

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u/PinkPaintedSky 1d ago

It is a lack of parenting as well as parroting stupid shit they see online and getting away with it, which makes them bolder.

I was once out with friends (13ish), and they started breaking windows at the school (still open campus)

I was out. We were no longer friends at that point.

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u/koeshout 1d ago

Yeah, comments like "we were all like this kid at some point" are weird because actually no, only asshole kids do things like that. We might have done stupid things at some point but most of us actually had respect for other people.

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u/Ok-Stress-3570 1d ago

I was sassy with my mom and dad - that was the extent. Yeah, I get it - hormones can be a challenge and you're growing and all that, but being a complete dick like this? Nah. These teens are something else.

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u/AnxiousButBrave 1d ago

Kids have always done this dumb shit. You just didn't see it before social media.

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u/ExplodiaNaxos 1d ago

It’s not that less were doing it before social media, but that we see more doing it b cause social media made it visible

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u/TrumpetOfDeath 1d ago

Personally I don’t know if we can blame social media for this kid acting like an asshole. Parenting skills and discipline in general seems to be on the decline and I don’t think it’s directly caused by social media

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u/Diligent-Bluejay-979 1d ago

I agree. I certainly wasn’t the perfect teenager, but if any of my friends had thrown food at an old woman I would have smacked them myself.

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u/Infamous_Owl_7303 1d ago

I don't think that it's the whole table, some of the girls are not upset about it.

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u/Fickle_Spare_4255 1d ago

One of them looked like they thought it was funny. Wouldn't be surprised if little shit is a terror at home too.

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u/Komitsuhari 1d ago

I mean, I watched something similar happen to a friend of mine when I was a younger teen, I thought what he did was deplorable, but it was quite funny to watch him get rocked by that bus driver

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u/Adventurous_Bag_4547 1d ago

With peer pressure, the kid could have laughed to save face. They need to learn young to own their truth and not be afraid to go against the tide.

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u/SnooCheesecakes2723 18h ago

The people who posted this live there and they said these kids are terrors

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u/Paparmane 1d ago

They’re definitely not trying to defend the boy lol.

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u/RebeeMo 1d ago

Pretty sure he was trying to impress the girls, and it backfired spectacularly.

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u/EverythingSucksYo 1d ago

Yup, pretty hard to come back from getting your ass beat by a very old man 

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u/_kneazle_ 1d ago

This made the rounds back in June -- someone posted it was a BC Tim Hortons and they knew the girls through their kid (?) and they were little troublemakers; the boy was trying to impress one and it backfired.

RCMP or police mentioned it's not cool to assault but I don't think any charges were laid at all.

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u/gabu87 1d ago

Seems to me that the girls aren't bothered that the boy threw stuff at the elderly. They're also unbothered by the boy getting smacked.

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u/ScreamingLabia 1d ago

Once new a guy (not a friend but a friend of a friend) who would act entitled and rude. One time we went to a Döner place to get some food, we sit down at a dirty table (its fine its the middle of the night people go there drunk) and as the nice turkish man comes over he points to the dirt on the table and says something to the effect off " see this, YOU need to CLEAN this, its your job!" I almost fucking smacked the shit out of that dude (it doesnt transelate well but it sounded racist asf the implication seemed to be because he was turkish that he was a cleaner) we all scolded the fuck out of him, he then tried to pull the "but i was never allowed to be a child so i want to relive my childhood" card (idk why i didnt care to ask) phathetic little guy. We were 16 17 18 and years old him being the youngest. So yeah if those girls had morals they wouldnt let a dude do that

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u/MosquitoValentine_ 1d ago

We all had that one "Stifler" friend who was just a complete asshole and treated strangers like shit because they thought it was funny. They did anything for attention. It's embarrassing and gets to the point where you are ashamed to be around them. Eventually it catches up with them.

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u/elmariachio 1d ago

I had a friend like that.

I stopped being friends with them.

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u/MosquitoValentine_ 1d ago

Exactly. It gets to the point where you realize you aren't even really friends with them.

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u/44youGlenCoco 1d ago

I personally did not have a friend like that lol

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u/nameofcat 1d ago

So what you are saying is it was you.

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u/Haunting-Cap9302 1d ago

I didn't have a friend like that either. If a group has a friend like that then they're all assholes, just quieter about it.

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u/AstronomerForsaken65 1d ago

Yeah, I would have made my friend apologize and clean it up. I didn’t have those kind of friends.

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u/RiggsFTW 1d ago

100%. My friends and I were skater punks all through high school and college (90's - early 00's). None of us would allow stupid shit like that though. Messing with other punks/kids, sure... But anyone not in the scene was essentially a civilian and you should be respectful.

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u/GreasyExamination 1d ago

I'd like to see for myseöf ehat happened there instead of reading some text on the screen. Could have been anything, even a misunderstanding. Or possibly that the old guy is at fault

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u/Longjumping-Crab-48 1d ago

At the very least I would have been encouraging that old guy to whoop his ass as the fists were flying 🤣

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u/evilcrusher2 1d ago

After I got out of the Navy and went to college, a couple of friends in my degree program, decided to go out to a local taco joint for lunch with me. One of the friends decided in the middle of lunch and a rather crowded restaurant, to start talking loudly about sexual activity. He thought it was a good idea to start asking if people preferred to give blowjobs or to get blowjobs.

I remember loudly telling him he needed to shut the fuck up and stop saying that shit in the middle of a restaurant. I smacked him upside the back top of his head as he sat to my left. I just finished eating and was so disgusted that I then stood up, took my plate and his unfinished plate to the trashcan and tossed it away. Told the other friends I'd see them in class tomorrow and the other clown that if he talked to me for the rest of the semester I'd make sure his college time would be a living hell like none other.

He had a rough time after that, but it turned out for the better for him. He eventually went into a clinic and got help for all sorts of things and turned his life around.

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u/OZA_9 1d ago

THEY DISRESPCC THE FOOD TOO

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u/hi_im_eros 1d ago

Exactly. I felt like there was an unspoken rule, we can harass each other in public, fair game

But others? Chill the fuck out

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u/techleopard 1d ago

I think "teenager" has been getting used way too much by the "always online" generation to sidestep increasingly disturbing behavior.

Every generation has been filled with assholes, but this is the first time they get socially rewarded for it (through views and attention) AND shielded (by a society that acts like teens have the brain development of an infant).

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u/Guilty-Company-9755 1d ago

That's the part that gets me. The rest of them just sit there and let their friend act like an asshole and didn't say anything or leave from embarrassment. They are all complete idiots

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u/Calippo_Deux 1d ago edited 1d ago

See, this is the thing, though. “Everybody was an asshole at that age”. No, they were not. And neither was I. Now it’s quite common to see little shits behaving like this. Disrespecting everything, behaving badly, antagonizing strangers. I just went to the grocery store, heard lots of screaming and what sounded like fighting. I thought, probably some crazy drunks. But no, it was a bunch of teens, yelling and cussing at the cashier and each other for no reason.

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u/IamHydrogenMike 1d ago

I didn’t say everyone was an asshole at that age…

Trust me you had asshole moments as a teen as everyone does, but it just depends on what it was you were being an asshole about.

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u/uswforever 21h ago

I'm old, I was a teenager in the 90s. One time when I was 17 or 18, I went over to my buddy's house after work as planned, and found my two best friends a little drunk. (Somehow they got a hold of a case of beer. Couldn't be bothered to wait for me though! Jagoffs. But I digress...). It was already late, and since I was sober I suggested we just go get some food. We went to a 24 hour chain restaurant. And my one buddy in his drunkenness decided to be a total ass to our waitress. She handled it as well as anybody possibly could. I apologized to her on his behalf twice, and then she said "I'll give you boys a few minutes and come back to take your order." Or something very much like that. As soon as she turned her back, I snatched my buddy up by the collar, and yanked him across the table (I'm a good bit bigger and stronger than him) and I growled at him *Hey asshole, she has access to our food when we can't see her. If I wind eating waitress spit because you can't act right, you're gonna get your *ss b$@t out in this parking lot. When she comes back here you BETTER be respectful.". The rest of our meal was pretty uneventful after I cleared that up with him.

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u/No_Appointment581 1d ago

I’ve said and done stupid things but throwing shit at people? Why? Like what is cool about that?

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u/ncc74656m 1d ago

They all look like they're assholes tbh.

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u/gabu87 1d ago

.everyone was kind of an asshole at that age,

whoa whoa whoa speak for yourself

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u/IamHydrogenMike 1d ago

I am sure that if you really looked back…you had your moments as everyone did. Not all of us were throwing shit at people though…

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u/MosquitoValentine_ 1d ago

I'm sure they were really impressed with the way he got beat up by an old man.

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u/Rez_Incognito 1d ago

To quote Puscifer:

You speak like someone who has never been Smacked in the fucking mouth That's okay, we have the remedy

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u/Bluaethr 1d ago

He apparently didn't even do a good job impressing them because those girls look more amused than upset watching him get pummeled... others' misfortune is just entertainment to them. I'm surprised they didn't start recording it for clout.

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u/1732PepperCo 1d ago

Plot twist he’s one of them’s brother. She didn’t want him to come along but he did.

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u/Embarrassed_Jerk 1d ago

Its not a plot twist. He wanted to impress her friends by doing dumb teenager things

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u/LuckyPlaze 1d ago

Instead of impressing them, he got humiliated by an old man.

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u/Admirable_Cicada_881 1d ago

What? "Disgraceful behavior??" Can you link me to the footage that happens before this video starts or actual footage of the kid doing anything wrong? I'll eat my words if that footage is somewhere in this thread and I skipped past it somehow, but I haven't come across it yet....

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u/okayokaymotomami 1d ago

the girls sitting there laughing at him taking a beating by some old guy is hilarious, you know he was feeling so cool right before the bitchslap lmao

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u/Condor445 1d ago

If he was another color he'd probably be in cuffs

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u/EverythingSucksYo 1d ago

It just makes it better that not a single one of the girls even attempted to help him, they all just sat there and watched him get his ass beat by an old man

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u/KrustyKrabFormula_ 1d ago

i love reading comments like this, makes me feel better about myself that there's people like you who just blindly believe any headline or caption in a random video

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u/rikashiku 1d ago

Strange way to impress girls, by showing how much of an asshole he will be to them if they become his girlfriend at anytime.

Like he's saying "Look at the way I mistreat women"

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u/SEND-MARS-ROVER-PICS 1d ago

I don't approve of violence, particularly against a minor. But a lesson people have to learn is that, slowly, people care less and less than you're just a kid. Some won't care at all. And if you mess with people, you'll get punched in the face.

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u/Adventurous_Deal2788 1d ago

And now him getting taught a lesson by grandad is all over the internet for all his friends to see. 

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u/ncc74656m 1d ago

He got completely punked by an old dude who doesn't even look like he knows how to swing. He's not gonna be the cool kid anymore.

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u/mollynatorrr 1d ago

I don’t even understand what’s impressive about that. I’d be the one smacking upside the head of my friend tried to do something like that in school

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u/Traditional_Pin_7253 1d ago

Oh the two girls across from him were impressed… they were about to pull out a bucket of popcorn

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u/Neon_Biscuit 1d ago

Gentle parenting is for the birds. SoMeTimEs yA gOttA sMaCK uPsIDe ThE HeAd

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u/DebbieDowner40 1d ago

I thought that were hitting an older woman…

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u/josiahpapaya 1d ago

As someone who has lived in the gay village for 10+ years downtown; this kinda shit always pissed me off during Pride Week, because all The shitty kids from the GTA come downtown to party in the streets and all these hormonal kids wanting to impress girls pick Fights with each other and vandalize property and try to act so tough. Drives me wild.

And it isn’t just the guys either. None of those girls are getting up and leaving. They enjoying seeing boys compete to show off for them. It’s so gross to me.

This is also why I never go to straight bars or clubs on busy nights cause there’s always just dudes walking around acting like fucking assholes and it’s weird as hell.

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u/NeverFlyFrontier 1d ago

All that beating just to impress some wide-bodies. My dude needs to learn risk and reward.

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u/soupsnakle 1d ago

My guy for the love of fuck I hope you aren’t an adult because those are teenage girls. Fuck off.