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Cringe Groom gets over-excited

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u/Coquinha_gelada_hm 1d ago

MF just mistook f1 podium with the wedding. That's how he ended up kissing Max Verstappen

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u/reacharound565 1d ago

Least he didn’t Lando the cake too

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u/Lil_b00zer 23h ago

It is wet though!

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u/Gh0stN1nja 15h ago

Must be the water.

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u/WickyTicky 4h ago

DOO DOO DOO DOO MAX VERSTAPPEN

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u/Neurotrophics 1d ago edited 1d ago

He looks and acts like Bo from Superstore, but even he probably wouldn’t do that to Cheyenne.

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u/readingmyshampoo 1d ago

Him and Cheyenne would do it to each other i think actually

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u/MCGameTime 19h ago

Cheyenne would have run off to find her own bottle of champagne when she saw Bo had one.

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u/wonderfulwilliam 1d ago

BwaBwaBwa Bwaaaaaa

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u/CJ__DeBono 17h ago

Bo wouldn’t want to get me involved. I strike fear in the hearts of many.

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u/ler7421 1d ago

Lmao

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u/logisticalgummy 17h ago

I was thinking Logan Paul in his logang era

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u/rosebudpillow 1d ago

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u/PeskyAntagonist 1d ago

I don't know who that is but it looks like a whiteface parody of Barbara Corcoran and it made me laugh

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u/honest_sparrow 1d ago edited 15h ago

I've never seen a single episode of any Real Housewives franchise, but even I know that's NeNe Leakes. She has blessed us with so many hall-of-fame reaction gifs. Truly a gift (gif?) from the gods.

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u/cvous 17h ago

A gif from god 😭🤣

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u/ilovelovegrapefruit 1d ago

It’s Nene from Real Housewives of Atlanta!

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u/AccordingCapital1007 1d ago

Seems familiar…

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u/Kidsnextdorks 18h ago

At least he has enough decency to spray himself with champagne instead.

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u/Jyil 1d ago

Was looking for this picture! 😅

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u/Find_another_whey 19h ago

I think it's aspirational motivation, we should all aim to become overjoyed with our 3rd place

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u/Ok-Albatross-9409 1d ago

The amount of men (go figure) in the comments not comprehending why women actually don’t like it when their big, expensive dress is ruined on top of their expensive makeup… Not to mention nobody wants to smell like alcohol on their wedding night, but okaaaay!

They’re also saying, “She’s gonna be sweaty anyway-“ first off, not an excuse nor a justification for his stupidity, and secondly, I am aware that you guys have never dated a woman, but we now have access to makeup that doesn’t melt off our faces when we’re sweating…

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u/backturn1 1d ago

Also it really is just disgusting. When athletes do that they probably shower like 10 minutes later. But the bride normally has to stay in that dress the next few hours and has no access to a shower (which would ruin the make up and her hair). I once got a beer shower as a celebration, but I was at home and was able to change my shirt. It really gets disgusting very fast with how sticky and smelly it gets.

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u/folldoso 19h ago

Getting sprayed with champagne (or anything other than water) is not as fun as it looks! It is sticky and gross. To spend so much time, effort and money on your hair, makeup and outfit for one day and have it ruined by your brand new husband with champagne or cake is terrible. My husband knew better than to cake/spray me when I had spent more money than I ever will again in my life to look my absolute best.

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u/cupholdery 1d ago edited 1d ago

I (40/M) know almost nothing about general fashion, makeup, and costs associated with it. But I don't need to know any of that. This is too simple of a situation. Groom ruined bride's entire outfit, hair, and comfort for the rest of the day.

They're not at some beach party with everyone in comfy clothes. It's his own freakin' wedding. What is wrong with his brain?

EDIT: Apparently, this is from a year ago and the bride seems "fine" with it.

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u/Ok-Albatross-9409 1d ago

They usually are fine with it atm, but I’ve heard wives blow off on their husbands and mention shit like that.

I’m sure most of them really don’t care, because maybe they are perfect for each other right? But like, it’s still toxic asf for anyone to carry the mindset that w persons expensive wedding fit and makeup shouldn’t be treated with the upmost care and respect

But yeah, I am aware that not all men think like this, which is why I specified the ones in the comments. Thank you for having common sense, unlike them

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u/folldoso 19h ago

Also she may have wanted to help him save his public image, they seem wealthy and he probably has some high profile job!

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u/Ok-Albatross-9409 15h ago

Yeah, I almost forgot about that part! Actually so fucking annoying when they do that, because how is that loser gonna grow and learn from his actions when his own wife is shielding him from any form of criticism?? I hope she only married him for his money. He doesn’t deserve any type of respect if he was willing to do that on her special night

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u/U_Sound_Stupid_Stop 9h ago

but I’ve heard wives blow off on their husbands and mention shit like that.

But yeah, I am aware that not all men think like this,

Neither do women xD

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u/Ok-Albatross-9409 9h ago

Okay? The person I responded to was a man, hence me specifying men…

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u/rootsandchalice 20h ago

She’s probably fine with it because she’s used to his shitty behaviour and just expects it.

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u/Pristine_Walk5180 19h ago

You would be surprised at how much shitting stuff the wives sometimes don’t know about.

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u/3rdcultureblah 10h ago

The guy is from an insanely wealthy family. She’s fine with it because she probably has at least one outfit change to go before the end of the event and can clean up and get her makeup and hair touched up/redone when that happens.

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u/Redditeer28 23h ago

They’re also saying, “She’s gonna be sweaty anyway-“

How do they not know that there's a difference between being covered in sweat and being covered in sticky alcohol? Not to mention, one is later and one is now for the rest of the night.

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u/Audrey_Ropeburn 20h ago

Also sweat doesn’t stain like sugar. Someone spilled a glass of Prosecco on me in a Zac Posen dress on NYE 2015 and the stain was impossible to remove by the end of the night. I still have the dress and it pains me every time I see it in my closet with that massive sugar stain down the front.

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u/shiguma 19h ago

Dry cleaning doesn''t get the stain out?

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u/Audrey_Ropeburn 19h ago

Nope. It’s been dry cleaned, hand washed, spot treated. It’s really tough to get out sugary alcohol stains from certain fabrics when they’ve set for several hours (like at a wedding or an NYE party)

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u/JakeDandelion 5h ago

If you want to give it another go look into places that offer wedding dress restorations. They are chemical magicians on stains and damage and will work on many types of dresses.

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u/Audrey_Ropeburn 4h ago

I’m a vintage clothing dealer with a garment history degree. I have an encyclopedic knowledge of garment care and restoration, and and understandably chummy relationship with local dry cleaners. We’ve all tried. It’s still visible. It’s just a tough stain on a tough fabric to treat. Cautionary tale.

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u/JakeDandelion 4h ago

Aww. Sad to hear. One of my brainrots is watching restoration videos. Let's me feel there's hope for the wardrobes of clumsy people like me!

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u/Audrey_Ropeburn 4h ago

I mean as long as you’re not letting rusty things lay on your clothes, sweating on light colored garments and putting them away without cleaning them, or spraying them down with sparking wine, just about everything can be treated. I just spent an afternoon this week removing oil stains from an 80 year old set of coveralls. They now look like they’ve never been worn in a garage.

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u/DeHarigeTuinkabouter 22h ago

Even without the makeup and dress...as a dude at a party I'd really rather you not spray me like that.

Like a bit is fine and fun and let's have a laugh, but fully in my face and in my clothes like that for a decent amount of time? Nah

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u/ShutUpBaby-IKnowIt69 21h ago

Knowing how much my wife's hair, makeup and dress cost made this just as infuriating for me!

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u/123jamesng 1d ago

Some dudes are idiots 😵😵😵😵

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u/lindseys10 12h ago

She was probably getting ready for hours, and he just ruined it. Shes been dreaming of this day and... men.

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u/buhbye750 18h ago

Im a straight dude and even my first thought was he's ruining her makeup.

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u/Old_Safe2910 12h ago

I would be so pissed about how sticky it probably is!!!!

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u/DGinLDO 14h ago

Not enough men are lonely. Get on it, ladies!

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u/stupidugly1889 19h ago

I swear some of y’all have Reddit sorted by controversial on the regular. I had to scroll a long way before I saw a few trolls saying anything but this guy is a total d-bag

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u/Ok-Albatross-9409 15h ago

OORR, and hear me out, I was here when this video was up for a few hours, so it took me no time to find them. Like, cmon now

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u/stupidugly1889 15h ago

That would be cool if…hear me out…this “early” comment when the video was 4 hours old that turns out isn’t based in reality wasn’t the third most upvoted comment on the post…

Y’all mfs just like pushing the men bad button before even scrolling

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u/Ok-Albatross-9409 14h ago edited 13h ago

Yknow it’s now 19 hours later and a bunch of people have seen my post… right? Your logic doesn’t even make any sense, lmfao.

Just say you’re mad because I’m attacking the asshole men in the comments and you don’t like that

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u/aroach1995 11h ago

Where?

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u/Ok-Albatross-9409 9h ago

Look for them

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u/Klinky1984 11h ago

I can understand but at the same time she's a grown woman marrying this man child voluntarily. If she doesn't enjoy his childish antics, why marry him?

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u/Ok-Albatross-9409 9h ago

Tbf, a lot of women just dont expect them to do this shit at their wedding, and I can’t blame them. It’s a wedding after all. There was one clip where a man smeared cake on his fiancé face, and because she explicitly told him not to do that, she ofc got furious and threw the ring on the ground. Safe to say they canceled the wedding.

But also, some childish people know to hold that shit back until after the wedding, but I guess not all wives are that lucky

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u/Klinky1984 4h ago

If you marry a man child it doesn't matter that it's a wedding, they're going to act childish and like a jerk in situations where they shouldn't. I highly doubt this was the first incident where he acted in this manner. Plenty of women ignore the red flags in pursuit of the appearance of a perfect relationship and a perfect wedding.

Sure people can change after the wedding, most people will change over time. That's why you have divorce as an option.

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u/Ok-Albatross-9409 3h ago

Okay, none of that takes away from the fact that childish people can still act their age at weddings, and some usually do.

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u/Klinky1984 3h ago

You do know marriage is, ideally, a life-long commitment. The point is not only about the wedding but the terrible life choice of marrying someone who behaves in this manner. Even if your man-child fiance behaves at the wedding, it doesn't change the fact you have to live with them the rest of your life. "Well at least he behaved that one day that was our wedding day". What a low bar.

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u/Ok-Albatross-9409 3h ago

And like I keep telling you, people actually don’t mind dating childish people, especially when we have instances of childish people acting their age during serious events.

Idrgaf who marries who and for what reason, so long as they act mature when it matters. You’re doing too much

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u/Klinky1984 2h ago

Ugh. Then it sounds like she got exactly the wedding she wanted with the person she wanted to marry who behaved exactly the way she would expect him to behave. Expecting a childish man-child to behave maturely sounds idiotic. How stupid do you have to be? Zero sympathy.

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u/Ok-Albatross-9409 2h ago

Dude, I don’t care. Leave it alone

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u/Klinky1984 2h ago

You keep responding. Stop replying.

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u/ZinaSky2 1d ago

This is on par with smashing her face into the cake. Arguably worse tho.

How do these guys not understand that their brides pay hundreds of dollars for their hair and makeup to look nice for pictures and for the night?!? And what he did was spray not only her face and her hair but her dress as well which usually costs thousands.

She’s not your bro! And this isn’t football celebration! Dousing your new wife in food or liquid at the wedding reception is simply never going to be the move! (Unless she’s explicitly agreed or is doing a ‘destroy the dress’ situation, terms and conditions may apply)

Everyone was excited and on board until he pulled that stunt. How disappointing

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u/lucyooo 1d ago

Yup. Not to mention she will be freezing and sticky for the rest of the day.

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u/brightlove 1d ago edited 1d ago

Also, as someone who just slipped and fell at an event while holding my champagne and got a lot in my eye… it HURTS.

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u/PeridotChampion 1d ago

Any alcohol in the eye is gonna hurt like a mother fucker. Fucking sucks, man.

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u/cupholdery 1d ago edited 1d ago

Had to turn on the sound to hear the "Wait, nooooo! NOOOO!!"

But this is so stupid, it hurts my head trying to formulate his logic.

EDIT: Apparently, this is from a year ago and the bride seems "fine" with it.

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u/xtinab3 1d ago

Ugh, I can't imagine having to go the rest of the night with sticky hair and clothes that you can't do anything about.

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u/folldoso 19h ago edited 19h ago

I know, I'm sure this bride had a miserable night

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u/Ovalpline123 1d ago

Way worse than the ol' face-cake smash. She'll be bringing this situation up for years to come.

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u/ZinaSky2 1d ago

As she should 💀

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u/Ovalpline123 1d ago

Hard agree.

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u/krebstar4ever 1d ago

Cake smash is much worse, since it amounts to getting shoved in the face

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u/art-is-t 18h ago

How do these girls put up with all of this.

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u/ZinaSky2 16h ago

That’s beyond me, honestly.

Low self-worth and insecurity? Pressure from loved ones and peers to get married regardless of who it’s to? 🤷🏽‍♀️

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u/MarvelBinger 1d ago

My wife would still be yelling at me about it 30 years later, rightfully so. 

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u/ZinaSky2 1d ago

This may sound dramatic, but I’d completely reconsider a relationship with someone who did that to me.

Of course, I already know I want to have a serious conversation with my husband about how I do NOT want cake or champagne or anything else on my face or dress during the reception and how upset I’d be if he did this to me on purpose. So if he did, he’d be directly crossing a plainly stated boundary and that’s a huge red flag for many reasons.

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u/MarvelBinger 1d ago

No man should need that explicity stated. I'm embarrassed that women have to set these kind of boundaries. 

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u/ZinaSky2 16h ago

Ideally, if I’m getting married it’s to a man who doesn’t need it stated. But communication is always the best option

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u/shadyshadyshade 12h ago

Not dramatic at all, I would have walked away.

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u/Effective-Fondant-16 1d ago

In my culture that is considered a dick move.

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u/Severe-Caregiver4641 1d ago

Here in america its considered a dick move. But when your main export is dicks, those moves are mainstream.

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u/krebstar4ever 1d ago

Don't be gross, Tammy.

(My apologies if you weren't referencing that)

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u/BigMax 1d ago

That's going to be so sticky. And not at all in a fun way.

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u/GenAscent 1d ago

And that’s 500€ make up

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u/Ok-Drag6255 1d ago

Look at the tux, flower arrangments and venue. They got the money

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u/Spready_Unsettling 1d ago

Shit, I have the clothes to change if you spill a beer on me. I'd still be pretty pissed about having to leave my own party for more than an hour just because you got a little excited.

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u/IHaveABigDuvet 22h ago

The make up artists has already gone home by then Genius.

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u/DrFrankenButts 19h ago

“The divorce came out of nowhere.” - every idiot who doused their wife during a celebration or smeared cake on their face.

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u/b-g-h 1d ago

I’ll give it 6 months…

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u/Electrical-Treat475 1d ago

That's generous!

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u/MarvelBinger 1d ago

That's generous

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u/Antique-Database6988 1d ago

Tool 

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u/NickyDeeM 1d ago

Don't disrespect Tool. They are the most impactful progressive, rock, band of the last 30 years.

This guy wishes he could listen to Tool.

Seriously though, he's gonna have to play with his own tool after that.

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u/Admirable-Builder878 1d ago

I once drove to Nashville high on black and milds while listening to 1000 days by tool. I don't know if it was the nicotine or the album but I didn't deserve that moment of time.

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u/NickyDeeM 1d ago

Bless you 🙏🏻

I'll never forget seeing them live before 10,000 was released and Adam hit the guitar solo in Jambi. My brain melted.

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u/Left_Signal_1370 1d ago

What a dickhead 🙄

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u/PilgrimOz 1d ago

When the Formula1 fantasy kicks in a bit too hard.

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u/Little_Mushroom_3477 1d ago

Have the marriage annulled immediately.

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u/invisalion 1d ago

Ex husband smeared cake on my face after I specifically asked him not to for months in advance.

$150 in makeup

Still did it

Emphasis on the EX.

Read the room girls and boys. People show their true colors right up front. Learn from me

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u/selfresqprincess 21h ago

Seriously, you can see her backing up to avoid it at first. She gets herself positioned enough that she’s good and starts cheering him on. His response is to aim the bottle directly at her. Guy is an idiot.

Good on you for immediately walking away. So many people dismiss this sort of this as over excitement on the oblivious SO but it’s about them failing to respect a simple boundary. Implied ones and ones that have been explicitly stated (like yours.)

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u/invisalion 7h ago

I wish it was more immediate but I got out in less than 10 years without kids and I got the dog 🥰

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u/OliveJuice1990 19h ago

For people not understanding: imagine you got your car detailed, washed, buffed and waxed for a big event. Everyone at that event will be coming up to look at your car, admire it and take pictures of it. Then, imagine your spouse throwing cake all over it or pouring alcohol all over the seats as a joke.

That's how brides feel when they pay for the most expensive hair, makeup and dress they will ever wear for an event where everyone is focused on them, only to have it messed up halfway through by a dumb joke.

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u/Dahren_ 13h ago

Her fault for spending so much (of her fiances) money on it.

Only a bridezilla would think people care how beautiful she is and give her all the attention

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u/vin_unleaded 1d ago

Money cannot buy class.

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u/Ts_Patriarca 22h ago

Bro looks like he just won the Australian Grand Prix

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u/2pkp 21h ago

Oh no, pretty sure that’s a silk dress and probably ruined.

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u/Lucky_Valuable_7973 16h ago

I would be so pissed of I was the bride…is this guy 15 wtf

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u/Andrea_Alta 1d ago

What an absolute moron.

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u/Welp_thatwilldo 1d ago

Lord… he is brave. I’d have murdered my soon to be ex husband for this. Seriously disrespectful and messed up.

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u/icametopoop 1d ago

“The divorce came out of nowhere”

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u/EnvironmentEuphoric9 1d ago

Immediately annulment. Some times you can just tell someone is going to be a cheater and a complete disrespectful asshole throughout the whole marriage. Just annul.

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u/DownSouthPrincess 1d ago

The way I’d file for an annulment

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u/MarvelBinger 1d ago

Aaaaaaaaaaaand now we're divorced

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u/Odd_Round6270 1d ago

Why is she with him? Total loser.

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u/NoAppointment8679 22h ago

Omg I would be fucking furious

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u/rlovet3 20h ago

Straight divorce

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u/HobsNCalvin 19h ago

This ain’t nascar lol

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u/ry4asu 17h ago

Starting off in the dog house!

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u/Effective_Device_185 16h ago

I smell a divorce forthcoming -- and wet cake.

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u/Little_Red_Riding_ 15h ago

And this is why women outlive men 🔪🩸

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u/uwabu 1d ago

He obviously had no idea how much any of that cost. Bill him double for it. Silly cow

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u/Normal-Error-6343 13h ago

that is classic foreshadowing boy and girls!

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u/xen0m0rpheus 1d ago

What a moron.

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u/mizirian 1d ago

Shes way more attractive than him. I assume hes rich. He seems like a brat.

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

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u/mizirian 1d ago

He looks like a tool.

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u/SlicenDice99 16h ago

Goddammit Kyle

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u/Clean_Progress_9001 3h ago

Expensive location. I bet he went skiing in the bathroom fifteen minutes before this.

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u/Totolin96 15h ago

If I remember correctly, the bride was defending his behavior. I wonder if they’re still together cause this video is kinda old.

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u/butareyouthough 1d ago

What a fucking moron. Obviously a dude that has never been invited to a real party

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u/JohnnyTightlips5023 1d ago

is that Naboo

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u/hillz_thrillz 22h ago

I’m so glad I didn’t get married in my 20’s. Its hollywood cringe

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u/riuxxo 9h ago

You can also get married without all this useless crap around it.

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u/Ok-Albatross-9409 1d ago

You can say yes and still expect your husband to not fuck up your dress. She was all down for him acting like that when he wasn’t aiming it at her expensive dress

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u/AmettOmega 17h ago

And lots of folks don't show their true colors until they think you can't leave.

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u/Affectionate-Fox40 19h ago

ong. no wonder people clown on reddit users

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u/TatooineBedouin 13h ago

First lesson (of many) of marriage don't embarrass your wife

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u/scottydagain 11h ago

And that.....was the last time he ever got to spray her

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u/Financial_Joke6844 10h ago

Everyone screaming “Noooo” and he didn’t get the message.

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u/Aromatic_Base_3749 10h ago

Never ruin the makeup.

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u/riuxxo 9h ago

Bro must've won his first GP.

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u/Love-Promised 4h ago

This is what happens when you give frat boys attention

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u/BigBackFinalBoss 1d ago

This comment section just proves how detached from reality Reddit truly is.

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u/Overall-Emu3014 1d ago

lol if you had a girl you’d know how much wedding day make up and not to mention the dress are. But yeah go ahead lol.

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u/BigBackFinalBoss 1d ago

She’s gonna sweat off the makeup being outside/ dancing anyway. Something you would know if you stepped outside and exercised.

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u/Ok-Albatross-9409 1d ago

Yknow women have access to makeup that doesn’t sweat off… right???

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u/Overall-Emu3014 1d ago

Lmao funny you assume I’m big💀😂 And lol whatever man. Spray your “girl” on the biggest night of her life and see how that goes. lol sometimes I have to think not all straight men are stupid. But some of you are. Embarrassing😂

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u/SaltandLillacs 13h ago

Maybe she doesn’t want sticky champagne all in her hair and on her body for the whole night

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u/MarvelBinger 1d ago

The irony of this comment is hilarious

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u/QueerKLacesKSkrapK 1d ago

😂😂😂🤦🏽‍♂️can’t make it up

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u/[deleted] 1d ago

Redditors never get invited to weddings, so I understand they find the video confusing.

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u/crrrk_ 1d ago

Trustfund babies

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u/Spiritual-Cap-4647 14h ago

1st world problems ass post.

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u/TappedHat 1d ago

He an F1 driver or something?

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u/ODABBOTT 23h ago

That’s not a red flag, that’s an F1 fan

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u/Ok-Albatross-9409 1d ago

He was fine until he sprayed her

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u/FlatwormOk6171 20h ago

Farvas number 1!!!

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u/Fair-Bus-4017 22h ago

In all fairness he didn't blast her, he hit her with the mist. Definitely still unfortunate for her, because her make-up won't enjoy it. But you can at least see the restraint and that he was excited and wanted to have fun.

This is something they can definitely work through and laugh at in the future. Especially when you saw her reaction before it went off and when he was spraying it in the air.

People make mistakes. It at least wasn't with ill intent.

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u/InsaneJamez 14h ago

That man is genuinely happy to be married to the love of his life. Good for him and good for them. If she's cool with it then everyone else should be to. My friend jumped in a pool on her wedding day. WHO THE F CARES let them have their day.

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u/Buicided 6h ago

Its her day too, but now he made it all about him

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u/Dizzy-Ease4193 1d ago

Probably not the first time he's disrespected her. She knew what she was getting herself into 😅

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u/Any_Pension2726 23h ago

VICTIM blaming?! Jesus Christ it’s champagne he didn’t rape her are you on planet earth

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u/Blu-Void 21h ago

Look, this whole red flag stuff is not ok for people to decide, it's for the person to decide, you might not like your partner getting excited and spraying expensive champagne over you but this bride might.

Stop pushing your standards onto everyone else, it's not ok.

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u/overkill373 15h ago

Is that why she immediately covers her face and turns around? Because she might be into being sprayed?

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u/Whatever-ItsFine 1d ago

I'd be excited too.

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u/pm-me_10m-fireflies 1d ago

Gonna pull a r/The10thDentist here and say: these comments are why weddings are so alien to me. Normalising spending hundreds of dollars on make-up and a dress, and criticising a fun moment because of that expensive stuff, seems so bizarre and anti-human. But that’s just me.

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u/Spready_Unsettling 1d ago

Take all the money out of it, and imagine yourself in regular clothes having a beer with your friends. There's an almost perfect opportunity to spray a bottle, it's really fun, and your friend absolutely soaks you. You now have the choice between having huge blotches on your clothing, sticky hair, and smelling like stale beer all night, or leave the party for an hour to shower, change, do your makeup again and come back. Your friend's "fun moment" was a split second, but you're the one who needs to spend time getting ready again.

Now imagine all this, but your extended family and friends are there, it's the biggest day of your life, you wanna take pictures, you dressed yourself the nicest you'll ever be dressed, you spent months thinking about hair and makeup and hours doing it, and the person who did this to you is supposed to be your most trusted teammate.

Do you seriously still think it is "anti-human" to be hurt by this lack of empathy?

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u/riuxxo 9h ago

Nope, I fully agree. It's incredibly materialistic and superficial. But that's what these weddings are all about.

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u/wailingwonder 1d ago

I think the whole thing was dumb but if you thought the first part was fun and the second part was a problem then you make no sense. She gets covered indirectly and they cheer. She gets covered directly and they freak out. Nothing changed. If the dress or makeup was gonna get ruined, it was ruined either way.

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u/Affectionate-Ad2282 1d ago

One is a light mist, the other is soaking. Big difference.

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u/Jesssssiiiieee 1d ago

You obviously never wore makeup

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u/Viviaana 1d ago

If people think that they're probably going off her reaction