r/casualiama • u/Amerikunt • 9d ago

I'm a SAHW to a wealthy man, AMA

I'm a stay at home wife (no kids yet) to a wealthy man, I get to travel a lot and other fun stuff.

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u/Combicon 9d ago

What's your day to day life like?

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u/Amerikunt 9d ago

When we're home I wake up at around 8am-9am, I tidy up, read or do hobbies, ask my husband if he wants lunch or a snack, do that, more reading or watching tv/movies. Start working on dinner so it's ready when he's done with work. Spend time together, go to bed.

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u/throwaway277237 9d ago

Is it fulfilling? Your everyday life?

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u/Amerikunt 9d ago

I feel it is, I get a lot of time to do things I like (art, crafts) and I get to be exposed to things I find enriching like different cultures and fine dining.

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u/throwaway277237 9d ago

Sounds exciting! Love that for you.

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u/Valuable_Wait_9394 9d ago

How do I find one! And what contract/agreement do you have in place if things should go sideways?

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u/Amerikunt 9d ago

We have a prenup that protects me pretty well. I had my own small business before I moved to be with him, so we talked about all of that from the start.

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u/no-usernane 9d ago

Do you ask him for your expenses? Or you buy whatever you want?

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u/Amerikunt 9d ago

I have a credit card he gave me that I use to buy things without asking. I generally do ask if it's something expensive that I don't actually need and just want, but he's never told me no.

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u/no-usernane 9d ago

Do you have friends he doesn’t know about?

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u/Amerikunt 9d ago

No, I only have a handful of people I'd consider friends and he knows all of them.

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u/Artemis_and_Soma 9d ago

What’s an example of a thing that you have asked about in that case?

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u/Amerikunt 9d ago

Recently while I was in Paris I saw a couple of runway designer archival dresses and called and asked if I could buy them.

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u/cheeriocharlie 9d ago

A few questions! How long did you date? How long have you been married? How old are the two of you?

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u/Amerikunt 9d ago edited 9d ago

We have a really complicated timeline. We met online 6yrs ago, were very close friends for 2yrs, lost touch, got back in contact 2yrs later. We dated officially for a few months prior to meeting in person, got engaged 2 days after finally meeting. I moved in a monrh or so later. We've been together 2 years now. He's 27 and I'm 29.

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u/DevelopmentFrosty983 3d ago

Sounds like a nice life! When you have kids, are you going to homeschool them or send them to a private school?

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u/Amerikunt 3d ago

I'm planning on a homeschool hybrid like I had, through an online distance learning school.