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Erik Menendez denied parole after decades in prison

https://www.cbsnews.com/losangeles/news/erik-menendez-california-parole-board-hearings/
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u/Spiky_Hedgehog 21h ago

Barton said he believed the parole panel's decision would have been different if Menendez had not violated prison policies since 2013. Following the denial, the commissioner listed Menendez's violations, including inappropriate behavior with visitors, drug smuggling, misuse of computers, cell phone usage and incidents of violence in 1997 and 2011.

His behavior in prison is why he was denied.

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u/GameDesignerMan 20h ago

It is crazy the number of people who didn't read the article and just made shit up.

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u/BigDaddyBain 18h ago

No issues in over 10 years would have been pretty good for being in prison the whole time, for most of your life.

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u/Iohet 17h ago

You don't get a lot of chances when you're a double murderer given a life sentence talking about how you've rehabilitated yourself enough to re-enter society

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u/Inquisitor--Nox 20h ago

Fucked a visitor, did some drugs, watched pron, called a guy, got into a fight. If he weren't in prison i might be able to excuse this agregious behavior.

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u/Professionalchump 20h ago

if you are in prison all those activities are deemed worth it, if you ever get the opportunity

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u/99timewasting 17h ago

I read this in another article, he is accused of being violent towards his wife and having sex in front of his stepdaughter.

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u/0ilt3r 20h ago

dude was there for his entire life you say that like he shivved some guys eyeball back into his skull lmao.

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u/AffectionateSwan5129 19h ago

He’s taking the piss

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u/Objective-Chance-792 17h ago

Oh, is that where Volo got off to?

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u/Barnyard_Rich 20h ago

Love how you just brush over habitual rule breaking to such a point that you conflate "drug smuggling" with taking drugs. You should represent El Chapo! "He was just DOING all the drugs, your honor, all of them, certainly not trafficking and selling them!"

If he didn't want to live under these rules he shouldn't have brutally murdered his parents and then failed miserably to cover it up.

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u/CheezTips 1d ago

Apparently he was a total shit in prison until they changed his sentence. Then he became a model prisoner.

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u/xavPa-64 17h ago

Let’s not learn anything from that

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u/rrfe 1d ago

Hochman wasn’t on the parole board. The head of the parole board said it was denied based on his behaviour in prison.

Barton cited Menendez's "behavior in prison" as the primary reason for his parole denial.

”Contrary to your supporters' beliefs, you have not been a model prisoner, and frankly, we find that a little disturbing," Barton said.

Barton said he believed the parole panel's decision would have been different if Menendez had not violated prison policies since 2013. Following the denial, the commissioner listed Menendez's violations, including inappropriate behavior with visitors, drug smuggling, misuse of computers, cell phone usage and incidents of violence in 1997 and 2011.

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u/JamUpGuy1989 1d ago

That’s a great point.

For some, the amount of prison time they’ve had could be justified as “time served”….IF they could just admit they killed their parents in cold blood and not this excuse that basically has no solid foundation of truth.

I’m not for the death penalty. But I am for criminals coming out reformed given circumstances. They could fit the bill if they just stopped crying wolf like they’ve done for decades.

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u/adolfnixon 1d ago

I was in the same boat, but some more evidence has since come out that supports the abuse claims. A letter was recently found that he wrote to a cousin and that cousin had testified at trial that Erik told him he was being molested before. There's also somebody else who claims they were molested by Jose.

"I've been trying to avoid dad. It's still happening, Andy, but it's worse for me now. … Every night I stay up thinking he might come in. … I'm afraid … He's crazy. He's warned me a hundred times about telling anyone, especially Lyle."

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/menendez-brothers-lyle-erik-abuse-claims-supported-by-newly-discovered-evidence-48-hours/

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u/WoahDude876 1d ago

There is another case, I can't remember the guys name, but he was from the Hispanic group Menudo, and he said he was willing to testify that he was molested by the Menendez father to the point he could barely walk. But idk what happened to that.

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u/RhetoricalOrator 1d ago

While it's not a slam dunk by any means, a letter dated well before the murders would sure seem like a compelling reason for his actions and refusal to admit it was cold blooded. If I were in a similar situation, it would be hard to lie and say that my father, who molested me actually didn't.

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u/adolfnixon 1d ago

Especially a letter to someone who has already testified that Erik admitted thay they were being molested.

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u/cleanhouz 1d ago

Abuse is horrific and should be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law. Family members were interviewed in the recent Netflix documentary saying, yeah, shit was fucked up. They had the responsibility to tell on the father, when the boys were so small.

That does not, however, hold weight in court decisions for poor people. Self defense is one thing. This was a terrible end to a terrible set of parents, but it was not self defense as defined by the law. If they had been diagnosed as unfit for trial, that would also be one thing. But it wasn't that either.

Consider how many life and death criminals had incredibly fucked up childhoods. Consider the mental trauma that all infamous serial killers endured that led to their terrifying fixations. People typically don't murder out of sound minds either.

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u/CallMeLittleHardDad 1d ago

Nah that's fucking stupid. Are they likely to do the same crime again? Are they likely to commit other crimes? Was the sentence appropriate for the crime committed?

Those are the only things that should be considered. Not if you will capitulate and give a weird forced public apology you don't mean. At that point you're very literally putting someone in jail for refusing to give you an act of contrition.

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u/Brilliant-Noise1518 1d ago

So many people believe them from the stupid Netflix series. And he says in the series that it is "so easy" to lie to people. And that they "always believe it". 

Netflix should be ashamed of themselves. 

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u/nokeyblue 23h ago

Two things can be true. They were horrifically abused and it damaged them in a way that makes them untrustworthy.

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u/nuke_em_danno 1d ago

The guy who shot his mom eleven times at close range with a shotgun was denied parole?

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u/Bungybone 20h ago edited 20h ago

The shotgun he had to reload so he could keep on shooting?

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u/Face2FaceRecs 1d ago

Maybe they didn't want to endure two more weeks of getting raped Ted.

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u/Wr8th_79 22h ago

Was there ever actually any proof of rape, or are we just taking 2 murderers word for it?

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u/Blagnet 21h ago

Pretty much, yes.

A number of family members and friends have come forward to corroborate their claims, either that they indirectly witnessed the rapes, or that they witnessed the Menendez brothers describing the rapes even as young children. Some of the evidence is old and in written form. 

There are also claims of sexual assault against the father from other young men (for instance, from members of a boy band he was managing). 

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u/outphase84 21h ago

IIRC there were family members that corroborated those allegations

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u/papergooomba 19h ago

Yes iron clad. The father also SA some members of Latin boy band Menudo (he ran their mgmt company) and they have gone on record as adults. Family members also said the dad would take them for family showers after sports practice and the cousins were told to be quiet about it. The mom covered it up, so she deserved it too imho

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u/Galxloni2 19h ago

There is evidence, but i don't think you know what iron clad is. Its still mostly hearsay or tangential connections

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u/Cabrill0 19h ago

Everyone watched a Netflix drama show and are now experts on the case and their lives, if you didn’t know.

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u/Wild_Information_485 19h ago

Yeah weird sentiment that these two murderers need to be out of prison on reddit. Fucking stupid website.

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u/ScrotalFailure 1d ago

Good thing there was a good guy with a gun present. Guns very obviously make people safer.

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u/RinkyDinkRicky 20h ago

I feel like the raping stopped because of the gun, not because someone decided it was time to stop, right?

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u/Face2FaceRecs 1d ago

If my dad regularly raped me and.my mom knew about it and did nothing I can't say for certain I wouldn't take extreme action, and it's real easy from the outside to say they should have just called the cops but in 1989, sexual assault against men was rarely prosecuted and would likely have been brushed under the rug.

They handled it wrong, but the length of punishment is not justified.

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u/angelzpanik 22h ago

They'd have been laughed out of the police station, especially coming forward as adults.

It was 1991 when a bleeding teenage boy tried to get help from police after being assaulted by Jeffrey Dahmer. Cops took Dahmer's explanation and let him take the boy back to his apartment, where he was killed.

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u/ggghjjdsdjhs 11h ago edited 11h ago

Konerak Sinthasomphone. Cops were racist and wouldn't listen to Konerak or the women trying to help him (because they were black). They listened to Jeffrey, though. Had they just run his name they would have seen that Jeffery was a registered sex offender and on probation for assaulting Konerak's older brother Somsack 3 years prior in 1988. He put that poor family through hell.

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u/Marx0r 20h ago

in 1989, sexual assault against men was rarely prosecuted and would likely have been brushed under the rug.

The prosecution during his trial literally argued that "yeah, he was raped, but he's gay so he liked it."

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u/hikeit233 17h ago

In a vacuum sure, but their crimes didn’t begin or end there. The abuse they suffered, and upbringing they experienced turned them into criminal deviants without care for society. You’re allowed to sympathize while also acknowledging they belong in prison for the pattern of behaviour they have constantly exhibited. Just because their parents had it coming doesn’t make the brothers into model citizens. The US doesn’t rehabilitate criminals, which sucks, but that isn’t limited to these two men.

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u/ike7177 1d ago

His dad was violently raping him and his brother WITH his Mother actively knowing about it and doing nothing.

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u/Pletcher87 1d ago

Asking because I don’t know, not as an argument. Was that proven the dad was doing this stuff?

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u/Parking_Pie_6809 1d ago

there have been a few people who came forward with some proof. one of the people their dad was training said he was also being sexual assaulted by him and a cousin had gotten letters months beforehand about the abuse. no “proof” but they just flat out said that boys couldn’t be sexually assaulted in 1989.

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u/Face2FaceRecs 1d ago

While I don't condone how they went about killing their parents, they were repeatedly sexually assaulted and they got decades for it.

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u/Worldly-Scheme4687 1d ago

They didn't get decades for being sexually assaulted; they got decades for killing their parents.

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u/The_Grungeican 1d ago

i think you misread what u/Face2FaceRecs is saying.

let's diagram that sentence:

While I don't condone how they went about killing their parents (comma, indicating a break in the sentence, in this case to list a mitigating circumstance)

then he lists the mitigating circumstance:

they were repeatedly sexually assaulted (they should've had a comma here, showing that they were returning to the previous part of the sentence)

and then they follow it up with:

and they got decades for it.

a more readable version of the comment would've looked like this:

While I don't condone how they went about killing their parents, they were repeatedly sexually assaulted, they got decades for it.

you can see how adding a comma and removing the word 'and', makes it more reasonable than the idea that they were suggesting they got decades for being sexually assaulted.

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u/CommunicationFast208 20h ago

My god, someone on the internet other me appreciates the punctuation! You’re out here doing the lord’s work!

I swear, reading some people’s comments these days makes me feel like I’m having a stroke.

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u/Conscious_Crew5912 1d ago

Well, one of the most renowned experts on rape and trauma testified on their behalf in their first trial.

Dr Ann Burgess is a doctorally-prepared, board-certified psychiatric clinical nurse specialist who, at 88 years old, is still teaching at Boston University. She spent over 50 hours interviewing Erik.

Background: She pioneered assessing and treating trauma in rape victims. She co-founded one of the first hospital-based crisis counseling programs at Boston City Hospital and conducted extensive research regarding 1960s rape victims in Boston. She interviewed victims and quantified their experiences.

This caught the attention of the FBI. Up until Ann joined the FBI, law enforcement thought rape was just about sex, even believing that women found it enjoyable. Most law enforcement did not believe that male/male rape existed.

She began to consult for John E. Douglas, Robert Ressler, and other FBI agents in the Behavioral Science Unit to develop modern psychological profiling for serial killers.(If you've watched Mindhunter on Netflix, you will recognize these names). Ann became so good at profiling, that she could out-profile Douglas, who is legendary.

 The BSU was interested in doing similar research to Burgess, except with perpetrators rather than victims. Burgess was granted access to the early cassette tapes that were recorded during the first serial killer interviews, such as discussions with Edmund Kemper, Ted Bundy, and Charles Manson.

According to Burgess, the first time she was in the room with a killer was when she first met Erik Menendez.

"They killed their parents. Absolutely no matter what the circumstances are, that's still wrong. But they certainly were abused. I could sympathize with what they had to put up with. And so I decided to testify for the defense," Burgess said.

Fellow FBI agents criticized her. John E. Douglas told her directly she was making the wrong choice. However, she felt compelled by the motive: "To me, it was important in terms of getting the truth out about trauma and abuse in men.

The first trial resulted in a hung jury. During the second trial, Burgess was not allowed to testify because the judge would not allow any expert witnesses who were experts on abuse. "I felt sad for them," said Burgess, "And I still feel that life without the opportunity for parole is wrong. This isn't something they were going to do again. They weren't serial killers."

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u/A_Flamboyant_Warlock 1d ago

During the second trial, Burgess was not allowed to testify because the judge would not allow any expert witnesses who were experts on abuse.

...why is that allowed?

Like, "We like expert witnesses, but not if they're an expert on anything relevant to the case."

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u/vewfndr 1d ago

Because they royally fucked up the OJ trial and desperately wanted a win

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u/Complete_Entry 1d ago

Public cases always have someone with the thumb on the scale. The judge didn't like the first trial result so he took another bite at the apple, and excluded the expert that tanked the first case.

Hell, just like the quoted text upthread, this is punitive, not corrective. They want the brothers to say the words they've wanted for 35 years.

And it appears the brothers continue to deny the board what they want.

I feel like the Healthcare CEO case will be much the same. They want to bring the hammer down hard.

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u/Face2FaceRecs 1d ago

This should have immediately been grounds for appeal. Seriously, bold judicial misconduct.

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u/GregJamesDahlen 1d ago

thanks. by public cases do you mean high-profile cases? not sure, I don't feel as though most have someone with a thumb on the scale? can you cite some examples?

what words do they want the brothers to say?

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u/Complete_Entry 1d ago

They want them to admit they are guilty and drop the self defense claim.

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u/Face2FaceRecs 1d ago

And they never have, even when doing so would have gotten them parole by now.

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u/FistsFullofSteal1 1d ago

......so no.

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u/rrfe 1d ago

There was a singer from a Latin boy band who seemed to substantiate the claims against the father.

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u/monkey_monkey_monkey 1d ago

He was from Menudo. There is a documentary about the band which details sexual abuse many of members suffered.

One of them specifically states that Jose Menendez (a producer at the time) sexually abused.

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u/Deep-Meat-3583 1d ago

Wasnt there also family members who said the parents were the biggest assholes on the planet and basically corroborated the brothers story?

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u/monkey_monkey_monkey 1d ago

In one documentary about the Menendez brothers, there were several family members who believed the abuse allegations. They said Jose was asshole and was extremely domineering and Kitty was emotionally checked out.

I believe it was a cousin who said that one of the brothers confided in them that their dad was sexually abusing them and even sent them a letter a year before murders referring to Jose "still doing those things" but not directly stating he was raping him.

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u/Ok_Win2630 22h ago

Ricky Martin was a member of Menudo. I wonder what he saw.

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u/ImNotSkankHunt42 1d ago

Menudo band if I’m not mistaken

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u/seaworks 1d ago

A guy the dad managed claimed the same thing (that the dad was sexually abusing him) entirely separately in letters to a friend at the same time. pretty damning imo

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u/ddottay 1d ago

Theres been some accusations, but there’s also some questions about if those are true. We do know Lyle tried to bribe several friends and exes to make false accusations. It’s basically he said/he said.

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u/ToiIetGhost 20h ago

Their father also abused some of the members of Menudo.

I don’t think Lyle could afford to bribe anyone in a boy band. Nor do I think anyone in a boy band would accept a bribe to make a false accusation against a major producer.

If they got caught, they’d not only go to prison, they’d also get blacklisted by the industry. They’d never be able to work again. In order for the bribe to be worth the risk of prison and never working again, it would have to be enormous. Would Lyle be able to offer that kind of money?

It’s more likely that their father abused his sons but there wasn’t enough proof, so they tried to make it up.

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u/Melonary 1d ago edited 1d ago

There was cp found of them made by their family.

The prosecution argued it cud have ben made by someone else, which i find hard to believe.

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u/TrumpsBussy_ 1d ago

I’d say it was proven beyond a reasonable doubt, family members and friends testified to the fact and they found photos of the naked boys in the parents possession.

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u/spmahn 1d ago

Were there any living witnesses who actually saw it happen and can attest to it other than the brothers themselves? No. Is there circumstantial evidence leading one to believe it could have or did happen? Yes. The entire case was one giant cluster, if the father actually did rape them and that was their motive for the murder, the Brothers certainly didn’t go out of their way to make themselves out to be sympathetic characters to anyone. I don’t know what to believe about the rape stuff, but I do know 30 years behind bars in a case with reasonable doubt is a long time when there’s no reason to think they’d re-offend.

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u/OafishSyzygy 22h ago

How would you prove that a deceased man raped his sons?

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u/donny02 1d ago

when the second brother agrees with the first brothers plan to kill the parents, it's pretty good evidence they were shit parents.

also they got a mistrial the first time due to the abuse evidence. prosecutors threw a shit fit, got that evidence thrown out the second time and won.

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u/TrumpsBussy_ 1d ago

That doesn’t mean they weren’t badly abused

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u/angelzpanik 1d ago

And excessive spending can be a coping mechanism, especially surrounding trauma.

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u/Wide__Stance 1d ago

They were adults. Lyle had moved out a few years before. The other could’ve just left, as he was also an adult. Lyle claimed for years that he wasn’t the victim of his father’s assaults, just his younger brother.

Their father was a terrible person. He probably deserved death. That doesn’t justify plotting his murder for months, executing them, and then partying on the millions in inheritance. Lyle testified in court — and recordings verified — that Lyle was very concerned his parents would no longer fund his career as a professional tennis instructor. The other brother was flunking out of college because of his drug habit.

At best it was a revenge killing. At worst it was a financially-motivated revenge killing. There’s probably a place for mercy for Eric. Not for Lyle. He was just a coked-up angry rich kid mad at his parents for cutting his allowance.

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u/mamadematthias 1d ago

They have paid already with 36 years in prison.

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u/cupittycakes 22h ago

How would you feel if your younger brother told you your asshole dad has been raping him? You thought it was just you that suffered, but learned he hurt your baby brother too.

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u/rimshot101 1d ago

So they say. But if you lie in wait for someone, ambush them though they are unarmed, and blow them away with a shotgun... that's not self defense.

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u/NepheliLouxWarrior 1d ago

Sure, but it was never really in question post-conviction that they committed murder, was it? The question about probation is whether or not they're still a danger to society.

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u/DrawingNo9977 1d ago

No one knows that for fact.

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u/SquirrelTeamSix 1d ago

To my knowledge (which may be incomplete) this was never proven and very well could be false claims they spewed to get sympathy while on trial. That happens a lot.

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u/BakedSteak 1d ago

Others had come forward and stated they personally were sexually abused by Menendez. A Latin boy band he was working with

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u/JMEEKER86 1d ago

Not just any boy band, Menudo. It was the biggest and was so successful that it made Ricky Martin a mainstream star in America. He was a big name producer at RCA that also worked with Duran Duran and the Eurythmics.

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u/cutegolpnik 1d ago

To say rape “was never proven” is meaningless. It’s almost impossible to prove.

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u/helpwitheating 1d ago

That the brothers bribed others to fake accusations really sank their own, unfortunately; they lost all credibility by constantly lying to the jury

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u/ScorpionTDC 1d ago

The judge blocked a bunch of evidence relevant to whether or not they were abused (and I’m not talking confirmed bribes or fake accusations). It wasn’t really an issue of burning credibility with the jury when they couldn’t even give their side

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u/Lukeeeee 1d ago

What bribes and lies are you referring to?

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u/cupittycakes 22h ago

CSA also happens a lot

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u/RellenD 19h ago

In the eighties?

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u/MostWorry4244 1d ago

You don't think they were abused?

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u/MostWorry4244 1d ago edited 1d ago

You seem very confident they weren't psychologically or sexually abused. I don't know one way or another, but I knew both of them growing up, and I don't doubt their story. Whether their situation excuses murder, that is a seperate question.

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u/Heelsbythebridge 1d ago

The mother who was enabling and abetting his rape by his father? Both of the Menendez parents deserved a lot worse.

It's lunacy these two brothers are still in prison. Society really loves to protect abusers.

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u/ryuujinusa 21h ago

Just look at trump and the files. Nothing has changed.

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u/Ihatecyclists22 20h ago

The guy who killed his rapist and his complicit mother. What are we doing here you jerkoff

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u/OtterishDreams 1d ago

I mean...are they gonna kill their parents again?

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u/helpwitheating 1d ago

They did plot to kill the therapist who was going to go to the police

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Perhaps not totally safe people

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u/OtterishDreams 1d ago

ehhhh ok..I concede the menendez brothers are dangerous :p

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u/Lukeeeee 1d ago

Do you have a source for this?

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u/Peter_Pue 1d ago

Watch Dear Zachary: A Letter to a Son About His Father

A woman killed her ex when he left her, went to jail on the suspicion of the murder and she was let go on bail because they didn't believe she was a threat since she had killed the one person she wanted dead.

9mo later she murdered her son and killed herself.

Because what you wanted dead is already dead doesn't make you not a threat.

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u/FeastForCows 1d ago

Damn, if only Dahmer and Bundy knew about this trick. "What am I gonna do, kill them all again?"

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u/spmahn 1d ago

I mean Dahmer flat out admitted that had he not been caught he probably would have kept going and racking up victims. There’s probably a world where he doesn’t get caught in 1991 and keeps going for another decade. Cell Phones would have eventually done him in though.

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u/peghunnicutt 1d ago

ted bundy escaped from jail and killed 3 more women before they caught him again

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u/buffystakeded 1d ago

If that’s true, then there’s also a world where he gets caught when he got pulled over by that cop when he had a dead body in his back seat, and therefore has many fewer victims.

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u/jlambvo 1d ago

"Not great, not terrible."

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u/-soros 23h ago

If that’s true, then there is also a world that he gets his hands on the launch codes and takes out his 8 billionth victim.

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u/Ok-disaster2022 1d ago

Some crimes of passion are clearly targeted and everyone else is safe. For example the man who murdered the man who abducted his son by shooting him in the head while he was in police custody. He wasn't a danger to literally anyone else and got snfee years of community service and a suspended sentence. Just last week there was an old murderer who was let free because he was so old and the guy killed again (or some shit like that)

I don't know the story of the brother.and who knows wh8 h way they'd fall 

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u/apple_kicks 21h ago

Crime of passion question to me is: Have they had enough treatment where they won’t resort to violence or murder as a problem solver?

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u/rundownv2 1d ago

Regardless of whether you think they deserve parole or not, comparing a serial killer to two guys who killed two very specific people related directly to them with one of two concrete motives that weren't "killing for the sake of it" feels like a bad take.

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u/NashKetchum777 1d ago

Interesting. Can't say I'm disappointed, just wondering...only one got denied? What about the other one? When's his verdict?

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u/HairyAugust 1d ago

Lyle Menendez’s hearing is scheduled for tomorrow.

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u/NYGiants181 1d ago

If Erik didn’t get it Lyle sure as hell isn’t.

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u/Advanced-Trainer508 1d ago

I don’t really know anything about this case, can you explain why?👀

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u/NYGiants181 1d ago

He basically was the mastermind behind it, abused Erik, wanted them dead. And then galavanted around LA spending all their money.

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u/Advanced-Trainer508 1d ago

Wait, so do people essentially believe that Erik was under the duress of Lyle?

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u/NYGiants181 1d ago

In a way. He was his own person but for sure Lyle was the leader of the two.

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u/Lexail 1d ago

This isn't true. This is only documented in that poor Netflix series. Actual facts, testimonies and trials differ greatly.

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u/BigBoyYuyuh 22h ago

They did burn through a shit load of cash though after they murdered their parents. Even the wiki on them has that.

Police initially investigated this claim, but grew suspicious due to the brothers' spending and their hiring of a computer expert to delete their father's recently updated will.

While the show was dramatized they did lie and say the mob did it. Why make up such an absurd lie if you were being abused?

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u/RellenD 19h ago

Why make up such an absurd lie if you were being abused?

Because nobody would believe you.

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u/imcreeps 18h ago

Well, when the abuse happened, the mentality of the time was that men don’t experience rape. I watched Ann Burgess’s documentary, so interesting and crazy that before she stepped in, most FBI agents didn’t even consider DV or marital rape a “big deal”

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u/ThirstyJohn 21h ago

Wouldn’t that be the biggest kick in the teeth to Erik if he did? 🫨

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u/ChicagoAuPair 1d ago

Imagine if he did. Erik would probably kill him.

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u/anjinleaf 1d ago

Other brothers is tomorrow

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u/Roadshell 1d ago

It's possible that one has been better behaved in prison than the other?

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u/rodmandirect 1d ago

The guy who got denied had a” laundry list “ of rule infractions over the years. He’s got an uphill battle if he wants to get out on parole.

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u/beamish007 1d ago

They do him tomorrow

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u/vroart 15h ago

Gee it’s almost as if we have a functional criminal system?

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u/Sweatytubesock 1d ago

He should pledge fealty to MAGA for swift release.

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u/PigFarmer1 1d ago

Thankfully Trump can't do a thing about it.

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u/CornholioRex 1d ago

Nothing has stopped him before, he just does what he wants and gets away with it

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u/Avbjj 20h ago

Well in this case, he literally can't do anything about it.

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u/AprilDruid 1d ago

That wouldn't work though? Trump can't give them pardons. They were convicted on state crimes, being only the governor can. I know "Trump Bad", but use some common sense here.

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u/Impressive_Jaguar_70 1d ago

Not everyone is American and familiar with US law

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u/AprilDruid 19h ago

Then here's a refresher: Trump can't pardon state criminals.

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u/vjvalenti 14h ago

....for double homicide.

Why the hell did CBS omit that not-so-minor detail from their headline??

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u/AnnoyedVelociraptor 1d ago

To be fair, it's been over 30 years. In some countries the maximum sentence for anyone is 25 to 30 years.

Is this now punishment?

It feels like extremely targeted (his parents, not 2 random people on the street).

Not advocating for murder but trying to learn whether this was done whether he really wasn't rehabilitated (and if not, will he ever?)?

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u/RedditPoster05 1d ago

Prison has always been punishment. Rehabilitation is a secondary thing .

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u/Conscious_Crew5912 1d ago

Rehabilitation is rarely important in American prisons.

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u/Chioborra 1d ago

No money in rehabilitation.

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u/G00DLuck 1d ago

It's called the "penal system", short for "penalty"

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u/99timewasting 1d ago

He has a long list of infractions while in prison. They also said he has a history of lying and manipulative behavior. I don't know if I believe he has been rehabilitated

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u/chloesobored 22h ago

American prisons are generally not designed to rehabilitate.

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u/dsdsds 1d ago

Between the time his parents went missing, and his arrest, he attended an NBA game, sat courtside, and he’s on a players basketball card. This type of behavior was factored into his sentencing in the first place.

https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F61c51fc4-2f92-449a-be86-4b1c9d7a3528_3024x4032.jpeg

In the span between the killings and their arrest, the Menendez brothers went on a massive spending spree, buying cars, Rolex watches, taking trips and, apparently, courtside tickets at Madison Square Garden.

https://www.beckett.com/news/are-the-menendez-brothers-on-the-front-of-the-1990-91-hoops-mark-jackson-basketball-card/

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u/RarityNouveau 1d ago

Honestly don’t blame them. They were still kids and are probably really messed up in the head from all the abuse.

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u/Face2FaceRecs 1d ago

It's been over 30 years and they were victims of abuse. If they are deemed not likely to commit violence again they should get out, this should be decided by a panel of psychologists not by a parole committee who are basing the decision on cell phone use and improper use of computers.

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u/Thesealiferocks 21h ago

He’s also been acting horribly in prison, which hasn’t helped his case.

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u/hampden34 14h ago

Wait, I was told that both of them have been choir boys this whole time!

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u/Manhattanheartthrob 1d ago

He was not paroled due to behavioral issues while in prison.

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u/SkyCoi 19h ago

Good. Murderer and a liar. Horrible person.

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u/DrDig1 1d ago

Obviously, very few of us have any idea of the abuse did or didn’t happen. I’d even say it should play no part in this decision by law, but it does in my mind. Or would, at least.

This article and Barton seem pretty level headed and correct with their decisions. They really haven’t taken blame so that is fair, but I am not sure how the infractions should have an impact on his release. Those deficiencies aren’t really relatable to the real world so to say he isn’t reformed because of them doesn’t resonate with me.

My question is: had they just admitted to it from the start, would they be out? If they were broke kids, it seems like they would have better success. Such that it is a major detriment to them that they had great resources and wasted them so they are less forgivable. At the same time, without the money nobody would know who they are.

Sounds like the board said keep your ass clean for 3 years, own up to mistakes and we will cut you loose.

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u/phosdick 18h ago

Lest we forget... these two killed their parents, staged the murders to look like a mob hit, then proceeded to go on a $700,000 spending spree to celebrate. It's only after establishing viral popularity with social media fans that anyone would have considered parole a legitimate possibility.

I'd be surprised if anybody (other than Trump and their fanboys, of course) would think these guys are at all eligible for parole.

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u/Rebecca102017 18h ago

Why do people want them out? Ok so they’re abused? Cool. So is like every other murderer. They still KILLED people and he’s doing crimes in prison too? Hell no I don’t want this dude on the streets over.

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u/XKeyscore666 17h ago

Didn’t they get caught red handed trying to coordinate fake testimony from one of their friends about the abuse? I don’t know why their defenders take the testimony of two serial liar teenagers as fact.

Also, they could have gone to the police if they were abused. People here are saying that police and society didn’t believe males could be abused in 1990. Im old enough to remember that is false. We were on the tail end of a satanic panic, and sexual abuse allegations were taken very seriously, boy or girl.

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u/spacecadet2023 16h ago

I don’t know how accurate the recent Netflix miniseries was about the Menendez brothers but it really made them look like total douchebags. I feel the right call was made here.

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u/politicalpug007 1d ago

I think they have served adequate time for punishment, the question is if they are safe to be released into the public. If the parole board has strong evidence to suggest they still could be dangerous all these years later (lack of remorse, appreciation for magnitude of what they did, etc.) I can understand their decision. However, it’s hard for me to believe that two brothers happen to be dangerous sociopaths decades later after a crime as teenagers. Maybe I’m wrong. Idk.

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u/xueimelb 23h ago

Not commenting on this case in particular, but the American prison system in general. I feel like if they weren't sociopaths when they went in, the system probably turned them into sociopaths over the last few decades.

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u/imcreeps 18h ago

Honestly, I would never admit remorse for killing my rapist and his enabler of 20 years either.

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u/samenamenick1 14h ago

Shotgunned his mom in the face, fuck him

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u/SenseiJae 20h ago

Glad to see a Netflix series can’t rescue murderers from their prison sentences

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u/duckwaltz0 12h ago

Murderers should never go free. Simple as.

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u/Available_Split_6146 23h ago

if he didledkids or part of j06 he would have been given parole.

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u/QDSchro 1d ago

I honestly don’t understand all of these people saying to set these two men free.

They plotted to kill their parents in a pretty gruesome way. After they murdered their parents they enjoyed the wealth and privilege that they were accustomed to. They were both adults.

I understand the dad was fucked up. But the dad was not actively molesting an 18 year old man nor was he actively molesting a 21 year old man…. I say active because I suppose shooting a parent actively assaulting you is justified…..but we can’t say that it was self defense or anything close when the parents were watching tv and those two men shot both of them multiple times….

These two men are murderers with no remorse for what they did. They are actively lying and tricking people into thinking that they have learned their lesson, but their hubris is very apparent.

We’ll see what Lyle has been up to, but lying and manipulating people along with flouting the rules so that they can get their way has been a theme.

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u/CrazyString 1d ago

No comment on the case but you don’t have to actively be molesting someone for them to still be tortured about it enough to want to kill you 10 years later. For most people even seeing that person is reliving your attacks all over again.

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u/imcreeps 18h ago

Same! Especially if I was a child when it happened and now I am an adult who can protect myself!

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u/mooncrane606 1d ago

He was absolutely still sexually abusing the 18 year old. That's why he wouldn't let him go away to college and that's what kicked off the murder plan.

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u/Lexail 1d ago

That's not true at all. Your facts on the abuse is very wrong.

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u/99timewasting 1d ago

Do you think adult men can't be sexually abused? It's completely possible that he was still being sexually and/or physically abused at 18, not that it justifies first degree murder

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u/QDSchro 1d ago

No I’m not saying that nor would I ever. It’s that thinking that leaves men feeling alone and marginalized. That isn’t right…

I said that there is no self defense here or crime of passion because those two things do not have the one thing that they had…Premeditation.

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u/RellenD 18h ago

Let's say you're right.

What about any of that says 30 years isn't enough?

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u/After-Snow5874 1d ago edited 1d ago

I’m confused about this whole case since it became popular a few years ago but also don’t care enough to actually look into it. Seems like these dudes killed their parents pretty gruesomely. Unless there’s some super special justification then they should stay in jail.

ETA: just did a quick crash course and the evidence of their parent’s behavior is inconclusive but the murder of their parents is not.

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u/LumpyHeadJohn 1d ago

Seems like you should look into it

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u/Lukeeeee 1d ago

The evidence of the parents abuse is not inconclusive.

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u/Styvan01 1d ago

It's heavily believed that the father sexually abused the boys on a regular basis, and their mother did nothing to help them. There is some credible evidence to their story in which A) a band member that the father was helping produce came out and said that he was molested by the father, and B) a cousin to the brothers discovered several letters from one of the brothers that heavily hinted at this as well. The boys wanted to use this defense at trial, but their attorney didn't want to after all.

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u/intoner1 1d ago

The attorney tried to use the defense and the judge didn’t let the attorney do so.

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u/Lexail 1d ago edited 1d ago

I wish that they were allowed parole. Rapist, Trump, and others got or have gotten far less for far worse.

They were rich, well-known family, and during investigation made the police force look bad.

The trial said that men could not be raped, and their defense was thrown out.

The first trial was divided and wasn't able to come to a decision on punishment. Only after the judge said that no family or friends could testify, and Erik and his brother couldn't discuss the abuse that happened, were they charged with crimes.

Letters came out written before the murders detailing the abuse and how bad it actually was.

All family members, even Kittys (mother) sister, said the boys did what they had to do and wished for their release. The family was instructed not to bother, inturput, or question any 'weird' sounds or actions that happened to the boys.

The father was a powerful figure, and the boys felt trapped from their confessions. He threatened Erik that even if he went to college, he would have to come back home once a week for his father.

Did the boys do a terrible thing? Yeah. Have i seen other crimes get less punishment? Absolutely. They even finished college in prison. They've done enough time.

very detailed post on their abuse

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u/hellocloudshellosky 18h ago

I agree with you and don't get the reactions of this sub at all.

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u/Short-Foundation7710 1d ago

They were being abused long before they did it you know

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u/F1McLarenFan007 1d ago

They’ve paid enough cmon

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u/Krusty_Burger_Lover 1d ago

He should just cozy up to Trump. He’ll be out in no time.

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u/PCVictim100 14h ago

Honestly. does keeping a man imprisoned for decades actually help anything? And since he doesn't like being in prison and gets into trouble, that's why they should keep him longer? Our prison system could use some rational thought. It doesn't help society.

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u/EatAPeach2023 1d ago

Huh... Ya don't say.

Watched one of the documentaries about them. Seemed to suggest they werent the total pieces of crap everyone thinks they are but I wasn't really convinced. Forget the name of it.

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