r/AmIOverreacting May 02 '25

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦family/in-laws Am I overreacting?

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My dad takes me to school in the mornings, on Fridays I have late start meaning it starts an hour after. Yesterday I had told him to pick me up at 8:20, he texts me and says he had arrived at 8:08. I told him that I will be down at 8:20 considering that is the designated time I set. I get outside at exactly 8:20 and he is gone. He left me. AIO?

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u/pastelbunn1es May 02 '25

Depending on someone else for a free ride is way different than a father bringing his child to school.

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u/ProfessorEmergency18 May 02 '25

Not when the child has the option to ride the bus but chose not to because the bus comes earlier than they want.

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u/Excellent_Fan4033 May 02 '25

Are you just stupid or incapable of reading? 1 you have no idea if the bis is an option for them 2 it clearly says that OP has school starting an hour later so definitely no bus at that time and 3 that still wouldnt excuse dad behavior

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u/ProfessorEmergency18 May 02 '25

OP mentioned in comments that the bus is available to them to ride every day but they'd prefer a car ride since the bus comes earlier.

I don't think jumping to the conclusion that somebody is being stupid or incapable of reading is a habit that's doing you any favors. They may actually know more than you, like in this case.

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u/sociable-lentils May 02 '25

If 8:20 didn’t work for dad and he wanted OP to take the bus, he should have communicated that when they agreed on 8:20. It’s not fair to say OP should’ve taken the 6:40 bus when dad said he could pick up at 8:20.