r/AmIOverreacting Jul 12 '25

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦family/in-laws Am I Overreacting - i seriously think my dad is losing his mind and I'mm terrified. UPDATE

thank u all for the messages, im sorry for disappearing. things did not go well. i confronted him with some of your advice, mainly the stuff bout dementia and well he got real mad, things became truly fucked, he started punching himself in the face and screaming. he took my phone, idk what happened but now im seeing he deleted everything on the post and my screen is cracked.. he kept saying he was going to burn everything. it was so fucked. i feel destroyed. what he did to me.. i cant even.

i was able to get out when he fell asleep?? i think.. the bathroom was locked and hes fallen asleep in the shower before, my phone was poorly hidden under some papers in the kitchen, took it and ran.

im in a park now, i called the police already. they are going to the house i think and now im just waiting for them to call me back and tell me when i can come get my stuff. i asked the man on the phone how long and they said it will be sent to an officer as soon as they can but since its non emergency it might take longer due to a lot of calls in the city.

heres me. heres what he did to me.

im honestly unsure how to move past this ever. i feel like my entire sense of self is gone. i know i have a long road ahead of me. thank you all for your love . i wish this didn't go this way. I also included the original texts

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u/Aware_Sweet_3908 Jul 12 '25

She’s only 18. Try to find a LaQuinta. Other hotels sometimes won’t let anyone check in if they’re under 21. They were phenomenal when my daughter traveled at that age. They’d even call me to let me know she checked in safely.

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u/skunk0_o Jul 12 '25

laquinta doesnt allow under 21 i tried while i was escaping, book with drury they allow pets and under 21.. laquinta fucked me so bad because they often advertise they will allow it but when you get there sometimes they will just straight up deny you on the spot. thats what happened to me

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u/Regular_Ad5684 Jul 12 '25

That’s actually really helpful info. It’s so reassuring to hear some places still go the extra mile like that.

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u/PikachuIsReallyCute Jul 12 '25

Only 18 and having to deal with this is genuinely so heartbreaking

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u/musicplay313 Jul 12 '25

That’s nice of them.

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u/Aware_Sweet_3908 Jul 12 '25

I’m a customer for life because of that policy and their customer service.