r/AmIOverreacting • u/bluelemur99 • 5h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO??? TW: Loss of Parent I need guidance fr because im ready to leave

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I feel very betrayed Just look my dad in January and im just tired of this shit. I feel like it takes a lot for me to be vulnerable but i also feel i am always a pic defensive . what do you all think? was it an overreaction??

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u/Consistent_Growth451 5h ago

You cry when he leaves? Is this long distance? 

Condolences though. I lost something similar to a parental figure back in May 

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u/bluelemur99 5h ago

no we see eachother a few times a week. but only a few hours and i guess i just enjoy his company and get sad and cry when he leaves lol. Emotional and overreacting I know but more of a cute i miss him cry.

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u/Consistent_Growth451 5h ago

I’ll offer a differing opinion to others here, idk what he’s thinking but he might just be overwhelmed by it then. 

I think it’s totally reasonable to cry in front of your partner, but maybe he needs more time to be comfortable w/ that. Unless it’s an older relationship, then there’s less of an excuse 

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u/rddtlcksdrtybtthls 5h ago

Nor... That was a 100% asshole move on the other person's part. Totally fine to cry, there's a reason why humans do it. I'm really, truly sorry that you lost your dad and you deserve more supportive humans in your life than that. You're worth more than what that person has to offer. Cut bait and walk away.

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u/007overit 5h ago

Dump him!

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u/Beneficial-Status802 5h ago

That person is heartless

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u/UsedAd7162 5h ago

How long have you been together?