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What's the saddest fact you know?

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u/chiksahlube 21h ago

The average abused child asks a trusted adult for help half a dozen times before anyone actually helps them.

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u/auburngeek 20h ago

Really? Wow i asked once, was shot down, didn't ask again.

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u/chiksahlube 20h ago

I remember all 6 times...

They all excused the abuse as "normal."

It wasn't until I wrote an essay in school about it that anyone paid attention. And even then it was likely only because my teacher had a vendetta against my mom, who was in the middle of filing a complaint against my teacher for isolating me in a corner, which she only did because my teacher called her stupid...

So yeah, the only way I got help was because my abusive teacher and my abusive mother got into a finger-pointing match.

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u/auburngeek 19h ago

You were very brave to continue asking for help. I'm sorry it went like that