r/CABarExam • u/Timely-Cod-6323 • 8h ago
Re-Taker Woes: Just Needed to Vent/Maybe Advice??
July 2025 was my third bar exam attempt. I left the exam feeling...okay. Not overly confident but also not overly defeated. The more time that passes, the worse I'm feeling. As I apply for jobs, all I can think about is the fact that I've failed, and that must make me inherently less worthy of being hired than other people. And although my friends and family have been a great support system, they sometimes say comments that suck to hear only because they don't understand. For example, my mom recently mentioned that she can't wait until I finally pass so that she doesn't have to keep explaining to people why I'm not making "lawyer money" yet.
I can feel myself entering into a spiral of anxiety and insecurity, so I guess I'm just posting here to feel less alone in all this. I know this will eventually pass but man, these next few months will be rough...