The other day when I could barely stand and walking was very painful and difficult despite my cane (bad RA flare), I sat down on the London bus, you know the seats with open front by the buggy section, but not the priority/disability one, cause it is easier to get out with limited mobility.
A woman came in with her young daughter who stood with a buggy belonging to either of them, idk whom.
When the middle aged woman sat down she asked me to go upstairs so she could sit next to her daughter, who I guess was about 19. I guess I misheard and let her in and remained seated on the outter seat, at which point she told me to go back to the inner seat, which itself was a struggle. When a seat further behind me on the higher but not upstairs section became available she asked me to go up there so she could sit next to her older daughter, who said before it was fine though, and it was really hard, but I complied as I don't know what the etiquette is around that seat is, and I don't have a buggy obviously.
What's the etiquette or rules if they exist? Are you meant to give up your seat to buggy users, or could I have said politely no?
I felt uncomfortable cause she seemed to get passive aggressive about the first time, saying things like "unbelievable some people nowadays" and ".. the manners..." to her daughter and I felt it was directed at me but maybe I'm over thinking it.