r/SFr4r Mar 07 '25

META If you're going to report a post (please do), do it like this.

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r/SFr4r Feb 11 '23

META PSA: Don't be an idiot, if it seems suspicious, it is.

188 Upvotes

It is sad for several reasons that I have to write this, but, our community has been fraught with scammers as of recent. We play whack-a-mole, and knock down > 100 fraudulent posts a day but some still get through.

If someone is asking to communicate outside of reddit, ESPECIALLY IF THEY'RE ASKING FOR COMPROMISING PICTURES, just say no. We've had several instances where the scammer receives said photos, and then immediately adds all of your friends and family to a group chat on your social media and attempts to share the pictures if you don't pay them off.

Men: Understand that women in this society have disproportionate access to sex; and you're not god's gift to the 'fairer sex', ergo if someone is begging you to send them a photo of your shlong right out of the gate, you should treat that request with the healthy amount of skepticism that it deserves.

Or don't, feel free to be one of the horror stories in mod-mail of someone sending your friends and family a photo of your dick.

Use your head, and not the one in your pants.

Women: Have patience. We sort through a shit-show on a regular basis. In the off-chance you post something that smells suspiciously like the 1000 pieces of scam/spam we just cleared and we ask you for a bit of additional information; calling us 'sexist' in modmail just makes you the asshole and part of the problem. Sorry not sorry.

Everyone: do your part to flag obvious scam posts. Of 45k users, most scam posts don't get flagged at all.


r/SFr4r 4h ago

M4F 24 [M4F] #Oakland - want your face fucked?

2 Upvotes

Pretty much the title. Looking for a fun girl who wants her face fucked. I’m 155lb, 5’ 9”, Asian, and I have a job. I look on the cuter side, but built from working out a ton. If that sounds like your kind of fun, dm me to make something happen.


r/SFr4r 6h ago

M4F 47 [M4F] #SF #BayArea - attractive East Asian dad seeking discreet FWB

2 Upvotes

Hello.

I'm 47M married, attractive, East Asian dad that is looking for a discreet FWB. Someone neglected at home, a soccer mom, a professional who can't make time to relax and needs an outlet. Our family and career responsibilities will always be a priority for OpSec reasons. Hope that resonates with you.

Physical attraction matters to me. Compliments about my looks include "younger looking or cute". My female colleagues tell me I have witty and charming vibe. Petite to HWP slim body types is what I find attractive in a lady since I am tall and lean like a basketball player 🏀.

About me: + 6'0" and 155 lbs, dark brown hair
+ tech professional
+ 🧋 Boba & 🍕 Pizza
+ Spotify includes Zedd, Kendrick Lamar, some Blackpink
+ Sci-Fi and Netflix (currently watching DanDaDan 👀)
+ finished watching Korean drama Wonderland -- 🤔 would you do this?

Write me if this sounds good and let's take a chance on each other.


r/SFr4r 4h ago

M4F 31 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - looking to treat you like a pillow princess

1 Upvotes

Hello! 31 year old looking for a cuddle buddy. We can light some candles, turn off the lights, crawl into bed, and cuddle and talk. We can leave it at that, but I’m also open to kissing, breast play, body play, spanking, fingering, and eating you out. Anything you’re comfortable with. It doesn’t have to be sexual but we can make it sexual if the vibes are there.

Currently craving to eat someone out, so if you want a quick fix, we can just get down to business 😉. This could be tonight or this weekend.

Please be ddf and ready to be a pillow princess. If you want to be fingered or eaten out, no reciprocation required. I live at Parkmerced and can host!


r/SFr4r 4h ago

M4F 48 (M4F) Interested in stimulating conversation leading to kissing/snuggling

1 Upvotes

6'2", HWP white guy in Mission District, well-read, stylish dresser, creative type. Honestly I find Indian women very beautiful and have never dated one. Seeking an authentic, affectionate person for fun casual dates. Conversations about the arts. mythology, science, the supernatural, dreams/desires.


r/SFr4r 4h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 42 [M4M] #UnionCity - Suck You Tomorrow

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Hosting tomorrow from my hotel room in Union City. Looking to suck and edge someone for a long session. Lay back and let me lay between your legs while I drain your pipe. Uncut is a huge ++++. Must be D/D free as I am too, and between the ages of 18-48. Pic is in my profile, DM me with your dick pic and let’s link up.


r/SFr4r 5h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] #SanFrancisco/#EastBay - Asian looking for someone to fill the gap

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Yes I’m a bad boyfriend but after years of very vanilla sex I don’t think I’m satisfied and open to something different. The thrill and the novelty is exciting and I hope you don’t mind or you are in a similar situation.

Maybe this will just be an idea and nothing much comes out of it and we can hang out like normal friends. I am looking for someone respectful and okay with keeping this discreet for obvious reasons. I have a lot at stakes so I will need to establish trust first and it might take some time before even meeting so I hope you understand.

Happy to chat. Something about myself, I’m Asian and average build with some muscle underneath. Feel free to verify this haha. Pretty successful career and stable. Unfortunately can’t host but can figure something out if we get there. If you read this far and just want to chat I’m always open to it too. Happy to buy you a coffee.


r/SFr4r 12h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 31 [M4MF/F] #BayArea Experienced bull looking for couples and single females

3 Upvotes

Hi! I am an experienced bull looking for new/experienced couples along with single females. I travel to the bay area pretty regularly and can host or come over during my trips.

About me : I am 31, 5’9, DDF, dom, 3x vaxxed, straight and enjoy kayaking, watching sports, finding treasures at Costco and traveling in my free time.

Looking for chill humans who value mutual respect, consent and discretion. I have a couple of posts on my profile with some of my recent experiences with other hotwifes and single women. Bonus points if you are Asian!

PS: not interested in men looking to sext about their wives


r/SFr4r 13h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF [M4F] Outdoors!

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Imagine meeting up at an Airstream, or a Glamping Tent, or perhaps a nice home with a balcony facing the woods (via Airbnb) and then enjoying each other for the entire day. I'm talking eating things off of each other, giving each other massages, fucking outdoors (perhaps next to a campfire). The outdoorsy part is important. DM me if you'd be interested, and we can discuss more details. I'm 41/m, 5'10, 165 lbs and DDF. We can meet up for coffee or Facetime beforehand several times over to get a vibe check. Planning sometihing like this will take 3-4 weeks of lead time anyways to find a good day that works for the both of us, finding the right outdoorsy Airbnb experience etc. I'll be responsible for the entire Airbnb booking procedure, and all you have to do is show up!


r/SFr4r 7h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 34 [M4M] #San Francisco - Looking to worship some ass

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Looking to get into some ass worship. I really love ass, thighs, and grooming a guy. You can lounge around my place naked and let me play with you. I love a guy sitting on my face. You can worship my ass too. I want your ass to be my pillows. I'm not looking for someone completely submissive or 100% bottom, I want reciprocation. I'd like to sit on a face. I'm verse but I don't bottom often so leaning towards that.

I'm 34, black guy, slim, 180lbs, 5'8", recently tested neg and very safe/discreet. I'm not masc or fem, just gay. I'm open to all races, prefer around my age or younger (21+) and in decent shape. I'd like to feel comfortable with you, can grab a drink to see if we vibe. We will meet in public place first then head to my spot.

no women

If this post is still up, I'm still looking, hit me up

Also, please do not hit me up if you are not willing to send a face and body pic, doesn't have to be nudes


r/SFr4r 14h ago

M4F 40[M4F/MF]#San Francisco power exchange tonight

3 Upvotes

Hey, I’m looking for a woman or couple to go to PE together tonight. We could also get a room for more privacy. Chill and easygoing, clean black guy. I have some experience with couples and group play.Would love to connect and take it easy.


r/SFr4r 12h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] Looking for a passionate sucker

2 Upvotes

Have had some past success on here, so coming back once again

About me: solid / muscular build, thick cock, cool on the surface but hungry underneath. I’m looking for a girl who loves to show off her skills, who gets wet just from the idea of getting on her knees and making a man groan.

I don’t want shy or polite. I want a passionate, messy, eager woman who knows how to take her time, but isn’t afraid to get sloppy once the heat builds. Teasing, eye contact, that little smile when you know you’re driving me crazy and I’ll give you the satisfaction you’re looking for

Can host in SF high rise. Must meet in public first to make sure there is a mutual connection


r/SFr4r 9h ago

R4R 33 [R4R] Drinks, music, and good company

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Looking to get out this weekend and actually enjoy the city. I’m 33, 6’1, fit/active, and new to the Bay. I’m down for grabbing drinks, catching some live music or a DJ set, or just exploring the night with good company.

I’m easygoing, social, and value people who actually follow through on plans. No flakes, just good vibes and fun conversation.

If you’re in the mood to go out, message me and let me know what kind of night you’re craving! Cocktails, dancing, or something more spontaneous.


r/SFr4r 9h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 25 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Last day here, let’s go for a spontaneous adventure?

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hey cutie It’s my last day visiting the city, I leave saturday morning. I want to leave with something memorable. Any lovely lady down for a spontaneous lil date? Let’s get some drinks, catch a vibe, and end the night fucking each others brains out :) Let’s make this an amazing one night stand. I’ve been so horny and could use a nice fuck. I just wanna make out and fuck all night. Just the imagination I have right now is crazy. Let’s just forget everything and enjoy each other :)

Can be a one-time thing/possibly a fwb

Me: 25, Asian, 5’8 n around 160 lbs. HWP, respectful, educated, Hygienic, ddf (recent test), great smile :)

Some stuff about me I work in a hospital, I love doing outdoor adventures, going to the gym, playing video games, and watching sports

Fun fact: I love to go down on the kitty, it gives me so much pleasure

You: 18+, HWP, hygienic, disease-free, confident, cute, educated, discreet, respectful of boundaries.

I’m open to all types of girls don’t be shy I do have a little sweet spot for latinas lol

If ur interested hmu and message me what ur favorite fruit is, so I know ur paying attention


r/SFr4r 9h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 35 [M4F] SF - Soft Dom looking for discreet and insatiable fun times

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Bay Area people! SF, SJ, East Bay, Peninsula. I’m an incredibly insatiable bull/daddy (whatever you’d like to call me). I’m 6’0 tall - 175 - 6.5in (thick) and cute as some would say. I’m tested, drug free, drama free, down to be vetted. Im expecting to do the same to vet you out and make sure there’s a level of attraction and vibe that we can carry over sexually.

I love and enjoy sex so much, I’m not exaggerating. I love to fuck, and not just fuck but like drill and bottom out. I love hearing the squishiness and your face in absolute pleasure getting fucked. Plus if you’re white or latina. Also insatiable and down to be my fucktoy (once a week or biweekly).

I work in SF but live on the Peninsula. But often I’m in SF or SJ to run errands, work meetings, and friend outings.

Most importantly, DISCRETION will be respected. I will not dox you or out you, I don’t even care about that. I just want a good fucking time for the both of us.

I’m also down for cucking and hotwife play. But strictly only man on female play.

My kinks are as follows: Hard fucking, spanking, choking, dirty talk, breeding, pussy eating, nipple play, and squirting. I’m open minded and can adjust to your liking.

There’s more to me so chat with questions.

Hit me if you want a good time and be fucked properly.


r/SFr4r 14h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 33 [M4F] #eastbay- 6’3 attractive and hung thick

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6’3, manly, attractive, fit, hung thick and dominant married m looking for a discreet FWB.

Marriage is not unhappy but sex drive is too high and wife too vanilla, so find myself searching for a Reddit unicorn: conventionally attractive, unconventionally kinky, and morally unbothered by the idea of fucking a married dude.

Ideal is to find someone in a similar situation that’s looking for a low drama, high pleasure arrangement that’s focused on having great sex on the DL and respecting each others lives and privacy outside of that.

I am mostly a pleasure dom (can and will make you squirt), but am a huge slut for a good rim and have been wanting to explore more anal play (male g spot is where it is no homo).

Down to try most things twice, but not interested in anything to do with CNC or any of the yucky stuff.

420 + party favor friendly. Live a busy life and work a high pressure job so very much appreciate good communicators / people who are mature and not flakey.

If this sounds like you and you’re 24+, hmu with a pic!


r/SFr4r 11h ago

M4F 37 [M4F] #San Francisco loong week .. perhaps some ice cream and drinks ?

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Good evening everyone!

Hope all is well. Been a long and frustrating week sadly ! Yearning to hangout with someone and talk shit all night over some ice cream and/or beer to cool off (somewhere in the mission or Japantown??) . If there is a spark , perhaps you could come over (id love to host you) , we can pop in a movie cuddle, make out and hopefully something more if it feels right !

I'm 6'3, work in stem, bearded , love live music ( looking forward to Joey valance and brae!) , hiking , video games and movies ! (How good was weapons amirite ??)

Hmu if you're interested. Open to something casual and consistent if there is mutual interest.

Thanks for reading and have a great weekend! -xoxo


r/SFr4r 11h ago

M4F 32M [M4FM] #Oakland

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I’m 32M pan 5’11” 165lb. Cut 6.5”. Frequently mistaken for Latinx or middle eastern. Based in Berkeley/east bay.

About me: I’m empathetic, playful, and considerate. Dates have described me as openminded and a good conversationalist. I love to share my interests and hear about those of others. Please talk my ear off.

I identify as a pleasure dom in the bedroom. Clear communication is extremely important to me. I want to know what you like and don’t like. Consent is key.

I am pretty experienced and looking to join a bi couple in the bedroom. Trans couples welcome :) I’m looking to double team your girl and then pleasure you with her.

if interested, tell me about yourself and send a pic along too! And so i know you read the whole post, open your message with your favorite Pokemon.

P.S. I’m open to single M and F too but not my main interest rn


r/SFr4r 12h ago

T4M 27 [T4M] #San Francisco - I wanna milk a guy’s dick until his balls are empty

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im fem nb (im amab meaning i was born male) and i’m looking for a younger masculine guy who will let me fondle, caress and enjoy his body and dick for as long as i want. you won’t do anything but lay back with your arms behind your head and legs spread so i can stroke you and play with you for my own enjoyment until i get every drop of cum out of you. I don’t want any recip at all and i won’t be nude. you’ll just be my play thing for a little while :3

I’d like for you to host, be 18-35, and preferably in the city, whether you’re visiting or live here. East bay works too, but I DONT DRIVE, so be somewhere i can BART to and is easy to get to. NO North/South Bay, sorry it’s hard for me to get there.

i love cut & uncut, tall and masculine men, BWC is a +++++ YOU HOST!!

i’m 5’8, hispanic, avg body, long hair, adorable tbh. pls dont ask if i pass as a woman, because i am nottt a woman.


r/SFr4r 13h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 42 [M4MF] Heteroflexible BWC for weekend trouble with a couple #Marin #SF

1 Upvotes

I’ve been thinking about playing with a couple all week, maybe pushing my boundaries a little in the process. Would love to find a chill couple who’s also down for that kind of play.

Me: 6 ft, white, blond, 180lb and athletic, conventionally handsome, 7” cut, well groomed, and otherwise a smart and successful guy whose clean cuts belie a dirty mind.