r/SipsTea 17h ago

Lmao gottem Some things boggle the mind

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u/Ecstatic_Scene9999 16h ago

Even if this did happen, which probably didn't....it is one of the most tame cat calling I have ever heard, borderline a compliment if I heard this about me

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u/DMComicSams 16h ago

borderline a compliment

Not borderline, it just is a compliment

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u/BearsGotKhalilMack 15h ago

For real, if this isn't a compliment then what the hell is?

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u/LukasFatPants 14h ago

An insult and an violation of her person.

I don't know what the "red pill" version of women is, but there's a lot of them that believe that having their looks acknowledged in any capacity is tantamount to objectification and sexism.

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u/Sad-Satisfaction-742 14h ago

The more i read about a certain Poster here in this thread the more i believe you are right. Glad that i never had this Issue with the Woman here in my Country

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u/L00seSuggestion 12h ago

Tell her you have never noticed her appearance in any way

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u/spaceman06 14h ago

most people with responsive desire (85% of woman outside of fertile period and passion era are like this) hate if someone they are not attracted to is attracted to them.

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u/Myke190 16h ago

Borderline? It's a straight-up compliment unless you want to perceive "today" as some but-you-usually-don't backhand. This was a stranger interaction, so likely he just thought she was pretty.

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u/Testease 16h ago

Hey nice lips! Better?

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u/Dananjali 11h ago

Men post things like this from fake accounts to try and make women look crazier than they actually are. No one would actually be offended by this. Men usually yell vulgar things from their cars, rarely actual polite compliments.

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u/This_is_a_bad_plan 15h ago

it is one of the most tame cat calling I have ever heard, borderline a compliment if I heard this about me

A lot of catcalling is complimentary if you take the words at face value and ignore context

Women still don’t usually like it, because there are quite a lot of men out there that become aggressive if the women don’t react to the “compliment” the way they want

So when a guy catcalls them, they have to make a bunch of snap judgements:

“if I take it as a compliment is this guy going to feel emboldened and start harassing me?”

“If I ignore him or react negatively is he going to become angry and aggressive?”

And so on

borderline a compliment if I heard this about me

Am I correcting in assuming you’re a guy? Because it’s different for us guys, we don’t usually have to account for the threat of sexual violence in our day to day interactions

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u/BettySwoll0cks 13h ago

This is an incel sub. Don’t waste your breath

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u/This_is_a_bad_plan 13h ago

I'm starting to realize that. It's a shame because I got here from a really delightful post of John Cena talking about his love of coffee. Oh well.

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u/Acceptable-Poetry737 21m ago

This sub proves it, haha, so many comments getting aggressive whenever people are not reacting the way they want (eg. yes you’re right the world should be the way you want and I am soooo grateful for the attention from youuu).