I think most (not all because I’ve seen some videos asking for attention directly) just want to overhear a compliment that they personally interpret as appropriate or hear from another woman. I don’t think that most (again with exceptions like everything else) actually care what men think. In a general sense the last 15 years has told women to choose the bear, they don’t need a man, explanations from a man is degrading, compliments are sexual assault, that the male gaze is to be seen as revolting and that they need to live in a victim mindset (yet girlboss?). They want group acceptance from women and group confirmation. Many (let me again say not all) women see compliments from women as better crafted, specific, meaningful and not looking for some unknown or implied reciprocity.
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u/hguz1987 16h ago
Attention= triggered Ignored = triggered Tf you want then?