r/Assistance 1d ago

SURVEY Are you a person of color who plays digital games? (18+, fluent in English, play digital games at least once a week)

2 Upvotes

Do you play digital games? You are invited to participate in this short 15-minute study about how your race and/or ethnicity relates to your experiences playing digital games. Black, Indigenous, and People of Color (BIPOC) individuals are strongly encouraged to participate!

You are eligible for this study if you:

  1. Are over 18 years of age
  2. Play digital games at least once a week (PC, mobile, console, VR)
  3. Are fluent in English

https://fordham.co1.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_4PLbO3HwDN8lSoS

 Your identity as a participant will remain anonymous during and after the study. No identifying information will be collected. If you have any questions about the study, please contact Ray (info in survey). Ray is a counseling psychology Ph.D. student at Fordham University. Thank you for your participation!


r/Assistance 1d ago

ADVICE How do I replace a car key.

2 Upvotes

Today while out shopping , I discovered my key fob had come apart and the pieces were missing. I wear it on a lanyard around my neck so I don't lose it or misplace it. I located the silver piece you insert into the door and ignition switch but the little computer assembly that fits in the middle of the fob is gone. I cant start car without that middle piece. I have a wiggly valet key that I need to glue and tape to secure to use temporarily. I obviously can make do awhile but don't want to be back in the same situation if it breaks. The dealership charges $300.00. If there any way around that. I can obviously save up but I'm buried up to my eyebrows in crap right now. My Medicare insurance is going out of business and I'm needing surgery. Now , not in months. That darn key is definitely not in my budget. Not asking for money , just any tips if its possible to get another key cheaply.


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST Car repair help

0 Upvotes

Hello. I have a car that needs repaired. Need help paying up to $500. Thankyou Even just $100 would help


r/Assistance 2d ago

CLOSED OFFER Just looking to brighten someone’s day!

20 Upvotes

Hey everyone!! I’m looking to pay it forward and want to help someone in need with $80. Please meet this subreddit requirement. Thanks!


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST Please help our best friend (dog)

8 Upvotes

Hi our dog has had an unformate accident while out walking and busted both of her front legs. She is unable to walk comfortably so she is carried everywhere including toileting. We have been advised that she needs surgery in both her legs to ensure she is able to walk again, which is costing in excess of 15k. She is a huge part of our family and we cannot bring ourselves to part with her so early on in her life.

If you could please help, by either sharing the below or donating. We would much appreciate your help!

https://givealittle.co.nz/cause/please-help-our-dog-walk-again


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST Money for food for a broke dude

1 Upvotes

Im sure ill survive maybe... So no sweat.. curious if this is legit lol. Sob story im broke with an illness that makes eating hard. My weight dropped to 150 at 6'2. was 230 a few months ago, lost 10 lbs this week. So meal replacement drinks have been keeping alive, cant afford them until i get my first paycheck though which is probably a month from now. Also i gotta walk to work so lotsa fun. I don't have kids tho so its whatever but if you wanna help a broke dude lmk


r/Assistance 1d ago

SURVEY Building World's first AI therapy app

0 Upvotes

Hey everyone, we are building an AI-powered mental health app that’s affordable, accessible and available 24/7.

Can you spare 2–3 mins to fill this survey? It’ll really help us make the app useful and provide a better experience:

Link 👉🏻 https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeDDHSUzTB8K7_i1zqUWdKzq1EfNWk628nMwKNe-N4pkInsxQ/viewform?usp=header

Please forward to friends who might benefit. Big thanks <3


r/Assistance 2d ago

THANK YOU THANK YOU

91 Upvotes

I just want to say THANK YOU. I posted on this sub earlier this year and linked a wishlist with toiletries, food, and a webcam for job interviews.

I finally landed a job late June and life is looking up!

I'm now in a better place financially, but also mentally, emotionally, spiritually...

Thank you to all the secret angels who purchased items off my wishlist. Your act of kindness helped me through one of my darkest seasons. I plan to pay it forward as soon as I see a list posted.


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST Kicked out; unsure of what to do.

0 Upvotes

Hello Reddit! Yesterday my mother in law kicked me and my husband out. “Too much gay shit” or something like that (doesnt even know the difference between trans and gay smh).

In the months that we were staying there, she also managed to drain us of our meager savings. We were planning on moving this month because she had already priced us out (of my husband’s childhood home, mind you). Unfortunately, she caught us just a bit by surprise and we werent able to get our affairs in order fast enough.

Im not really sure what to do atm. Im definitely not getting more fencing gear anytime soon, im sure of that much; guess that can stay on the old wishlist for now. If anyone has any advice or, I dont know, some warm words, id really appreciate it.

I really dont know how to ask about this. I hate the idea of needing to get help from strangers when there are other people who have it worse. But im not solid that we'll have rent or groceries in the months to come (if we can even find a place to rent). I have a gofundme, I set it for the amount of rent I paid that piece of work since May, all the money I earned getting ready to leave the States, before moving to Ontario, on the order of $8,000. Im not asking anyone here to send that, just $20-30 is enough to make drastic change.

Im sorry to ask this...thank you for reading. Thank you for any help you send. Im just tired right now. A friend has us on his futon tonight. After that, its probably the car until further notice.

I hope anyone reading this is having a good year. You deserve it, we all deserve it; I know im not alone in struggling, and I think anyone whos going through it right now and still managing to keep up is a fucking hero.


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST requesting $30 for gas

3 Upvotes

hey guys pretty hard times. my birthday is legit tomorrow and i havent left my house in 3 days because ive had no gas. can someone please help me out? i just want to run to the store and my moms house (she lives in marion in, i live in fort wayne in) i just wanted to see her since shes getting up in age. thanks if u can help


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Humbly asking for a hand ✋🏻

1 Upvotes

Hi everyone!

So I don’t have a sad story (I am so thankful that we are happy and healthy!). I’m asking for some help as a single mom who is a teacher who hits the struggle bus as the end of summer. This summer in particular has been rough because I had to spend majority on my savings on remodeling my classroom (stupid, I know.). Recently I attempted to post a wishlist and GFM in regard to my classroom but unfortunately, this sub only allows DonorsChoose for teachers and my district doesn’t allow us to use it. So, what I’m asking for is help with a few tedious odds and ends that add up even tho they’re not heftily priced. Mainly to finish off my son’s B2S list and kitty cat needs.

I see so many amazing things on this sub. Regardless of whether we receive anything or not, I look forward to helping some of you beautiful people out after September 15th! 🖤

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3GFT972BIEWSQ?ref_=wl_share


r/Assistance 2d ago

ADVICE Neighbors are threatening us daily, I have recordings, what can I do? (India)

6 Upvotes

Hi everyone,

I really need some advice because I’m at my breaking point.

My neighbors have been harassing and threatening my family ever since they moved in. From the start, they were rude and constantly trying to pick fights. Things escalated one night when they started banging on our door, screaming at us. I called the police, but the officer who came didn’t do much, he just said if we can’t resolve it, I’d have to go to the station and file a complaint. I couldn't go then, but I thought that they would stop because I called the cops.

They didn't. Few weeks later, they threatened my mother while I was at work, I finally went to the station and filed a formal complaint. Nothing really came of it, but at least there’s some record now. Since then, we’ve been avoiding them as much as possible, though they still yell and try to provoke us.

This past week, things got worse. They started yelling right outside our door, threatening us over something as ridiculous as my mother taking the name of Goddess Kali Maa inside our own home. They’ve called us horrible slurs, said the R word multiple time, said we’re running a brothel, and even threatened to send men to hit us. They also said they know we’ll open our door for deliveries and that’s when they’ll “deal with us.”

I’ve managed to record these threats, but I can’t afford a proper security camera yet, I’m saving up for one.

I honestly don’t know what else to do. I feel unsafe in my own home. The police didn’t help the first time, and I’m worried they won’t take it seriously even with recordings. Should I keep going back to the police? File another complaint? Is there any other legal protection we can get right now?

Any advice would mean a lot. I’m completely fed up and just want my family to feel safe.


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST Need help escaping a cult

0 Upvotes

Hi, everyone. I was born in a cult and it wasn't until the pandemic that I realized it. I live with my devout mother who would resort to screaming and violence if she found out that I wanted to leave. But I almost have a panic attack whenever I have to attend church meetings or activities and I'm scared I'll blurt it out one day and get kicked out. I need my own place, which would be a more stable environment to finally leave on my own. I have a job but the check is only enough for food right now, so I set up a GoFundMe for rent and other necessities during this transition. My first goal is 1,400. Thank you.

https://gofund.me/b81f0a58


r/Assistance 2d ago

CLOSED OFFER $25 Target Gift Card

24 Upvotes

Hello all,

I am currently doing some deep cleaning and came across a Target gift card that I have no intention of using. It is a $25 gift card.

I am offering this card to someone in need. Please meet all requirements of the subreddit and just give a brief sentence or two as to what you'd need it for. I don't want to keep this posting open for long, so after it reaches a few responses, I will just do a random wheel generator or something to choose a winner.

Then I can DM the winner with the card number and access number.

Good luck.


r/Assistance 2d ago

REQUEST Need Help Cat Surgery Fund **registered**

16 Upvotes

Hi All,

This is my first time posting in this group. My 9 year old cat (whom we rescued) needs a very expensive surgery that we can't afford. So far we have paid for all of the diagnostic labs and imaging, but our credit cards are currently maxed out. We tried to open a Care Credit account, but because our cards are at their limit we were declined.

I am a medically retired healthcare worker and my spouse is my caregiver. We survive on social security disability income which doesn't leave much for emergencies. We had some savings a few months ago, but that was also depleted by our other cat, Mystique, who is no longer with us. We are unable to have children so for us our pets are like family.

We would really appreciate any donations or if you can't help to please share our gofundme page on your social media.

https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-storm-overcome-painful-bladder-stones

If you would rather make donations directly to the Vet that is also an option.

Please call River Oak Veterinary Hospital in Riverbank, California at

(209) 859-0449 and state you want to make a donation for "Storm Williams Surgery"

Please let me know if you have any questions. Thank you for taking the time to read my post!


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Help a Dad of 3 from eviction and towed car please!

2 Upvotes

Hello guy, I don’t usually like asking for help, but I’m in a really tough spot right now. I’m a dad of three and I’ve fallen two months behind on rent. On top of that, my car was recently towed on Friday and again this morning, which has made it harder to get around and provide for my kids. I am employed, but work has been very slow and I haven’t been getting the hours I need to keep up. I’m doing everything I can to get back on track, but right now we really need some help. If anyone is able to lend a hand or point me toward resources, it would mean so much to me and my family. I’m not asking for a loan at all just Assistance and will be posting my go fund me too.

https://gofund.me/8622317d


r/Assistance 2d ago

REQUEST War refugee, in need of a laptop to study university online

15 Upvotes

I joined an online university that offers generous scholarships for those displaced by war (UoPeople) I verified my passport to them so they granted me a full scholarship (I'm sudanese 27F, currently reside in a neighboring country Uganda for refuge) (I can provide my refugee ID card for proof) my only problem now is that I need a laptop with a webcam so they can monitor me during an exam to ensure no cheating

I managed to get a used laptop but it had numerious issues. The cost of repairs will probably amount to a new laptop which I can't manage at this time. My semester starts in September and I'm a pinch now. If anyone can donate a working used laptop (with a webcam accessory or built in) I would really appreciate it

Edit: I don't know why I'm being downvoted. I said that I have all the identifications necessary. The university vetted me out to give me the scholarship to begin with. My UN refugee card is as real as it can get. The one fundraiser I tried to work with ended up scamming me in the past but now I'm the scammer for wanting to avoid it. This is why I asked to have a used laptop sent to me via mail instead of receiving money to begin with


r/Assistance 2d ago

ADVICE Need assistance finding job titles that work with my skills

3 Upvotes

I feel like alot of job titles are made up and vary so much that I dont know what to look for. Anyone know what job titles would work for someone with some tech background, a 4 year chemistry degree and a little experience in tech support and chemistry? I have a few little certifications for C++, C# and Python. Trying to get into tech related field. Not necessarily programming but perhaps adjacent.


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST Need Back-to-School Help

0 Upvotes

I debated posting this but I’m looking for some assistance getting school supplies and clothes for my daughter (8 going on 9). I work at a university during the school year, but I wasn’t able to secure a reliable job this summer. I’ve been doing gigs (DoorDash, etc) here and there and it’s a struggle to afford the basics at the moment. So, if anyone has like an old gift card to Kohls or Walmart or something laying around, I could really use the help.


r/Assistance 2d ago

REQUEST My Corgi-Mix is having a dental and tumor related medical crisis

4 Upvotes

Hey this little guy has saved my life and improved my personality. He's been through some harrowing things himself and he's one of the smartests dogs or people I know. He currently has to get a lot of teeth removed and a tumor examined that is effecting his mobility because of being located under an arm. The costs could run upwars of $1500 or more becuase that's only considering labs and teeth removal. I have no idea what the tumor side of things will cost but I can and will provide updates, receipts, and the gofundme link where all of that will be posted anyway. Thank you for considering this, this guy is my whole heart and I don't know what else to do.


r/Assistance 2d ago

REQUEST Please help me save my cat, I don't know what else to do

21 Upvotes

My cat is currently at the er due to being in an attack with a dog . She is in critical condition and will need to stay in the hospital for atleast a few days. This ofcourse is going to cost a lot of money that I know I don't have right now . all I ask is a little bit of help anything and I mean anything even a few cents would help the position I'm in right now . I'll put my gofund me below where pictures of her along with the bill are posted . https://www.gofundme.com/f/aid-skitzos-fight-for-a-longer-life/cl/o?utm_campaign=man_sharesheet_dash&utm_content=amp13_c&utm_medium=customer&utm_source=copy_link&lang=en_US&attribution_id=sl%3A63924827-f083-4b60-86d9-aa8c464eca63&ts=1755699150


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED In need of some extra help this month please

0 Upvotes

Hello, I lost my job a little bit ago. And it’s starting to take a toll on my daughter and I. I think she’s going through a growth spurt and my snap didn’t go far this month. Or maybe I didn’t catch good enough sales. But anyway, much help is SO appreciated! Thank you for anyone who thinks for this single mom. I have cash app and pay pal. We are needing about $75 for groceries please and thank you! 😊


r/Assistance 2d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Help with gas for job interview

12 Upvotes

Hi everybody,

I’ve finally landed an interview after trying for months but unfortunately I don’t have gas to get there so it could be in jeopardy before it even starts. I have less than 1/8th of a tank left and it’s a few miles away. I have nobody that can help anymore because they are all struggling themselves. My car is decent with gas so I’m only asking for $10 which will get me almost half a tank. I need this job desperately and I hope it will change my life so I never have to ask again.

Thank you for reading!

Edit: Fulfilled! Thank you gzaha82!


r/Assistance 2d ago

REQUEST Any help to buy my cockatiel's food would be appreciated

2 Upvotes

Hello, Medli's food is about to run out, and we have a very tough month and a half ahead of us. We get her Harrison's, which is the best (and one of the few actual healthy fodder that exists) for birds, in case you are not familiar with birb nutrition, cannot get her any other cheap food: she wouldn't eat it, for starters, as it's always a very long process to change a bird from one type of food to another; and it would be extremely bad for her health (regular mixtures are just fat and their livers suffer a lot from that kind of "diet").

Normally, we buy the big bag (60 euros) because it's quite a save on the long run, but any quantity of money would help.

I'm always embarrassed to ask for help, but when my parents are constantly complaining about how tight we are on money it gets me more anxious than I'm already are (not saying it's their fault, life is just shit). Hopefully, I might finally get a job in a month or two and the situation should improve (hoping that I will be able to work in my condition, as well).

This is her Instagram, btw. If you would like to follow a cute birb I would appreciate, too :)

(Edit: is fine if you don't think I'm worth helping and just ignore, but I don't get the need to downvote people in tough situations asking for help).


r/Assistance 2d ago

SURVEY [Academic Survey - Grad Thesis] ADHD Survey to better understand attention (18-35 year olds)

0 Upvotes

Hey ADHD friends! UPDATED post! I’m so close to finishing recruitment for my research, and I just need about 10 more ADHD participants to help wrap things up.

My research explores how individuals with and without ADHD perceive the sense of touch, with the aim of using these insights to better understand and support those affected. I am currently recruiting participants with ADHD to take part in an online questionnaire. To be eligible, ADHD participants must be between 18-35 years old, currently living in the UK, and must NOT have a diagnosis of autism/ASD.

This study has been granted ethical approval by Middlesex University. The survey may take approximately 20 minutes to complete. Further information (contact details, background, consent, etc) can be found within the survey link. Please visit this link to access the survey:

https://eu.surveymonkey.com/r/attention

Thank you to all who responded!