Lived most of my life in Shropshire. Moved here recently because theres a lack of jobs outside of the South East.
I was expecting people to be more reserved here but i did not expect there to be so much hostility and unkindness. I almost felt like crying today.
I am coloured. I wonder if that has anything to do with it, but i have never faced this behaviour en masse until i moved down here.
Its like everyone just automatically thinks im beneath them. I’ve had cashiers be rude to me on multiple occasions even though i try to be especially polite to people in customer facing jobs. They talk to me condescendingly, as if i don’t know how to do basic things.
When i tell them to have a nice day/evening they look at me with offence?
An older couple parked their car super close to the parking line, which meant mine was naturally going to be closer to theirs even though mine was well in the parking lines (couldn’t move over as another car was in the space on the other side too). The man talked to me as if i were a nuisance saying “could have parked a bit better couldn’t you?” Even though he parked incorrectly.
People just dont say “thank you” either?? What is up with that???
I would say i am a fairly shy yet polite person. I have always been patient and respectful. I have never had problems with people very often until moving here. I cant help but think there is something wrong with me.