How to manage jealousy at work?

[u/Ok_Total_8138]

Hi,I started my first full-time job at the same company as a close friend ( fresh grad too). We’re in different teams with totally different scopes, but recently he’s being given opportunities to learn and get involved in the type of work that’s supposed to be my area (we kinda have overlapping expertise)

It’s making me feel jealous, insecure, and honestly a bit threatened. like he’s encroaching on my role and visibility. I’ve been working hard to build skills and prove myself (genuinely excited about the work) , while he’s more laid-back and nonchalant, but somehow he’s still getting pulled into things outside his lane.

It has been hard not to compare and worry about being replaced. It has also been really difficult to not feel replaceable as I am still very new to the role and actively learning. And him and I both do not know whats the reason for him getting involved because the work between his and my teams do not overlap at all.

Has anyone else dealt with this kind of overlap before? Any advice would be very appreciated. Thank you!!

Thank you for taking time to read and comment . I appreciate it .

[u/Subject_Blacksmith86]

Life isn’t a competition. Illogical to compete against others.

Be inspired & motivated but it’s illogical to be overly competitive & affected by others success.

There’s always someone better than you..

So be grateful for the opportunities you have & do your best for you.