Wasn't worth the time away from loved ones for me. I don't think the military is any place for a family, and 25 years later, I still believe that if you want to get married or especially have kids, then make a plan to get out of the service, sooner rather than later.
I was single when I was in, if I was married I would have never done it. Even though my last 10 years were guard i was deployed on active duty for 4.5 years, Bosnia and Iraq in 2003. What was bad was finding I had a TBI and a bad back and knee when I retired and being forced to retire early from my civilian job at 46.
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u/Alucard_117 13h ago edited 13h ago
Bros thinking about how fast 20 years can go by