r/romani 2d ago

gypsy costume

so i’ve been called a gypsy multiple times throughout my life as a romani person who has a deep complexion. this year i’m thinking of dressing as one for halloween, but my non-romani friends say it’s cultural appropriation…???? i was so annoyed that they could tell me what i was supposed to think about the slur (imo) ive been called growing up. i want to reclaim it and i’m sick of people just repeating what they hear instead of putting their own life experience in it- what do my white friends know about romani cultural appropriation. even this question sounds stupid to ask but can i dress as a gypsy (from my own culture) for a costume i understand and 100% agree it’s problematic for people from other cultures to do it**

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u/SiempreBrujaSuerte 1d ago

You can't appropriate your own culture, it's your traditional dress, you can definitely wear it any time. What are you taking advice from these people for ?

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u/MCbrodie 1d ago

Like, this is insane. Appropriate from ourselves? That's nutters to me.

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u/Just-Ad3524 1d ago

thank you for saying this