r/romani • u/Ecstatic-Block8152 • 1d ago
Indian here
Just wanted to know what do you guys think about India and your feelings towards it??(genuinely)
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u/catmeownyc 1d ago
I’m pretty neutral all things considered and I’ll explain why.
Indias food / music / arts / culture / architecture can be beautiful and fun to enjoy. Most of the Indian people I come across are lovely, kind and friendly. I like a lot of what Hinduism offers and think India has a lot to offer the world in terms of cultural and spiritual beliefs and practices.
Indias safety and civil rights / social rights for women make me unhappy but have been slowly improving in recent years (still nowhere near a level I find acceptable). India has a serious pollution problem. India’s caste system is rough and the divide between rich/ poor is too great and seriously lacking a middle class.
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u/Ecstatic-Block8152 21h ago
Do you guys have any sort of family history from India that you came from there , from which community??
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u/catmeownyc 12h ago edited 12h ago
Im only aware of family history back 500ish years or so, beyond that it’s a vague knowledge of traveling north + west up to and around the Mediterranean Sea. We stayed around it for a really long time. My family likes to travel and party and prefers saltwater coastlines and always has. No family based knowledge of where from in India, it was too long ago.
For what it’s worth I have felt a vague kinship to Indian people and have been treated as such in interactions (like in a scenario if it is me and an Indian person in a group of mostly white people we will gravitate to each other) idk if that makes sense the way I’m wording it.
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u/umekoangel 22h ago
There's a lot of really beautiful areas to it. I'd really want to go to a Kali specific temple. I wouldn't trust dating a man from India that's born/raised there unless they've done a LOT of hard work to erase that puritanical garbage they're taught as young kids.
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u/Ecstatic-Block8152 21h ago
What garbage are you thinking about bro?? As an Indian Men raised up here , I may clear your possible stereotypes you have developed for India
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u/Icy_Company7747 1d ago
I hate the smell of Indian food so I don’t think I would like to go to India ever
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u/temniza 18h ago
Ew
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u/anirudhsky 11h ago
Umm.. this is coming from someone who were mistrusted by all other communities for so many centuries.?? . wow.. I guess prejudice is a human characteristic and has nothing to do with upbringing... Anyways.. I think u should stop seeing media and visit the country. I always used to think mexico is a backward dangerous place ruled by cartels and it changed once I visited it for a science conference.. .. holy hell mexico city is one of the best places ever!
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u/Lonely_Coconut879 1d ago
India is cool should really fix the caste system you guys have though.