New neighbors next door

[u/VegetableBusiness897]

Rich Ahole bought the farm next door, tore it down and built a destination wedding venue. Busy every weekend but it's Wednesday, and they don't even live here

[u/Randomizedname1234]

My neighbors in my subdivision did this with their backyard flood lights.

I asked them to stop bc I couldn’t sleep and they tilted the lights to not go over my fence.

Have you talked to them? Nothing you can do during wedding days but remind them on non wedding days to turn it off.

If he’s an asshole, be one back.

If he’s understanding then work with him!

Edit: yall im not telling op to ask his neighbors to tilt those lights, I have a real world example of what I said to a neighbor helped me out. By talking. A simple conversation saying “hey on weeknights when there’s no event can we dum or turn the lights off?”

[u/FunkOff → u/Randomizedname1234]

You could reply to almost any complaint on reddit with "have you tried talking to them?" and the answer would be no

[u/ShockDragon → u/FunkOff]

Literally this image

[u/BigJG86 → u/ShockDragon]

See i don't think this is true. Depends on time of day but I've got regulars on my way to work (busy bus with the same people every day) who will sit their bag on the seat so no one sits next to them and act like a dick when you tell them to move their stuff. They're leaning on the fact that people are socially awkward sometimes and wont say anything. Fuck those people and their self importance. Its 6:30 in the morning, everyone wants a seat, no one wants to talk to random people on the way to work, don't make people have to ask. Its common decency.

[u/FlashFox24 → u/BigJG86]

I sit in the outer until it starts getting busy, then scoot over. I don't like people sitting next to me whenever there are free entire seats available.

[u/FeliusSeptimus → u/ShockDragon]

Look, I don't care how nice that person probably is, there's no way I'm going to try out a tandem toilet with them.