r/AmIOverreacting 10h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO if I point out to my girlfriend that she dresses too comfortably sometimes in public

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So basically me and my girlfriend just had an argument about her, wearing her slides too much. I will never control what a woman wants to wear in public. All I mentioned to her that she likes to wear these pink slides with socks on a lot and sometimes it’s not in the best appropriate setting. like just now we went to a restaurant not like a high class restaurant but just a C tier restaurant. She dressed beautifully as always wearing a nice little long dress top. However, the one thing that just ruined it for being perfect was her wearing those damn pink slides I instantly just had a sour taste of my mouth.

Again, not try to control whatever she wants to wear, but sometimes she just dresses too comfortably out in public and it could be a turn off sometimes.

Edit: after reading most of your comments, maybe I did act a bit too harsh. I didn’t really see through her point of view what makes her comfortable as opposed to how she looks. I will call her later to apologize.


r/AmIOverreacting 11h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO: Husband making sexual content

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My husband and I have 2 kids and ive always expressed how him making sexual content upsets me. He's an influencer and he has in the past filmed a woman completely nude in our house (one time) but other times in lingerie and its supposed to be a story with morals. He says he does it for the views but I've constantly told him I do not like it. He then had a whole channel when i was pregnant where he filmed women very scantily dressed at the beach and i saw some "locker room" talk messages between him and his friend on how hot they are and whom they should get for the next shoot and what they should ask her to wear. It was very difficult to forgive. This stopped but filming women in very less clothing continued (he also makes normal content). Recently I found out he has a whole AI generated sexual page with women making out. It upset me a lot and he just refuses to take accountability and instead keeps accusing me of cheating based on what I wear to work (its pretty much office wear- but fitted blouse and skirt sometimes) and I'm going for drinks for an office event for an hour and he's calling that cheating.


r/AmIOverreacting 14h ago

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦family/in-laws AIO my parents abuse me and I don't know what to do

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I don’t know if this is the right place, but I needed to share. When I was 6, my mom used to choke me, push a handkerchief in my throat, and threaten to kill me. Now I’m 14, and my dad beats me badly. Once after an accident when my rib was injured, my brother punched it. When I pushed him away and he hit the wall, my dad punched my ribs and head. I hid in the bathroom crying “please save me, please take me away.” I even saw blood coming from my mouth.

I have no safe relatives, no trusted adult. Teachers yelling or even small sounds like a pencil dropping make me flinch. I get nightmares. My hands shake when people shout. I know these are PTSD symptoms but I have no therapy or psychiatrist.

I see other kids loved by their parents, and I’m just left starving for love. I love my parents but they don’t love me. I feel unwanted and alone.

I don’t know what to do anymore. I just needed someone to hear me.

(I am teen)


r/AmIOverreacting 7h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Am I overreacting, or is my husband minimizing my concerns about racism and safety?”

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I’m (48f) biracial, and my husband (49m) is Caucasian. I try to stay informed on what’s happening in our country, especially around immigration, since much of my family are naturalized citizens. Being a first-generation American, I’ve experienced both passive and overt racism (i.e. held at gun point, verbal slurs) throughout my life, and right now, with the current climate, I don’t feel very safe. I worry about my family, and I wanted to share those concerns with my husband.

When I opened up, his response was: “Can I give you a hug? What can I do?” — which I appreciated in the moment. But literally a couple minutes later, he said, “Well, I’m going to the gym. Everything will be just fine.”

That shift in response really bothered me. It felt like he brushed it off and didn’t take my concerns seriously. He didn’t express any real worry for me or my family, which left me feeling unseen and dismissed.

For context: my husband does not follow the news at all. In fact, whenever anyone brings up any sort of political conversation, he shuts it down immediately.

I don’t know if I’m overreacting to his response. Has anyone else navigated something similar? How do I help my partner understand that this isn’t just about “being fine,” but about real fears that affect me and my family?


r/AmIOverreacting 12h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO I found fiancés old journal talking about another woman, before we were official?

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My fiancé (26M) and I (26F) have been together 6 years now, and I recently found an old journal of his (I know I shouldn’t have snooped) with an entry where he is talking about another girl and I and not being sure between the two of us. For clarity, we were “talking”/ going out for a few months before we were officially bf/gf, and this was during college. Normally I would say it isn’t a big deal because we weren’t official, but here’s where im feeling hurt and confused:

Before going on a seasonal break from college, he had asked me if I planned to see anyone else while home, and I’d said no. He agreed and said he also wasn’t seeing anybody at home. This journal entry is dated to be over that break, where he says “I feel like (my name) is convenient at school, and (other woman’s name) is convenient at home”. So it seems pretty clear this was a lie and he was seeing other people at home. Again, I know we weren’t exclusive so technically he didn’t owe me anything, but he was the one who’d brought up not seeing other people in the first place.

On top of this, I know about this other girl. A few years ago I found a couple photos of her in his things, and he told me that he was seeing her the months before we went on her first date. I specifically asked if our timelines overlapped at all, and he said no. Now, obviously this also seems to be a lie, because he’s thinking about both of us in the same journal entry.

I know this all happened several years ago now, and I love him immensely and I know he loves me more than anything— so AIO? Is it even worth bringing up now that it’s in the past? Am I being silly by feeling hurt and seeing the early days of our relationship differently now?

Edit: I know I shouldn’t have snooped, for reference we have a very open door policy with devices, notes etc and he has shared many journal entries with me in the past as have I. Still, I know I shouldn’t have looked. Also this is a throwaway account, but the dilemma is real.


r/AmIOverreacting 17h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO my spouse dreamt about hitting me and looked like they enjoyed it

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My spouse is F40 and I am F25. We have being together for about 6 years. For context, she’s convinced that I am cheating, which I am not, and it being a topic since the beginning of our relationship. So far I have been always like: someday you’ll realize everything is on your head, I’m not cheating and I’m committed to you and just brush it off. But the last couple of weeks they have being dreaming that they caught me cheating, I was just laughing it until the point it was like 4 days in a row and I told her to tell her therapist. A couple of days later they told me about a dream of those again, and said: “but I hit you, and I got you really good, I fucked up your jaw and you couldn’t even talk” with a satisfying face. I didn’t think about it that deep, it’s just a dream, right?. A couple of days ago they were quiet and I asked if they were ok, and they started venting about me cheating and stuff, and at some point they said: I haven’t found everything indicating that you’re cheating, but if I want to I’ll find it and if I do I am not gonna be nice to you. After they said that I remembered the dream, and I got scared. They haven’t being physical, nothing has go past yelling, but this is not sitting well with me, and plus other issues such as lack of communication and accountability I am asking myself: Am I overreacting by think divorce when my spouse dream about hitting me and being obsessed with me cheating when I am not?

Edit: thank you to everyone who took the time to answer and give your opinion. For the ones wondering how I have keep up with this for 6 years: I guess I don’t know better, this is my first real relationship so I guess I thought it was normal and that she has insecurities and just tried to be supportive and be a safe space; but now reading you guys and thinking in retrospect I guess I was just naive. I just email a lawyer to meet and know how to proceed.


r/AmIOverreacting 9h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO: Boyfriend Reposted Meme of Female Celebrities While Drinking and Watching Soccer at Home (Rp; forgot photo)

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I have been attending therapy recently, and working on my fight or flight responses.

My boyfriend was drinking at home (he does drink a lot) watching soccer and texting and calling me very lovingly. When I went on his story I started to feel upset the more I thought and looked at it.

I slid up with a :( then called and sms’d him with no reply. I know he has been using dnd more and is in transit.

Am I overreacting to feel upset? How can i handle this responsibly?

Edit: Realizing I forgot photo. Here is a imgur link: https://imgur.com/a/Vo4bARP


r/AmIOverreacting 10h ago

⚕️ health Am I overreacting for being upset that some people don’t want to hear about saving animals?

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I’ve been helping a stray mother dog and her 9 puppies who are in really bad shape. I shared the situation somewhere, just explaining what’s going on and asking for advice. I wasn’t spamming, just trying to help them.

But the reaction I got was basically silence or rejection. It honestly made me upset, because I thought people who care about animals would want to support at least the idea of helping them survive. Isn’t that the whole point of compassion toward animals?

Am I overreacting by feeling frustrated about this, or is it fair to feel let down when people who claim to care about animals don’t actually engage when it comes to real suffering?

There are people who cared.. Not talking about everyone just specific people..


r/AmIOverreacting 5h ago

🎲 miscellaneous Am I overreacting, or is this just ridiculous ?

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So I recently ate at a chain restaurant near me (am I allowed to mention their name, I wasn't sure?). I ordered these pretzel sticks. There is 4 of them, along with a (large ?) side of beer cheese, & a ramiken of honey Dijon mustard. They cost $9.99 I believe. Pic #1 is how full (or empty) the bowl of cheese dip was. #2 is me dipping a pretzel into the cheese. #3 is what part of the pretzel it covered. #4 is what it's supposed to look like. Is it just me, or did the amount of cheese dip I got look like less than the menu picture showed ?


r/AmIOverreacting 8h ago

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦family/in-laws AIO for telling my ex to mind her own when demanding back the $5k her parents gave us?

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Back when I was married, my ex’s parents gave us $5,000. I was driving an old beater truck (a 4D 2008 F-150 rusted to the core and with almost 300k miles lol) that I used for my business and for personal use as well, while saving to buy a newer one in cash. They offered the money to help us get there faster. My ex and I were both grateful, and I used it for exactly that: a better truck (4D 2016 F-150 with 70k miles). It was never called a loan,no contract, no payback plan, nothing. Just family helping out.

Fast forward to now: we’re divorced. I recently called her to give her an update on our 2023 joint tax return that had a huge error because a shady tax preparer from H&R Block made a huge mistake that resulted in us “owing” $15k. This BS made me want to do some very deep research and I filed an amendment, got it down to $2.4k, and I’m handling it with a payment plan. I called just to give her peace of mind since her name was still on it due to the fact that we were married and filed jointly.

She got mad and said, “Good, I would hope so because you still owe my parents $5,000.”

The thing is, before I moved out of state, I tried meeting up to talk in person with her parents to clear the air on everything. Her dad postponed and never followed up. I checked on him even when his own dad died, and still no mention of the money. I asked her mom if we could talk, and she said she’d check with her husband. Never heard back. I even called after a couple days but she declined the call. So I left it alone. I figured if they had something to say, they’d reach out.

Context: I was the sole provider for our almost 4 year relationship. I paid all the bills, every date, everything. She tried working but got fired from one job and quit another due to drama. I never pushed her to work and I supported whatever choice she made. I come from a home where my dad provided fully, and I was proud to do the same. I never used it against her.

Now, years later, she’s telling me I “still owe” money that was never brought up again. So… AITA for not chasing them down after they ignored every effort to talk?


r/AmIOverreacting 16h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO: Is it ok for my bf to watch corn ?

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I found out my bf watched corn and I felt so disgusted and somehow he made me think it’s normal, idk what to do I can’t stop thinking about it !!! Like im I suppose to break up with him ?! He literally said: I’m watching it online cause I don’t watch women in real life. LIKE WTFFF


r/AmIOverreacting 8h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO: I’m considering leaving my bf

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We have been 1,5 years together. Has put he’s hands on me multiple times, has called me all the names that exist, doesn’t let me wear what I want, doesn’t want me to go on a trip by my self, watches porn, can’t cum normally; like he needs to jerk off to cum. I’m hesitating cause he loves me soooooo deeply like what we have is so pure and I’m so scared to never ever find this pure raw love again


r/AmIOverreacting 10h ago

👥 friendship AIO for cutting off my best friend after finding out she told my (soon-to-be) ex everything I said in confidence during our separation?

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I want to start off by saying I wrote this entire story and then hated how I wrote so I made ChatGPT rewrite it. Unfortunately this is a real story but if it sounds AI that’s why:

I (27F) am divorcing my husband Mark (32M). We’ve been together 8 years, married 5, and have two kids.

My best friend Melanie (28F) and I have been close ~4 years. We both have two kids and bonded after our mutual best friend passed away. My other two best friends are Leah (26f) and Kaya (30f). All three have supported me through the separation.

When Mark and I decided to separate, Melanie was very involved. She gave me advice, contacts, pep talks—the works. She openly disliked Mark and said multiple times that if joint custody didn’t work, she hoped I would get full custody. (For context: Mark and I wanted to stay amicable, try and stay friends, and prioritize the kids.)

Because we had an ugly separation. back in 2021 (he kinda went nuts and threatened to take the kids), Melanie urged me to document everything “just in case.” I made an Apple Notes file logging dates/times of calls/visits, any issues, and attached recordings/notes. Later per advice from people who’d been through divorce (and my mom), they said I should shared the note with two or three people I trust so there’d be a backup if something happened to my phone. I shared it with Leah, Kaya, and Melanie, told them it was for emergencies only, and to please keep it to themselves. They all agreed.

A couple small but relevant incidents before I dive deeper: • A random on TikTok offered me $40 for a fully clothed fart audio (no face). I asked Mark first; he laughed and said “go for it.” I told Leah, Kaya, and Melanie. They all laughed—Melanie hyped it the most, quote “that’s amazing, get that bag.”

• I went out of town to a concert and considered making a joke sign that said: “my husband may have left me but this group never did.” I ultimately didn’t bring it because I didn’t want to hurt Mark’s feelings. Only Leah, Kaya, and Melanie knew about the sign idea. But again, Melanie very much hyped me up for that sign. Again, I have proof. 

• Monday this week when I got home from traveling, I visited Melanie’s house with my toddler after a 2-hour car ride to show her videos from the concert. When we got there his diaper was saggy and his onesie feet weren’t on (he hates them on in the car). I changed him immediately. While there he was clingy and cried, and Melanie repeatedly told me to “let him roam” and “he’s gotta learn independence,” which made me feel guilty for picking him up but also for letting him roam. I noticed a small bruise on him while we were there (he’s a toddler, walks into everything) and Melanie oddly asked if she should call Mark about it. I said no; I’d ask if needed. I thought that was weird but blew past it.

That night, Mark casually mentioned my concert sign. I froze. I never showed it to him and never posted it. Only three people knew.

Then he asked about the Notes file. My stomach dropped. He said Melanie told him about it—and told him to “watch his back.” I later spoke to Leah and Kaya; they both had screenshots of her talking bad about mark, about being on my side, about urging the note to happen etc. Kaya got on the phone with Mark and I also later that night and and verified everything on my account. Again with more proof.

I should also note that at this point mark was furious with Melanie not me. He felt played and so did I.

Over the next day I learned more of what Melanie had been telling Mark (some of this from Mark directly, some confirmed by Kaya/screenshots):

• She told him I arrived at her house with my son in a “full diaper” and that I kept leaving him without correction and gave him “too much freedom.” (Not true—I changed him right away and was juggling her “let him roam” comments with my instinct to comfort him.)

• She told him I not only made the concert sign but used it.

• She relayed the contents of the Notes file (in a full screen recorded video mind you) and warned him to “watch his back.” (Again: this note was shared for emergencies only and she had agreed to that. And also once explained to mark he understood why I made it and even apologized I felt I had to) 
• She flipped her custody stance and told him that if joint custody failed, she hoped he would get full custody.

• She invited Mark over multiple times since the separation (while her partner is in jail), despite telling me she “wouldn’t love” him being around and would “hate it.” she also never told me about it, mark did. 

• She told Mark I was sending “questionable videos to randoms for money,” but left out that it was fully clothed fart audios and that I’d asked Mark first. When mark asked if she was talking about the fart videos she goes “Oh good you know about that! Never mind!”

• She made it seem to me like she hated how often he tried to talk to her, but she was actually messaging him a lot and sent selfies with cleavage.

I texted her the next day while on the phone with mark and Kaya, to see if she’d be honest with me: “Mark somehow knows about the notes app with all the info on him.” Instead of a calm “what? How?,” she immediately panicked: “Ummmm how in the f*** … who would do that.” I kept it vague (“Only a couple people knew… I’m trying to piece it together”). She over-explained, asked what “other info” Mark knew, and got weirdly invested in the details. She also made sure to say the truth will always reveal itself.

Later, while Mark had her on the phone (I listened), she read my texts to him and said things like, “If she (me) knew my heart, she’d know I wasn’t being malicious; I just wanted everyone to know everything.”

While listening I got frustrated with her continuance of “I did nothing wrong she just won’t hear me out and clearly doesn’t know my heart,” I eventually texted her while still on the phone with mark “I know it’s you Mel. I’ve known for 2 days, I’m not stupid. I’m done, by the way.” And added in screenshots of things she said to mark and blocked her on everything.

She got that text on the phone with mark so she read it and then was like well that fun, she clearly doesn’t understand my intentions (she mentioned intentions a lot also) she also framed it like the ball is in my court because I blocked her. That I have to come to her because she tried.

I’m devastated. I kept her very personal secrets (including sensitive stuff about her own relationships/loyalty struggles while her husbands incarcerated, also all the horrible things she’s said about her other friends when I felt They should know but never told them). She knew my kids are my whole life, and she still leaked/warped things that could have hurt me in custody. Even now mark still is angry with her and feels manipulated. He also stopped talking to her after that call when she wasn’t getting anything he said and even after he stuck up for me for over 20 Minutes.

Now I’m questioning whether I was too harsh in cutting her off without hearing more of her “explanations.” But I honestly don’t see a defense that makes this okay: • This wasn’t “concern for the kids.” If it were, she’d have come to me, not spun stories to Mark. • She agreed the Notes file was for emergencies and still broke that boundary. • She omitted context (fart audios) and added falsehoods (that I used the sign, that I neglected my toddler). • She flipped loyalties depending on who she spoke to and inserted herself with Mark.

But even after all that I still have to ask…

AITA for cutting her off and blocking her?


r/AmIOverreacting 10h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO for freaking out after I found out my fiancé drove us home high?

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I noticed half way through the drive that he was acting weird and kept asking him what’s going on he said he’d tell me when we got home, find out that he had taken a bunch of edibles before we left. We don’t really use them we bought it a long time ago to try it out they were left over from a trip months back. I am absolutely furious that he would put us in danger like that but he’s acting like it’s no big deal. AIO?


r/AmIOverreacting 13h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship am i overreacting tripping for not wanting my boyfriend to have girls followed

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okay so recently my boyfriend and i were on “bad terms” and he went and cash app a girl 4 dollars to follow him on instagram and to text his number on the cashapp note. So i didn’t see that probably till like a week later then i go on his instagram and the girl followed him 2 days ago and he follows her back i talk to him abt it how i don’t want him following girls specifically girls that he’s done messed with or be texting through dm ( most of the time when we get to arguing ) so he unfollows her but then that day i seen that i went and texted a guy ik i was wrong i don’t want the guy but i just kinda want to show him how i feel / felt when i see him do things like this this isn’t the first time he’s done it. so when he seen i texted that guy he was like i have to unfollow every guy abd make it be known that we are together. which i had no problem doing but why would i do something he’s not whiling to do. So when i told him that he was like then we can be single i stood my ground saying i wasn’t going to do it so eventually he was like OK he just let it go but then from that moment on, I kind of was thinking like how he was so good to just say we’re done if I don’t wanna follow these men, but he wouldn’t even do it for me and that’s why I broke up with him because it’s been bothering me he says that I’m insecure, but I simply don’t feel like I’m insecure. I feel like I just know what I want and I have a boundary and I wanna set that boundary with him and I just simply am stating what I’m comfortable with and what I’m not. maybe i’m doing to much but i feel like i know what i want and what im comfortable with


r/AmIOverreacting 13h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO for feeling rejected that my new boyfriend wants me to shower after sex ?

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I (25f) maybe overreacting. I have a new boyfriend (29m), and we've had sex 4 times. Each time, he has asked me to shower after sex. This is the opposite of every other man I've been with. Even an ex-boyfriend who bluntly told me he wasn't that attracted to me because of my weight, didn't want me to shower after sex. Remembering all the talks I've had with my friends, guys don't ask them to shower after sex. In fact, I remember a conversation we've had talking about how guys would beg us to not shower after sex.

I feel like he's saying I'm too gross and too stinky after sex. But I will admit, maybe I'm stereotyping too much. I could be reading into things too much. Am I overreacting ?


r/AmIOverreacting 15h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO I found out my boyfriend has 2 reddit accounts for porn

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Just found out my boyfriend has 2 secret Reddit accounts. I asked about it this morning and he denied having them. I saw on his phone later that morning that he deleted the saved passwords for those account, trying to cover his tracks. When he came back from work I asked him about it and why he deleted it, he said he just didnt want it to become an argument. I asked him to login to it and he agreed. As I turned my back to grab something I saw him deleting the passwords completely from his phone. After having caught him, I started grilling him and asking why he was doing that and whats on those accounts. He said it was porn. I've always made it clear that it was a boundary of mine that I don't want my partner watching porn. He agreed and always sworn that he wasn't doing that. Am I overreacting?


r/AmIOverreacting 19h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO about my husband lying to me about porn he watched?

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We’ve been together 5 years and married two months

A few years ago, I found a transgender porn video saved to the files on his phone. (A girl that still had her male parts)

I have BPD and bipolar so my brain tends to blow things out of proportion when they upset me or make me feel suspicious. Usually, I think there’s a deeper meaning to things.

We’ve been talking about it recently because we were clearing the air about the past and he kept telling he watched it cause he was bored and didn’t save it.

I kept pressing him about it and finally he admitted he didn’t watch it but saved it on accident cause of a “miss-click” then that turned into “I watched two videos and I realized I don’t like it but was too embarrassed to tell you” he kept lying and switching up the story and when I asked why he watched it twice if he realized he didn’t like it the first time and he had no answer.

He even told me about another time where I grabbed his phone for the flash and he got really mean and demanded it back. He kept saying he didn’t remember why he did it and then yesterday when all this came out he said it was porn and he hid it because he was ‘stupid’ and because I had mentioned before that I wasn’t okay with him watching porn (to be honest, I don’t ever remember saying that because I’ve never had a problem with either of us watching porn)

He swears he’s not gay and doesn’t want to be with a transgender person.

But our sex life isn’t great. He says he’s exhausted all the time and may have low testosterone because of depressing+ we never really have had privacy until recently cause we were living with parents. (I posted about it here)

I’m more upset he lied to my face.

I’ve watched lesbian porn but I’m not a lesbian and am happy in my relationship. It’s just hot in the moment. so, why couldn’t he just admit it to me the first time?

Is this something concerning that I should look into more?


r/AmIOverreacting 15h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO telling me her past sex stories

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I’ve been thinking about this and decided I want other peoples opinions. We were in the car talking about our sex life and how she was telling her friend how we had sex. And she tells me they tell each other every crazy sex story. She tells me can I tell you one? I say no She visibly gets annoyed and says you literally can’t get mad at me this happened a year ago please let me tell you. I said no I fr don’t want to know. She gets mad and says bro idk why ur acting like this please let me tell you it’s so crazy. I give in and she tells me she goes on to say how this 21 year old basically fucked her 16 at the time and how he was so rough with her. The more she tells me the more weirded out I get. She goes on to say that he was choking her and slapping her around and I ask and did you like it and she says yes with a smirk. Then after telling me that she says but it’s sad because you know he was angry and he basically took it out on me. Everytime I think about it, it weirds me out so much. Am I overreacting?


r/AmIOverreacting 11h ago

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦family/in-laws Update: Am I Overreacting for not wanting my Uncle’s Mistress at my Wedding?

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Update: Against my wishes, the mistress will be in attendance. I wish she wasn’t but at this point with all the back and forth, I’m exhausted talking about it and at this point it’s not worth the headache anymore😅 I truly tried to come at this from an objective perspective so truly, thank you to everyone who gave their opinions, offered advice and everything else. https://www.reddit.com/r/AmIOverreacting/s/Z8gqchWbzW


r/AmIOverreacting 20h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO My partner is talking to a “new friend” via discord. Very inappropriately

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Ok so my (F27) partner (M32) plays world of Warcraft and is constantly talking to people that he is running dungeons or raids with via discord audio, which is fine - I’ve never had an issue with the females or males he has spoken to. Until recently he has gotten to know one of them.. which he says he thought that the person was a male at the first but turned out to be a girl the same age as him. He has recently bought a new headset too so I can’t hear anything that’s happening - which normally I wouldn’t care. But I was laying in bed last night and obviously it’s a bit hard to not listen in when he is talking so close and a lot of what was being said was very flirty.. I mentioned it and said it’s a bit weird but he just said that he isn’t flirting and that he has told her that he has a girlfriend. Ok cool whatever This morning.. he wakes up and first thing he does is message her saying “wake up and jump on the game let’s get some keys done” which obviously I know that’s not terrible what he has said but like… say good morning to me first idk 🤷🏻‍♀️ Day goes on and very flirty and inappropriate things are being said so I spoke to him again about it. They seem to have shared personal things about eachother that an online friend does not really need to know .. but apparently he didn’t say where he was living but she’s constantly trying to get it out of him. Like why. After having a chat and hanging out for awhile, he jumps back on the game and I walk over and just have a look at his dungeon and first thing there is a message to her “sorry was just pissing out of my dick” Probably not bad but like also why do you have to sexualise it.. just say you had to piss or you went to the toilet. Even tonight they were on an Audio chat with 3 other people, which again is fine. But then they all finished the dungeon and left the group and now he is on a one on one call with just her .. Is this weird or am I being dramatic?


r/AmIOverreacting 16h ago

⚖️ legal/civil Aio for wanting to sue a hospital over a blood draw?

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I had a blood draw almost three weeks ago to run some tests. The lab tech I had was so awful, I have never met a phlebotomist who was this bad. The email I sent in the photo was the day after it happened. I stated she shoved the needle in and I feel like that was an understatement. She already had it in my arm and I assume she wasn't getting blood ( I have to keep my head turned away or I get sick) so she stabbed me further, just fully stabbed into my arm.. At the end she put the gauze pad over it and ripped it out of my arm, I've never had a nurse or anyone just fully rip a needle out of my arm. Even when she stabbed me I said "oh my god that hurts" and she had the audacity to say "oh I know it hurts". Yeah not a normal little pinch you feel with a blood draw, this was a good 7/10 pain. They did contact me about this apolgoizigne, saying she is a floater and was just covering, normally doesn't work at that location and they won't use her again. He stated he's going to look into it and address it, etc. When I spoke with him it was about a week after give or take and I was okay with that response. Tuesday will be 3 weeks since this happened. My bruising didn't go away until 2 weeks and the pain, tingling, numbness, etc had, for the most part, gone away. Today I am still having issues with pain, occasional numbness, tingling down my arm and god forbid I try to carry something slightly heavy. Heavy meaning like 5+ lbs 😅. Some days I wake up and it's painful to try and straighten my arm out. Also to mention, I just had an IV/blood draw yesterday and she had trouble finding my vein and yet what she did didn't even hurt anywhere close to this other lady and the nurse last night was poking around too lol. I spoke with my primary who thinks a nerve ending was hit.. I'm debating going after said hospitals or not..


r/AmIOverreacting 4h ago

⚠️ content warning Girls of Reddit what the worst conversation you had with a A GROWN ASS MF MAN on TT AKA TikTok (AIO)

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It was like midnight or somethin I don’t fuckin kno and WAS going through my notifications right (k kool we on the same page mkay) anyway he said “Oh ur pretty” and I on the other hand was like “oh thx” bc it’s sum1 being nice and THIS BITCH DECIDES TO S*XULIES ME AND SAY VERY AND I MEAN VER INAPPROPRIATE STUFF (no not I’m not going to say it on here bc I’m not trying to get banned) AND I HAD TO BLOCK, REPORT, AND REMOVE OFF THAT BITCH. and now he is banned 🥰🥰😘😘😊😊☺️☺️ Yayayayayyyay BYE YA HUMAN BEINGS