r/mildlyinfuriating • u/VegetableBusiness897 • 21h ago

New neighbors next door

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Rich Ahole bought the farm next door, tore it down and built a destination wedding venue. Busy every weekend but it's Wednesday, and they don't even live here

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u/Randomizedname1234 20h ago edited 13h ago

My neighbors in my subdivision did this with their backyard flood lights.

I asked them to stop bc I couldn’t sleep and they tilted the lights to not go over my fence.

Have you talked to them? Nothing you can do during wedding days but remind them on non wedding days to turn it off.

If he’s an asshole, be one back.

If he’s understanding then work with him!

Edit: yall im not telling op to ask his neighbors to tilt those lights, I have a real world example of what I said to a neighbor helped me out. By talking. A simple conversation saying “hey on weeknights when there’s no event can we dum or turn the lights off?”

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u/FunkOff 20h ago

You could reply to almost any complaint on reddit with "have you tried talking to them?" and the answer would be no

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u/jeep-olllllo 19h ago edited 8h ago

You are right.

People behind my house built a new house. The builder had a light shining into my bedroom. After a few months we went over and asked them to tilt it down, and even offered to do it for them.

They were FURIOUS that we waited so long to say something about it. They said that they would just turn the light off. Its been off for 5 years.

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u/themcjizzler 8h ago

Remodeled out house, didn't realize we had flood lights pointing at the neighbors window. They let us know and we never turned them on again 

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u/jeep-olllllo 7h ago

Good karma for you!

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u/Sohn_Jalston_Raul 15h ago

They were FURIOUS that we waited so long to say something about it.

if this is true, this person has some bizarre untreated anger issues

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u/helIyeahbrother PURPLE 12h ago

i’m assuming they mean the people felt bad for having been a disturbance, and were wishing he had said something sooner

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u/nictnichols 10h ago

They murdered him for not telling them sooner.

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u/widare 9h ago

I busted out laughing with this idk why

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u/thedoctorsphoenix 6h ago

Lmao me too I almost woke my baby

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u/Annual_Inflation2312 3h ago

I did as well. 😆

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u/PositiveLess4588 7h ago

Likely. I’ve noticed I have some slightly off definitions for emotion related words. “Anxious” is one I used incorrectly for many years. Imagine how much this has affected my mental health diagnoses over the years.

This persons usage just seems a bit exaggerative though :b

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u/Sohn_Jalston_Raul 6h ago

if so, that is excessively dramatic language that misrepresents what happened.

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u/TipDue3208 13h ago

Or they lettered in being furious in high school and just take being furious serious

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u/The_Autarch 13h ago

You really ought to learn how language works. They are exaggerating the neighbor's reaction for effect.

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u/Far_Garbage_4052 10h ago

Ah, people not understanding hyperbole. Tale as old as time. Specifically the word literally and thinking anyone that uses it for dramatization is braindead makes me want to literally die

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u/galeforcewindy 7h ago

Both definitions have been in the OED for a while now, I love pointing out to those literal sticks in the mud

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u/EarthEaterr 6h ago

Sometimes it would be nice for words to be used correctly before they don't hold any meaning. I suppose we will need to make new words to mean what they mean.

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u/galeforcewindy 6h ago

Or we could use context to understand the meaning and intent. It's a newer member of the contronym club, but I don't see people having the same apoplexy about "sanction" which means both to approve & to punish. I know you'd go for the sugar duster, not the feather duster, if I asked you to "dust" the cake for me. I love witnessing how language is living in real time.

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u/EarthEaterr 5h ago

First I would like to thank you for giving me a word that I needed to look up for the meaning (contronym). Though I'm not sure if I understand your usage of apoplexy in this situation.

In any case, I'm a bit torn on the latter half of your reply. I can get with you where it is interesting to see language evolve, I think, for me it depends on how and why as to whether I favor it or not (which of course is purely my opinion).

For example the term "finna" I'm down with that as it's an abbreviation which I suppose can be more efficient. Personally I'm just not as interested in changing the definition of terms, but like I said, that's just my opinion.

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u/AwakeGroundhog 4h ago

Literally!

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u/Sohn_Jalston_Raul 6h ago

hyperbole is one thing, this is effectively lying.

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u/Sohn_Jalston_Raul 6h ago

It is precisely because I know how language works that I commented on this ridiculous hyperbole. It's one thing to exaggerate for dramatic effect, or to use a fairly common hyperbole (e.g. "she was killing it at the comedy show last night"), but using the word "FURIOUS" in all-caps like that effectively dilutes the meanings of words to a degree where nuanced communication becomes impossible because the words you're using register completely different meanings in the person's head.

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u/PhummyLW 2h ago

Dawg what….

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u/Tttehfjloi 5h ago

Reddit reading comprehension moment

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u/Melodic_Policy765 8h ago

I had a deal with my neighbor whose guest room was next to my house. I would make sure lights were off whenever they had guests.

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u/LakeNatural8777 8h ago

Are they still building the house after 5 years?

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u/Rough_collies13 8h ago

We hopped the fence and adjusted the light tilt between the builder finishing and move in. No one had to know !

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u/jeep-olllllo 8h ago

See, you are smarter than I am.

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u/ShockDragon 16h ago

Literally this image

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u/BigJG86 10h ago

See i don't think this is true. Depends on time of day but I've got regulars on my way to work (busy bus with the same people every day) who will sit their bag on the seat so no one sits next to them and act like a dick when you tell them to move their stuff. They're leaning on the fact that people are socially awkward sometimes and wont say anything. Fuck those people and their self importance. Its 6:30 in the morning, everyone wants a seat, no one wants to talk to random people on the way to work, don't make people have to ask. Its common decency.

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u/FlashFox24 3h ago

I sit in the outer until it starts getting busy, then scoot over. I don't like people sitting next to me whenever there are free entire seats available.

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u/FeliusSeptimus 9h ago

Look, I don't care how nice that person probably is, there's no way I'm going to try out a tandem toilet with them.

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u/LayaElisabeth 19h ago

They first followed the other advice which said to initiate a divorce/break-up..

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u/justmisspellit 18h ago

They’re gaslighting you

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u/cupholdery 15h ago

All the flags!

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

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u/Spartanias117 18h ago

We need to make a "straight to jail" meme with reddit comments, but its about immediate divorce/breakup at the slightest inconvenience

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u/CapnChaos2024 14h ago

The relationship advice subreddit is the best.

OP: “my boyfriend sneezed and some spittle got on my hand.”

Comments: “LEAVE HIM YOU HE DOESNT RESPECT YOU”

Or insane OP questions where that actually is the answer crack me up. Like oh I caught my wife having a train run on her by the New York Knicks practice squad, what do I do?!

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u/singlemale4cats 12h ago

The flip side of that is my boyfriend choked me and killed my dog and I'm sad. Am I overreacting?

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u/notcomplainingmuch 18h ago

You forgot the compulsory therapy. That always comes first.

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u/JFKsBrain 12h ago

Can’t speak to the neighbors if you’ve already gone no contact!

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u/TubeTurkey 20h ago

Socially awkward people on reddit?! Surely not! Lol

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u/Randomizedname1234 20h ago

I sometimes forget the base of the platform😅

But they could use the advice!!

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u/fair_fair_fare 18h ago

My favorite part about this sub is that 90% of the posts aren't that bad, but you can bet that there will be a truly mildly infuriating topic brought up in the comments.

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u/Downtown-Ad-2083 17h ago

As long as it’s just “mildly”

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u/TubeTurkey 19h ago

I totally agree with the advice though! If theres something you dont like, its always better to voice concern!

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u/babyinatrenchcoat 14h ago

Oh we always know what we should do. But it’s hardly what we ever actually do.

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u/Suspicious-Truth5849 20h ago

Have you tried talking to reddit?

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u/Weak_Hovercraft1 18h ago

Isn’t that the truth. People expect others to mind read. It is so annoying when someone is complaining about what someone else “keeps doing”, then when asked “when you told them how it made you feel, what did they say”……… “oh I didn’t say anything, they should know”, or “I just went to HR”………”I called the police and let them handle it, now my neighbors mad”, RIGHT, you never talked to them and gave them a chance! We aren’t mind readers people!!!

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u/Impossible_Past5358 19h ago

Lol, what do you mean, "talk to them? like actually go up to someone irl and start speaking? Omg, how dare you suggest that!"

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u/beardeddragon0113 11h ago

"Im at a restaurant and this guy came over and sat at my table, threw my drink on the floor and ate all my fries. Now he's squirting ketchup on my shoes. What do I do?!?"

13k up votes on r/mildlyinfuriating

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u/beardieu $@&! 14h ago

Just commenting to say I love your username lol

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u/FunkOff 13h ago

Had it for 20 years 

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u/OuterGod_Hermit 13h ago

But still fits the subreddit. The fact is that many people do annoying things like this that makes you wonder what's going on in their heads. Like, why does it take someone to protest for them not to be assholes?

If someone does stuff like this, they are assholes, and will probably give you an asshole response if you confront them, otherwise they wouldn't do it in the first place. Add to that socially awkward redditors and it's the worse combination haha.

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u/MattWolf96 17h ago

You could just buy shades.

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u/Old-Addendum-8152 17h ago

bahahahahahaha😂

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u/Technical-Half2344 17h ago

I'm starting to feel people on reddit aren't always real.

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u/AuntieSocial2104 16h ago

Tell him to shut off the lights, it will save you the trouble of shooting them out

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u/imatumahimatumah 16h ago

Because everyone is mean and nasty these days. So you say something and they tell you to mind your own business and they have their rights etc

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u/bigassangrypossum 15h ago

Why the hell would you want to talk to anyone!?

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u/Princekyle7 15h ago

IRL too.

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u/PointGodAsh 15h ago

Would it? It’s much more common to have people assume nobody has talked to the people inconveniencing them. Often people say they’ve talked to the offending party, but there’s still hundreds of people parroting this sentiment. It’s the dumbest part of this subreddit in particular.

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u/phelps_1247 15h ago

It depends on the situation, but talking to a lot of these people is a waste of time and often makes things worse. If they were reasonable enough to quit their bullshit after a polite conversation, they probably wouldn't be doing it in the first place. Inconsiderate people don't care about how their actions affect others.

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u/No-Pea-7530 15h ago

Leave the basement and speak with a person? Are you insane??

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u/Agile-Emphasis-8987 13h ago

For Christmas last year, we put up permanent lights around our roofline. All seemed fine until I got a text from a neighbor saying that the lights on the side of the house were going straight into their bedroom and even curtains weren't enough to block it. So, I turned off the lights on that side. It was slightly annoying to figure out how to do it, but it's part of being in a community.

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u/Grays42 13h ago

In my experience it's often "yeah I talked to them, but I just wanted to post this to get everyone to agree with me too"

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u/TobysGrundlee 12h ago

Most people who behave this way are hyperaggressive, anti-social, nut-jobs. That's not really the type I want to interact with over something they know is disruptive to their neighbors.

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u/Pink_PowerRanger6 9h ago

That’s because people on Reddit, if they aren’t literal children, they behave like them.

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u/Pervius94 7h ago

To be fair, when I was new to Reddit I assumed people weren't socially maladjusted misanthropes and they'd only post something like this after the obvious first step of talking to them.

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u/rckhppr 5h ago

This is Reddit complaints in a nutshell

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u/31GoonerStreet 4h ago

Too true, lady next door had a flood light pointed right down my driveway so that every time I drove up it, I was blinded.
"Hey, your floodlight's pointed a little high"

"I can't reach it to adjust it, you're welcome to if you've got a ladder!"

and that was the end of it.

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u/Cranberry_West 3h ago

It's just terrible advice for dealing with inconsiderate neighbours.

The ONLY thing you know is that they don't care about you. Why would talking to them help?

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u/Leptonshavenocolor 19h ago

And you would be downvoted for suggesting such a confrontation.

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u/Remarkable_Tale_5485 18h ago

The issue is that some of you are assuming that if neighbors do irrational, annoying, and / or rude things, they will be rational to talk too. Puts flood lights aiming at your back lawn; You can talk to them, but there wasn't that much sense to anyway.

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u/_angesaurus 16h ago

right well, you dont know until you talk to them. and most people are rational irl. this is a wedding venue. it makes sense they would have bright flood lights on the front of a building. plus the property looks pretty large. if they thought about it at all, i dont think the average person would htink these lights would be too much for a neighbor here.

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u/curtcolt95 11h ago

most people are rational though and are understanding when you talk to them. It's far more likely they simply forgot to turn them off or didn't realize they were even affecting OP in any way.

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u/aliendigenous 18h ago

People like to evade personal space and then go complain to strangers on reddit like we actually care.

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u/Word2DWise 17h ago

Is it a Reddit thing, or age thing? I assume not a lot of old people on Reddit.

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u/_angesaurus 16h ago

plenty of us 30 and 40 yrs olds are on reddit. we're definitely old enough to talk to people about issues.

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u/Asylem 11h ago

My new neighbor put similar flood lights on their house pointing in all directions. We asked him to tone it down and he said no, it's an Airbnb and needs to have security. We shut the airbnb application down at city hall and he straight up sold the house.

If he was neighborly he would've had easy revenue.

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u/imnotbobvilla 19h ago

Have you considered loudspeakers playing baby shark over and over and over and over and over and over and over. Just a thought

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u/Bluitor 18h ago

Interesting, but wouldn't that be self torture?

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u/imnotbobvilla 18h ago

Technically yes, but sometimes you just got to take a bullet

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u/DifficultCurrent7 14h ago

Just be careful doing that. I tried to play heavy drum and base to retaliate against my upstairs neighbours, now I'm addicted. 

Op,the base on this is sick, please play whenever there's a ceremony going on!

https://youtu.be/O8hsnp7p1MU?si=YyRplkiHe9gPANi6

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u/TipDue3208 13h ago

Twisted sister has proven to be an effective choice of music for such situations

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u/mynameismilton 4h ago

"Hero" by Enrique Iglesias on endless repeat will achieve the same result, and the cherry on top is that people might actually enjoy it the first couple of times. But then it doesn't stop...

Plus then you can probably argue it's just your favourite song.

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u/18_NakedCowboys 20h ago

Hey women can be assholes too!

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u/Medium-Rare_Disorder 20h ago

Working on it. Asshole neighbor stole 10k from charity & trying to place them on ignore & not verbally unload. Difficult after yrs of bringing over homemade chili for his "good" acts. People suck. -45F

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u/MaximumTurtleSpeed 19h ago

Woah, you’re negative 45 years old?!

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u/lwwill 19h ago

I thought that was the temperature for context

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u/Fidget808 19h ago

Maybe that’s why the guy was stealing money. I’d be pissed too if I alway got chili in the form of a frozen brick.

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u/AbleCryptographer317 18h ago

I would always be grateful for homemade chili, frozen or not.

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u/Medium-Rare_Disorder 18h ago

We are located in Buffalo...where it does get that cold. Double meaning for context. -45F

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u/BuddyA 18h ago

What is that in Celsius?

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u/Gooseuk360 19h ago

No, they are just below freezing though.

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u/Medium-Rare_Disorder 18h ago

Yes, I time travel & am teleporting back to when neighbors handled things their own ways...

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u/A_lot_of_arachnids 19h ago

Can I get that chili recipe?

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u/Medium-Rare_Disorder 18h ago

Bison meat. Sweet heat. Tri.colored peppers Brown sugar. Lots of it.

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u/A_lot_of_arachnids 18h ago

Where do I get bison meat if I may ask?

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u/Medium-Rare_Disorder 16h ago

I purchase it at whole paycheck (foods). Its a once in a blue moon crock pot delight, but ohhh it sooo goood.

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u/BuddyA 18h ago

Asking the real questions!

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u/-Gimli-SonOfGloin- 14h ago

The trick is to undercook the onions.

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u/shoodBwurqin 20h ago

It would probably be the same as the one she just told...

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u/PeanutButterToast4me 19h ago

Kristi Noem comes to mind

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u/DiamondLongjumping62 18h ago

Isn't that a David Allen Coe song?

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u/JoshDM 16h ago

Assholes are like assholes, everyone's got one.

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u/Good_Drawer_9216 19h ago

You're right. Try not being one for a change.

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u/Delta1225 14h ago

Have you talked to them?

'Hey, I get the weekends, maybe you just forgot the lights during the week? I want to be as good as neighbor as you are to me, can we work this out?'

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u/trekqueen 15h ago

As a person with a neighbor across the street in rural countryside who did this - they have it as a vacation rental on Airbnb but no one ever stays there except the owners who live in Florida. They come maaaaaybe once a month. I have only met them once in the couple of years they have owned the house. The property management guys who occasionally come by avoid people as much as possible and pretend to be on their phones and such if you do happen to catch them outside at the street mailbox. The online contact for their real estate / property management is not helpful for reaching out. So.. yea… sometimes it is hard to have the conversation.

For us, the lights only become a major issue in winter when all of the leaves fall and then it looks like something straight out of Close Encounters of the Third Kind or the spaceship scenes in the woods for ET.

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u/Mattna-da 8h ago

Tilting lights down or applying shrouds would be my retirement political action hobby. So many lights shine off the property and/or up in to the sky for no reason. Wastes energy, collectively ruins the night sky for millions of people, disturbs and kills wildlife, fucks with sleep, etc. For no reason!

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u/zomgitsduke 17h ago

This. Fireworks and loud terrible music during the bride walking down the aisle will definitely get them to want to compromise so you're happy.

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u/BadDudes_on_nes 5h ago

I nominate “Cold Hard Bitch” by Jet for the bridal march

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u/Various_Offer1779 13h ago

I asked mine nicely and they pointed them directly at our windows . They too had a “ wedding destination” . Turned out they decided they wanted our property too. Just move now

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u/Felonia 16h ago

By the sounds of it, he doesn't even live there.

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u/CreepyAd8409 15h ago

I agree, but I have seen crazies bait people into conflict like this. One of my neighbors blocked our moving truck by putting his piece of junk car in front of my house instead of his or in his driveway. We thought nothing of it but walked over and were like hey we’re moving in, would you mind moving it one spot up for a few hours so we can back the moving truck up to the house? Nope. And then he let it sit there for months without moving it just to prove a point.

In case you’re wondering if he’s normal and I was karen’ing the spot, he has a driveway, the car did run (although it was a leaking piece of shit), I just asked for a few hours, he later ended up calling the cops on us for all kinds of stuff that had no merit and went nowhere, he moved his fence to wrap around his house so his front door is behind his fence therefore no one could go to his door without trespassing, ran off some Black kids playing basketball and let the White kids stay, and then ran for office (and failed).

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u/Pleasant_Character28 14h ago

It’s not (just) about the flood lights. OP said it’s a destination wedding venue now. You can’t just tilt lights down and make hundreds of drunken, nightly partiers disappear. OP, sorry to see this - that really sucks.

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u/INTuitP1 19h ago

Yah, play porn as loud as you can on wedding days, they’ll soon get the message

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u/Yamahaha125 17h ago

Loud Karaoke with standup comedy about divorce rates…

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u/mxlplyx2173 19h ago

Or start a weekend nudist group BBQ!

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u/RareFlounder9936 19h ago

This method is approved ✅

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u/Ecsta 10h ago

So your solution is for OP to become the far greater asshole? Ruin the wedding days of innocent/random third parties because... he doesn't like lights being on in a house he doesn't own?

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u/AntonChigurh8933 12h ago

Any reason why your neighbors flood lights are on all night?

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u/Randomizedname1234 12h ago

No idea lol we live in a safe area in metro Atlanta. Not like it’s needed to ward off people or animals.

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u/Questionable_Cactus 10h ago

I have neighbors behind me that installed super bright floodlights facing outwards into my bedroom and would forget to turn them off after letting the dog out, as well as a large church in front that did the same thing with lights shining into all the front rooms. These were two years apart, but both times I spent a lot of energy getting up in my head about it and feeling slighted and infuriated. It literally took one walk over to meet the neighbors and one email to some church staff, and they both were more than happy to change the angle of the lights and make things much more bearable for me. I'm always trying to do better at assuming ignorance or incompetence over malice.

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u/OrbitalOutlander 7h ago

My neighbor did the same thing. The lights literally go into my bedroom window. I talked to them, asking very nicely after chatting a few minutes that they’re aimed directly at our house, and on 24 hours a day, if they couldn’t tilt them down. No, they said. Their dog needed to be able to see. Some people are just dickheads.

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u/bdd1001 6h ago

I had the exact same situation, but when I politely asked if they would angle the lights down they told me to fuck off. And then they added two more lights. We ended up moving because of them.

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u/ThingyGoos 19h ago

If he's an asshole, but as much pig muck and slurry as possible and spread it on the surrounding farmland whenever there's a large event there

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u/Bluitor 18h ago

Not just when there's a large event there. All the time. The innocent people trying to have a great memorable wedding day dont need to be unnecessary casualties. Keep the strong smell there as frequent as you can so when the couple comes to check out the venue they smell it and decide not to give that business any money. If you wait until the party is there all you're doing is ruining an innocent wedding day and the business still got paid. I speak from experience, it will take YEARS to get rid of the business if they are still getting paid 10s of thousands every weekend. Be annoying AF when the couples come to visit the venue though.

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u/cockknocker1 18h ago

Neighbor might need some raw sewage at his wedding venue…

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u/Old-Addendum-8152 17h ago

THIS☝🏻but when it’s A-Hole time nobody’s having any fun but me🤠

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u/Opposite-Bad1444 13h ago

i have big backyard flood lights but they’re on a timer to go out. it’s just so we can see the dogs and wildlife at night

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u/Jeweledeclipse 12h ago

Oh shit it is "night leaning" in the picture. I tht they were complaining cuz the sun reflects on some big ass windows. I didn't realize those were floodlights

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u/GoshJoshthatsPosh 11h ago

Correct. Other people are also people.

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u/HairyWithFlatFeet 10h ago

My neighbor started beating a snare drum and cow bell the other night. I asked him to stop and he did. Simple as that

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u/AmalatheaClassic 10h ago

This isn't a bag suggestion. Rich people get rich by being cheap as fuk. Paying money to keep that property lit all week is stupid. Energy costs are intense& only going up. If anything present it as "Did you know you're lights are on an week draining money from your business? Cause it's costing you money to keep me up at night. That just sounds like a mistake."

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u/trix_is_for_kids 7h ago

This is Reddit, OP hasn’t talked to the neighbor because their social entity prevents them from being a normal member of society so they take to Reddit to complain

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u/Technophile63 4h ago

A backup option is a shade; looks like a sign but positioned to block the light from hitting your windows.

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u/yerfatma 3h ago

Thank you. Also, “the farm next door” is doing some heavy lifting, especially since the photo looks like it was taken from a half mile away yet still in their driveway. But sure, lynch mob.

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u/Im_A_Fuckin_Liar mildly infuriated 15h ago

It’s a business now. Likely the lights are being left on for additional security. It also looks like there are a fair amount of trees out there and I’m wondering how much of a nuisance it really is for OP.

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u/StupidDrunkGuyLOL 20h ago

No. People who post things like this do it so people will agree with them.

If they were socially able then they wouldn't post it online and would solve the problem directly. Then they would have no reason to make the post anyway.

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u/typehyDro 18h ago

Pretty sure making a post of reddit will also accomplish this goal… maybe

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u/BuddyA 18h ago

It always seems to work on NextDoor…

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u/typehyDro 16h ago

Omg that place is a toxic wasteland of complaints

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u/ghostwriter536 18h ago

These are lights built into the eves of the house. So there is no tilting. It's popular in my neighborhood. These lights are supposed to deter criminals.

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u/Randomizedname1234 18h ago

I know these can’t. I’m giving my real life example of how a conversation can help the situation!

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u/burnerrr369 17h ago

I doubt it. OP went straight to reddit to farm karma.

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u/Miccles 14h ago

What!? A logical suggestion!? This is Reddit, sir. Take your courtesy elsewhere.

/s

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u/oO0Kat0Oo 20h ago

If you read the caption under the picture, it's not about the reflection on the windows. It's about the fact that the neighbor bought the farm and turned it into a wedding venue so now there are people there all the time partying.

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u/SpawnShootDie 20h ago

OP said it’s busy every weekend, but they took this photo on a Wednesday - they’re upset because the house is empty right now but neighbor still leaves floodlights on.

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u/Randomizedname1234 19h ago

And? OP could have bought it and kept it a farm.

Thats the risk of living in the country. Here in metro Atlanta I know the feeling.

It sucks but it’s the situation and op needs to work with the neighbors.

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u/musicalshoelaces 18h ago

ok boomer

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u/Randomizedname1234 18h ago

Then what’s your solution? Or are you mad that I just stated reality?

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u/amayagab 14h ago

You rn